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melk0r 
I am almost one of Us.
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Posted on: Mar. 07 2001,22:55 |
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i find the same problem AS WELL.. i guess you dont want other problems, you want answers, but here you have it. i have several friends that are girls, and i watch as they like every single guy that gives them the time of day, and they wont even look twice at me. i am sensitive.. im handsome, but not like sexy.. so i think they can say "sensitive this, sensitive that" all they want, but when they truly like someone for who they are (which rarely happens, its like 75\% physical) then i will not consider them as hypocrites.
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solid
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Posted on: Mar. 08 2001,01:20 |
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Well.. for those of us who aren't in uni (either high school or.. ..... high school =p) It's pretty obvious they'll do anything for the cute guys. Considering how in junior high school most of them were probably all over those idiots in pop bands and stuff.
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fire_502
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Posted on: Mar. 08 2001,01:51 |
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be confident around girls. if you don't feel confident, pretend you are. no one wants to date a wishy washy guy. and don't discount those platonic friends. i never understood the whole asking-out-strangers thing. every guy i have ever fallen for has been a really really good friend before i even thought about dating them...but maybe that's where i need a guy's opinion, because that has not exactly been working out well for me lately.
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damien_s_lucifer
Emperor of Detnet
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Posted on: Mar. 08 2001,07:15 |
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I know how you feel, ic0n0. Sometimes I feel like I must be damn ugly, because girls don't seem to want to jump in bed with me. But then I see guys who don't look like anything special with outrageously beautiful women, and I wonder if it's not my looks but my personality... and so on. It's horrible.Right now, the real problem is probably that you want something deeper and more meaningful than most girls want. Look- as a general rule, men are the romantics. Women are more practical. From what I've gathered from many years of complaining to my female friends, a lot of times the way a woman picks who she's in a relationship with has less to do with love than what she thinks she can get from the relationship. It's later on, when women become more independent, that they start really wanting a man who is nice and sensitive and loyal. And having a woman count you as "close friends" is more of a compliment than you realize (I forget it a lot of times, too  ). Again, women are more practical than us men - if you don't force them by being a prick, they won't sleep with you not because they don't think you wonderful, but because they do. It's their way of making sure the thing they have with you doesn't go away in a couple months. For now, I'd suggest going to these close women friends and ask for their help in making you look cute. They WILL help you, and unlike most male friends they'll understand that you're lonely and want a girlfriend and that that is ok.
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luth13n
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Posted on: Mar. 09 2001,04:18 |
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Oh, come on, guys, by saying that all women are just after sex and men are the "real romantics," you're as bad as the women who claim that all that men are after is sex.
I know the former isn't true. Hopefully the latter isn't either.
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