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i was thinking.. and i usually put a lot of thought into my sexual patterns, or like how the best way to do something or instigate it would be. one good example of this would be how to make progress and the steps i would follow:

kissing -> making out -> heavy petting -> getting comfortable with casual or unintentional grazes with boobs -> boobs outside shirt -> boobs inside shirt -> boobs w/ bra off -> taking off shirt -> sucking on boobs -> fingering through underwear (like just lightly rubbing) -> moving undies to side -> taking undies off -> eating out -> having sex.

this of course is for the super majorly slow taking baby steps type of woman. what i am wondering, is how in the fuck am i casually or smoothly supposed to take the shirt off. i mean, there is no way possible. (except "how in the hell can i give you a decent massage with your shirt on? )

keep in mind i have to move slowly, if this at all is feasible. i dont know how far my girlfriend would be comfortable to go, but i havent been rejected so far. (ok.. once.)

any suggestions?

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sucking on boobs -> fingering through underwear (like just lightly rubbing) -> moving undies to side -> taking undies off -> eating out

er? Slow down tiger. Especially if it's your first time with this girl. Dunno how old you are/she is, but might be insecure with her body. Don't rush is all I'd say. What about "kissing all over her body from neck to hips to feet and back up to panty line"? Take it slowly. That's my advice. Works sometimes.
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er? Slow down tiger. Especially if it's your first time with this girl. Dunno how old you are/she is, but might be insecure with her body. Don't rush is all I'd say. What about "kissing all over her body from neck to hips to feet and back up to panty line"? Take it slowly. That's my advice. Works sometimes.

this post was more of a query, but its not like i need the answer instantly. i just saw it as a problem that me and my friends couldnt answer.

me and her are sixteen, and we've been going out almost four months, and during that time i've had to take the babiest of baby steps to make progress. even though i am totally inexperienced, (hell, SHE TAUGHT ME HOW TO KISS) i have a feeling that if i was stumbling around, unsure of what to do, that i wouldnt be getting anywhere. i've had to put a lot of thought into any move that im going to make sexually.

and wouldnt i need her shirt off to kiss from her neck to her feet and then back? kissing cotton just DOESNT sound appetizing.
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Well... you sound gun-hoe... but you're overlooking something: you're treating her as a sexual object. Meaning you're only planning the things that you are going to do TO her. Don't you realize that she may also be planing what SHE wants to do!? Mabey she isn't as far in HER plan as you are in YOURS.

My point is... if you're being flat out rejected, you're going to fast for her... if YOU think it's a fair pace ask her why you "next move" is uncomfortable for her. And if you can't TALK about sex with her... you're (plural "you") not ready.

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PostIcon Posted on: Jun. 17 2001,18:51 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
Well I am not an expert on this matter. But even if it's only theoretical and mostly based on wishful thinking, you might want a lady's opinion:

how to take a shirt of in a smooth or casual manner?

Well, first of all GO SLOW. Then, make sure she wants it too. Simply ask her whether you can take it off (either with words, or with gestures/eyes/kisses). Tell her that she is beautiful! No matter if she knows how much you love her... she'll probably be shy at first. Be soft. Be gentle. Caress her. Talk to her. Find out what she likes. Kiss her neck. etc. etc. etc....

Your idea about massage isn't bad either.

Okay I'll stop before I get too lost in this topic...

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well i really didnt want to get into our whole relationship, cause telling our whole relationship and how close we are would just take a long time, and it would be unnecessary for the simple question i asked. but yes, i do treat her as a person, in fact, i realized (this may sound weird) that when im kissing her i get so lost in that, that the thought of doing anything else sexually to her doesnt even cross my mind. SERIOUSLY. i just had a problem, something of a enigma, and that is:

how in the hell do you get a shirt off in a casual or smooth way?

ps: personguy, i really dont treat her like a sex object, actually. i am very attatched, and yes, i have thought about the idea that im moving too fast, and all that bullshit. and every time i tell someone in school or something who my girlfriend is, i can see that look go across their face like "how in the hell did he get her" and it tears me to pieces. mostly because i DONT know how i got her, and i must have this feeling that i could lose her at any moment to someone that is more worthy.

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ok i just found the perfect way to word it: this thread had no relevance to my girlfriend whatsoever. it was just something i had stuck on my mind, and i couldnt find one possible solution. better?
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PostIcon Posted on: Jun. 18 2001,14:19 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
Ok... I worded that poorly... I wasn't trying to attack you. I was just saying that with women it's IMPOSSIBLE to write out a mathmatical forumula to get things to work. Just talk it as it comes and watch HER signs and HER prompts. That's what I meant...

How? Light the shirt on fire and the it will come off pretty quick!

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what kind of shirt this hypothetical chick is wearing
does it have buttons? is it a tanktop?

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