I realised recently that the guys who say they are "nice guys" are really just assholes in disguise. The real issue is that just about every guy thinks hes a nice guy. The truth is that they are no better than those assholes and pricks they so vehemently chastise. Think about it. You are sitting home on a friday night thinking "WHy dont I have a date" and then to make yourself feel better you say "Its because Im too much of a nice guy that no one wants to go out with me" tell me does this make sense?

I can tell you from direct experience that all girls no matter what they say want nice guys to date them. Who wants to date a real jackoff? When you first meet someone you think they are a nice person you have a few dates with them next thing you know you are in love with that person. You dont realise they are an asshole because all during that time they were hiding it from you. I have no doubt that their are some seriously good guys out there. Most of them if they are such are already taken, married or gay- the rest thats left are the assholes who think they are nice guys and thats why they are sitting at home on a friday night wondering why they dont have a date.

As for me and my ex- we arent talking any more because he's too much of a baby to deal with the shit that has happened. I decided last week (thats right all time Ive been absent in this place IVe been dealing with this shit) that it isnt worth my time to talk to him because he will never treat me with any kind of respect. I got my stuff back from him and that was the end of it. I wont say its been easy this past week- but I do know that I can no longer be hurt by his indecisiveness or his hypocracy.

However, with your rants on men, there's always a tails side to the coin. I've gone out with girls before who were the nicest chicks in the world. It didn't take too long, but many turn out to be heinous bitches. They'll be all nice for a while, but then one or two things will slip that should be warning signs, but they're not.

Then, they become controlling, evil, smothering, and they withhold all sorts of sex from you. It's like, I agree that communication is important, and it's definitely good to tell them when you can't make plans or need to change them... but we're so scared to do it because of the reaming we're gonna get just for changing them.

I'm gonna stop now because I've got some issues. I'm a better person for living through them, but I don't need to relive them. Just trying to say that men are assholes, but women have their problems too.

the fact that people say men can be nasty... well DUH! so can women too. women just say that sometimes cos the guy they were going out with was more of an asshole than the rest of us. if life were perfect it'd be pretty fucking boring!

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The problem with me is after 2 days of being my friend, I start complaining about my family! Hell I even warn people, they get weirded out, but they still hang around, and at the end they usually start to complain.

I mean I'd stop, and I do, but sometimes I can't help it.

This message has been edited by solid on April 27, 2001 at 09:24 AM

Here comes a flame

edit: not every just the ones I like??

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If you have multiple personalties and think about suicide is it a hostage situation???

This message has been edited by just_dave on April 23, 2001 at 03:24 PM

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You are sitting home on a friday night thinking "WHy dont I have a date" and then to make yourself feel better you say "Its because Im too much of a nice guy that no one wants to go out with me" tell me does this make sense?

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well that's inductive logic for ya