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spicegoddess 
FNG

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Joined: Apr. 2001
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Posted on: May 01 2001,01:47 |
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ok i know this is a lil risky considering there aren't many girls here but... Why do guys get so comfortable with a situation that they stop putting effort into their relationships?? and... i hate the fact that boys totally misinterpret things. i can't be cool with a guy for very long before he starts to think that "o she wants me..." and totally starts abusing what was a decent friendship. it is so annoying!!!
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CatKnight 
Jedi Republican

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Joined: Dec. 2000
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Posted on: May 01 2001,04:10 |
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well what personguy said is true, but only to an extent. there is this girl that lives on my floor, her name is kristen. anyway, she is sorta shy, but just rediculously gorgeous and intelligent (think of denise richards with dark hair + an intelligent shy chick like kuru for exampe). i think she has a similar problem as you, which is that all the guys she knows either wanna fuck her or wanna be her friend so they have a chance to fuck her. as soon as she breaks up with her current b/f, all her guy friends start hitting on her. i know what she must be going thru tho, so i try to help her out by being a real friend as much as possible. i try my best not to flirt with her, etc. i guess your best bet is just to find guy friends who are already involved or hope you find a dorky guy like me in a similar situation. anyway, sorry i cant really offer any advice, just condolences.
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jim 
Asshole

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Posted on: May 01 2001,14:00 |
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Every girl at work that is height/weight proportionate gets their ass stared at if they dare walk in front of me. I also do naughty things to them in my mind.Every woman friend I've ever had, I've thought about banging them at least once, and about 90\% of them have had the pleasure of me spanking it to them more than once. This includes my cousin's wife, lot's of my friends girlfriends/wives. I still pleasure myself to some of my ex-girlfriends even though I'm very close to being engaged. It's just the nature of the beast. But just because I have these thoughts, and act on them alone by myself, doesn't make me a bad person. I still love my girlfriend, and I have never, and will never cheat on ANYONE ever. Nor, will I ruin a friendship with a girl, just because I'd love to stick my crank in her. So all I'm saying is I think about it all the time, but I've never gone after a friend, a taken women, or gone after greener pastures while involved with a woman. ------------------ jim Beauty is in the eye of the Beer Holder Brews and Cues
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askheaves 
Ack!!!

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Joined: Sep. 2000
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Posted on: May 01 2001,15:50 |
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quote: Originally posted by PersonGuy: And, ask-man... all this time I thought you were over 30! Weird... I don't know how that got in my head...
Really? I guess that explains a lot too. Hell no, I'm less than a year out of school... 4 years... since I was 18... No, Man, No. That's why it's extra funny that I'm balding. (PS. Kuru is older than me) And, I will concede with Jim and PG on all this. I've done the same thing... er, this morning. Doesn't mean things will happen, doesn't mean things will get weird. Guys are capable of being friends with a girl, and leaving all that stuff at home. And it certainly becomes easier around guys who have had experience with rejections, and successes. They tend not to be nearly as desperate, and can put flirting or talking into context. Plus, our self esteem is shot enough to never believe you're coming on to us anyways.
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