Search Members Help

» Welcome Guest
[ Log In :: Register ]

Page 1 of 212>>

[ Track This Topic :: Email This Topic :: Print this topic ]

reply to topic new topic new poll
Topic: Parents and "music".< Next Oldest | Next Newest >
 Post Number: 1
Greedo Search for posts by this member.
FNG
Avatar



Group: Members
Posts: 16
Joined: Sep. 2000
PostIcon Posted on: Oct. 01 2000,19:35  Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE

I listen to hip hop/rap (among other types of music). My parents seem to believe that _all_ bands in the rap/hip hop genre are producing a negative image. And in a way, it's hard to blame them.. a lot of rap and hip hop is glorifying theft, killing, and using women. Personally, I tend to stay away from most of that... even still, my parents have a beef with what I'm listening to. (the roots, lauryn hill, talib kweli, dead prez, etc).
It seems ri-goddamn-diculous!!!

They even protest a song called "be healthy", with lyrics like "lentil soup is mental fruit, and ginger root is good for the yute". I explain it and explain it to them and they just don't seem to catch on.

Anyone else have the same problem?
Suggestions? Opinions?
Maybe I should just blare some eminem and perhaps _then_ they'll realize...

...
They also refer to it as anything _but_ "music." I've been tempted to break out the dictionary, but I'm just too damn lazy.

------------------
"Yes, I am an agent of Satan, but my duties are largely ceremonial."

This message has been edited by Greedo on October 01, 2000 at 02:44 PM

Offline
Top of Page Profile Contact Info WEB 
 Post Number: 2
Sithiee Search for posts by this member.
FNG
Avatar



Group: Members
Posts: 1941
Joined: May 2000
PostIcon Posted on: Oct. 01 2000,20:04 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE

nope, i dont have that problem, my parents dont seem to care that much...but you could analyze the music they listen to and twist it into a negative image...everything is relative
Offline
Top of Page Profile Contact Info 
 Post Number: 3
Vigilante Search for posts by this member.
Unrequited Lover
Avatar



Group: Members
Posts: 719
Joined: May 2000
PostIcon Posted on: Oct. 01 2000,20:51 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE

What's wrong with the glorification of crime and using women?
Offline
Top of Page Profile Contact Info WEB 
 Post Number: 4
Greedo Search for posts by this member.
FNG
Avatar



Group: Members
Posts: 16
Joined: Sep. 2000
PostIcon Posted on: Oct. 01 2000,21:16 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE

What's wrong with it? Ohh lord, I hope you're joking. : )

A lot of teens these days are very influential.. I used to hang out with a lot of people who have gotten into SO much shit with the law, because they want to live the "thug/gangsta life".. it can completely change certain people.

Of course, people with their heads on straight that still listen to rather explicit lyrics (eminem, tupac, etc) are totally fine. You just have to stay aware and be true to yourself.

I'm just saying I've seen a lot of people completely lose focus and become so corrupt with the idea of being just like their favourite musical artist that they've seriously injured others, have a criminal record, have a terrible relationship with their parents, etc.

------------------
"Yes, I am an agent of Satan, but my duties are largely ceremonial."

Offline
Top of Page Profile Contact Info WEB 
 Post Number: 5
jrh1406 Search for posts by this member.
FNG
Avatar



Group: Members
Posts: 169
Joined: May 2000
PostIcon Posted on: Oct. 02 2000,00:54 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE

I guess i'm lucky in that respect, I listen to the same music my mom listens to. The only music that i listen to that my mom doesn't like is Billy Joel.
Offline
Top of Page Profile Contact Info 
 Post Number: 6
dido Search for posts by this member.
FNG
Avatar



Group: Members
Posts: 49
Joined: Oct. 2000
PostIcon Posted on: Oct. 15 2000,02:11 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE

quote:
Originally posted by Greedo:
What's wrong with it? Ohh lord, I hope you're joking. : )


Of course, people with their heads on straight that still listen to rather explicit lyrics (eminem, tupac, etc) are totally fine. You just have to stay aware and be true to yourself.


Sounds like you have your head on straight there Greedo. I listen to Eminem and not only am I a straight A student I'm also a *gasp* woman. Basically it comes down to this, if the song really offends me I don't listen to it. I take the good with the bad in most other songs.

As for your parents, I don't know if there's a whole lot you can do about that. I remember when I was a teenager, my parents thought the music I listen to was "devil music", of course that was after my NKOTB phase (don't go there!). Basically if you don't listen the the stuff the parents listen to, they tend to think its all bad. However most grin and hope you grow out of it, and others (like mine) just ignore it even to this day.

------------------
If the world were perfect would we be happy?

Offline
Top of Page Profile Contact Info 
 Post Number: 7
askheaves Search for posts by this member.
Ack!!!
Avatar



Group: Members
Posts: 1955
Joined: Sep. 2000
PostIcon Posted on: Oct. 16 2000,20:42 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE

jrh: yeah... Billy Joel is a little hardcore for most parents... with the spiked blonde hair and the piercings... J/K

I listen to Eminem. I love it. I downloaded his first album, and because I loved it so much, bought the second one. My brother (who loves everything rap) hates Eminem. I think it's probably because he's only heard the radio stuff. My parents ridicule my brother (that's how we show love in our family) for his music choices, but respect his listening... unless they want to watch TV and he has had BET on for 7 hours straight.
My mom actually really likes one rap band: Das Rődelheim Hartreim Projekt. They are a German rap duo that I found about 5 years ago while in Germany. I recommend trying to find them if you can... they are very talented, although broken up.

Offline
Top of Page Profile Contact Info 
 Post Number: 8
pengu1nn Search for posts by this member.
I am almost one of Us.
Avatar



Group: Members
Posts: 499
Joined: Sep. 2000
PostIcon Posted on: Oct. 18 2000,15:44 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE

i'd like to bitch slap eminem!
a couple of times.
then hang him upside down so all the blood in his body would flow to his brain, hopefully this would cause him much pain and make him think about how much of a fuckin loser he is (imo), and he would realize he isn't cool, he isn't tuff, and that if he keeps up his shit he's going to piss of someone (i.e. icp/everlast/whoeverelse) who will beat him into a bloodly plup.

Offline
Top of Page Profile Contact Info 
 Post Number: 9
Rol3x Search for posts by this member.
DetVet
Avatar



Group: Members
Posts: 196
Joined: May 2000
PostIcon Posted on: Oct. 19 2000,21:37 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE

ok first of all, if all the blood in your entire bodyu rushed to your head, you would die. id also like to add that just hanging him upside down would not cause this to happen. more then the normal amount of blood, yes, not all of it. thats why we have a heart, so our blood circulates, (thats a new word that you should look into learning) and doesnt sit in our feet. think about that, it should make sense to you. second of all, i was about to bitch at you for not liking eminem, but then you can have whatever opinion you want, which is why id like to state that i feel eminem kicks ass, and you just suck.. a lot. why dont you go watch ICP wrestle in the ecw or something. about parents and music, my dad is into a lot of rock, ie: frank zappa, asia, the doors, and an assload of other bands. and i like a lot of those bands too, but the majority of the music i listen to is rap or hip hop, i mean, i like bush a lot too, but it just doesnt sound as cool in a car with 10 inch subs as some rap stuff does. anyways, ive on several occasions gotten my dad to listen to a lot of my music. yesterday we were sportin a cd i burned with 19 of my newest rap/hip hop songs on it, and he prefered eminem over some of the others like Shyne, Big L, or Big pun.
Offline
Top of Page Profile Contact Info 
 Post Number: 10
askheaves Search for posts by this member.
Ack!!!
Avatar



Group: Members
Posts: 1955
Joined: Sep. 2000
PostIcon Posted on: Oct. 19 2000,22:04 Skip to the previous post in this topic.  Ignore posts   QUOTE

For the record, I actually like Eminem and ICP. I actually made my way to an ICP concert in my last days in Milwaukee. It was a pretty good show, saw a lot of T in the audience, and everybody got sprayed with Faygo. I would have gone to the Eminem concert, but I was so broke that I couldn't afford a sandwich, much less tickets to his concert.

Also, back to Greedo's original post: The Roots kicks ass. Especially Rahzel. EVERYBODY! You need to download Rahzel - If your mother only knew . For the love of god, trust me. It is the coolest 2 minutes in audio history and you'll be playing it at parties, for your friends, for strangers, etc.

Offline
Top of Page Profile Contact Info 
13 replies since Oct. 01 2000,19:35 < Next Oldest | Next Newest >

[ Track This Topic :: Email This Topic :: Print this topic ]


Page 1 of 212>>
reply to topic new topic new poll

» Quick Reply Parents and "music".
iB Code Buttons
You are posting as:

Do you wish to enable your signature for this post?
Do you wish to enable emoticons for this post?
Track this topic
View All Emoticons
View iB Code