i tried going down on my g/f and she was constantly telling me how to do it. its good because i want to do what makes her feel good but its kind of distracting

Adam: I hate to sound crass but the reason they call it pussy is because, well, it's like, you hand a cat like you handle the vagina -- here's the deal. A cat is really a vagina with paws.

If you approach the vagina like you approach a cat, see, a cat will let you know immediately. If you goose the cat or smack the cat, it's out of there. Take a cat -- and I don't get an erection or anything around cats, it's just an analogy -- you can't go against the grain. You can't just grab it's head. That's why a cat never hangs out with a kid, because a kid grabs the ear and starts bending it in weird directions -- and that thing is out of there.

First off, you have to approach a cat slowly or you can't even really approach it. You can't go running up to it. It's out of there. Same with the vagina. You can't charge at the vagina -- you have to move in slowly Put your hand out, let it sniff it a little bit, make sure everything is cool. Then even move in and wait for the vagina to come in to you a little bit, you know what I mean -- sort of work rhythmically, no poking, no roughhousing, no going against the grain, don't change things up all the time, establish a little pattern. The cat wil let you know by starting to lean in a little bit.

Dr. Drew: People ought to practice on cats.

Adam: They really should. People are going to take this the wrong way and think we're going weird things to cats.

Dr. Drew: Use only your hand when practicing on a cat.

Adam: A cat will let you know by purring, by becoming more relaxed, more settled in your lap. Let's say it's on your lap and you're doing something it doesn't like -- you can feel it sort of tense up a little, getting ready to bolt off the lap. And women are the same way.

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There goes my famed "cunt-headbutting" technique.

This message has been edited by DuSTman on January 28, 2001 at 02:34 PM

after some kissing and activity above the waist, you will want to slide your hands down your female's body. pinch her nipples a bit. run your fingers over her belly. undo her pants. squeeze her ass. whisper nice things to her. tell her that you want her. slowly pull her pants down/off. don't take her panties off yet.

now, rub her pussy gently through her panties. trace your fingers lightly over her. tease her by running your fingers up and down the insides of her thighs and along the waist of her panties. if she's feeling wet, work your finger between her lips *through the panties*. tease her like this for a while. listen to her responses. follow her directions.

run your fingers along the very edge of her panties between her legs. listen to the noises she's making. pay close attention to her breathing. if she's shivering, it's probably a good time to start taking off her panties. pull them off slowly. slide them down over her ass. rub her bare ass. squeeze it. pull her panties down over her knees, rub the outsides of her legs, down to her ankles.

move your hands around her ankles and *slowly* rub back up the insides of her legs. kiss her ankles. her calves. the insides of her knees. *very very* lightly, run your fingertips over the insides of her thighs.

kiss her there. *do not touch* her pussy yet. kiss her at the hip bones, and just below her belly button. trace your fingers all the way up the inisdes of her thighs, but stop just before you get to her pussy.

rub your dry fingertips *very very* gently over the outside of her lips. do this a few times. kiss the insides of her thighs, moving closer to her pussy. now dip one finger between her lips and let it get nice and wet. slide it up and down her slit and in and out of her hole.

rub her clit a little (for those of you who don't know, that's the little thing that feels like a pencil eraser). lick the insides of her thighs, and the outsides of her lips. slowly let just the tip of your tongue between her lips while gently rubbing her clit. move your finger away from her clit and use your tongue. start slowly at first, then slowly change pace, keep things varied. spread her lips with your fingers. use two fingers of your other hand inside her. slide them in and out slowly, get them very wet.

suck on her clit. don't use your teeth or you might hurt it. bend your fingers with your palm toward her belly and make the "come here" motion. follow her responses. do not panic if it suddenly gets very, very wet. that's just her way of lettin you know you're doing things right.

from there, you'll figure it out on your own. girls will usually make noise and react and you'll know what she wants.

happy licking!

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kuru
'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
-robert frost

thanks kuru

*bow*

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kuru
'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
-robert frost