I don't want to sound optimistic (people like that are just so ignorant most the time) but it's probably not that bad. Does this girl have a brother? Old friend? Dad? The possiblities are endless. And I have been in a situation like this.../nick PersonGuy
Yeah, anyways... end of school year, this chick and me have liked each other for a long ass time but never really "went out" or anything. Week and a half before last day of school, I just walked up and said "hey kristine (odd how it's the same name... you don't live in North Carolina, do you?), wanna go out sometime?" and that started it. Last day of school was the last time I saw her. We talked a couple times over summer break, but the second to last time I talked to her was on gaim (or aim, if you prefer) and some dude she's known for a really long time was talking for a bit... he told me all this stuff about how her parents really like him and how they want her and him to go out and crap (which is true, I've been told so by many of her old friends).
Couple weeks later i went to a water park with my sister's church youth group, flirted like crazy with a bunch of the female life guards and food thing attendents, and figured "fuck that bitch, I'm just hook up with someone else " and ever since I've actually noticed my stress level has *greatly* decreased I'm a happy most of the time.
/nick SpydirWeb
So yeah, just try to figure out who joel was and if it's over it's over. trust me, life ain't over
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