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Atepe
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Posted on: May 20 2002,03:45 |
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Me and this girl ... both care a lot about each other ... both are special to the other person. But when I ask her to go out with me she says "I don't want to do that because I don't want to hurt you." I can understand that. She knows I love her, I know she loves me, but if she really felt that way would she say what she did? I talked to her about it and she said to give her a couple days to think it over. That was last Thursday, I talked to her tonight, Sunday, and she fucking hung up on me. Her: Hello? Me: Hey Her: I'm going to bed I'll call you tomorrow okay? Bye ::Click:: What the fuck man!? I called her back and she got all put out that I would do such a hidious thing. I have no idea if she's mad or is just trying to avoid me. I don't think that's the case, but it's pretty fucked up. I told her I wanted to be with her and that I love her a lot and I think we'd be good together because we both care about each other, but she's being so immature about everything. I asked her if I should back off and she said no she didn't want me to. But she's really confusing me. I asked her what she wanted and that's when she said gimme a couple days to think it over. I'm thinking if the next conversation doesn't get us anywhere I'm just gonna give up on it. It's not worth all the shit I go through. I wonder what she thinks about all this, I was supossed to talk to her about it, like I said, but she fucking hung up on me. I think she's mad at me Or she just plain ol' didn't wanna talk. Maybe I'm thinking too deep on this one.
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editor
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Posted on: May 20 2002,09:57 |
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... so give it a couple of days then.
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ic0n0
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Posted on: May 20 2002,10:27 |
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umm i do not think they like being called bitchs.
-------------- "I don't have the evidence to prove that God doesn't exist, but I so strongly suspect he doesn't that I don't want to waste my time." (Isaac Asimov)
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damien_s_lucifer
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Posted on: May 20 2002,11:44 |
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Quote (editor @ 20 May 2002,01:57) | ... so give it a couple of days then. |
my thoughts exactly.
meanwhile, have you thought that she's undoubtably as confused and upset as you are? and that by pushing the issue you're making it worse for both of you?
patience is a virtue for a reason, my friend.
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BlackFlag
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Posted on: May 20 2002,12:17 |
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Walk away. If she runs after you, good. If not, you have a head start in the right direction.
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Wolfguard
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Posted on: May 20 2002,13:10 |
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Quote (ic0n0 @ 20 May 2002,05:27) | umm i do not think they like being called bitchs. |
how about boo boo kitty fuck?
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Atepe
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Posted on: May 20 2002,13:50 |
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Quote (damien_s_lucifer @ 20 May 2002,03:44) | have you thought that she's undoubtably as confused and upset as you are? and that by pushing the issue you're making it worse for both of you? |
I HAVE Given it a couple of days and I'm positive she's as confused as I am, but still ... that doesn't mean we should just forget about the whole thing does it? If I walk away and "get a head start in the right direction" I know she wont run after me, she's not the type to do that. I think she wants to see me try at least. If I blow everything off and forget about it she'll probably be thinking 'Oh well, he didn't want me anyways' and that's not the case at all. And then she'd either be really sad or pissed off, one of the two, if not both. If she wants to be with me then awesome, if not then I guess that's allright, too. Either way I'm just waiting for her answer ... and I don't want to wait much longer. After last night I was sure she didn't think it a good idea because of her rude-ass behaviour, but then again that could have just been a case of PMS, I don't know. After sleeping on it I thought I'd call her tonight (If she doesn't call me first) and talk to her about this one more time. ONE more time.
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liquid metal
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Posted on: May 20 2002,14:36 |
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Quote | stick it in her butt. she'll thank you later. |
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seriously if she doesn't know if she wants to go out w/ you or not, that means she doesn't want to! just let it go.
Edited by liquid metal on Jan. 01 1970,01:00
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Beldurin
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Posted on: May 20 2002,15:40 |
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Quote (liquid metal @ 20 May 2002,08:36) | Quote | stick it in her butt. she'll thank you later. |
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seriously if she doesn't know if she wants to go out w/ you or not, that means she doesn't want to! just let it go. |
I resent that being credited to Rhydant...that's my tagline!! He quoted it from me!!
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You haven't solved anything.
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liquid metal
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Posted on: May 20 2002,18:29 |
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Quote (Beldurin @ 20 May 2002,10:40) | Quote (liquid metal @ 20 May 2002,08:36) | Quote | stick it in her butt. she'll thank you later. |
</rhydant>
seriously if she doesn't know if she wants to go out w/ you or not, that means she doesn't want to! just let it go. |
I resent that being credited to Rhydant...that's my tagline!! He quoted it from me!! |
he said it way before you!
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