Well from what I've seen there are three basic types of girls, in regards to how they treat boys:1. Girls who want boyfriends just for aesthetic appeal, they don't really care about the guy, and the relationships usually don't last more than 2 weeks because they're not really relationships.
2. Girls who really care about the guy, but because they have had not-so-great boyfriends in the past and have gotten burned, they don't speak their mind all the time, and consequently if something bothers them they'll keep quiet until they can't stand it any longer and will procede to drop the bomb on the unsuspecting guy.
3. Girls who really care about the guy, that tell him everything, that basically make the guy their best friend and then add the relationship stuff on top of it.
Now ideally everyone prolly wants a 3. 1's are easy enough to spot, but 2's are pretty hard. With a 2, everything might seem ok... you can even ask, and they'll lie right to your face. However they can't help it, and that's what sucks so much about this. They're not consciously trying to put their guys through hell, but it's what happens.
Ok, I bet the reason I'm writing this is pretty obvious. Maybe it should have gone in the rant section, BUT, let's see if we can find any way to deal with the 2's. First of all, it doesn't make any sense. I mean eventually you can tell that something's bothering them... by then it's too late. So you can either ask before it becomes obvious and get a "everything's fine" or wait until something gets too far and then it's too late. HOW ARE WE SUPPOSED TO COPE WITH THIS!? Girls are SO COMPLICATED! Gah, maybe this is the only time I'd want to be a girl instead.
One more note, the lying thing. I don't get it... let's say boy likes girl. For example, boy thinks there are too many taxes, girl doesn't. Girl says she doesn't care if boy thinks differently than her on this. Thats fine, the boy doesn't either because taxes have nothing to do with their relationship. Girl is type 2, so for some reason eventually the way boy thinks about taxes gets to her. She just waits, doesn't say anything about it. So then 2 weeks down the road she can't take it anymore, and drops the bomb on boy, who is completely unsuspecting and pretty much does a double take wondering "did i miss something or were we just making out two hours ago..." Sigh.
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Ah screw it.
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