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whiskey@throttle 
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Posted on: Mar. 23 2001,07:20 |
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quote:
Originally posted by Kintara:
...if she says "Ill think about it..." again, tell her what you just said to us and ask for a direct answer.
*\%*#\%@* !!! Don't be fooled! The second you tell her what you just told us - asking for a fucking direct answer, to boot - is the same exact second you lose ALL possibility to hook up with her. Dear God, man. This is not the movies. You are not Prince Charming. Here’s a better solution: act like you don't care. In fact, make sure she sees you around other girls. The more she feels that you are unattainable the more attractive you will appear. It helps if you outwit/outperform her boyfriend in some way that discredits his reputation (you beat the self-titled "card shark" at nine straight hands of poker, for example). Be a bit of an asshole, but still light-hearted and humorous. Make her smile. Do not compliment her. If you hug her, don’t let go first. If you talk to her on the phone, hang up first. Don’t buy her anything. Don’t make her trinkets, and most of all – no poetry. quote:
...ask for a direct answer.
Oh, and no ultimatums either.
edit: i fucked it up.
This message has been edited by whiskey@throttle on March 24, 2001 at 02:24 AM
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miNus
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Ok, I dunno if there's any rule against quoting myself but... quote:
Originally posted by miNus:
*snip*she didn't want to get into any relationships now.*snip*I don't mean that I just want her physically
1) I don't want to just "hook up" with her.
2) She doesn't have a boyfriend now.
3) I don't want to play mind games. EDIT: I think I figured out what I am going to do. Next time I see her, I'm going to bring her aside and explain to her how I feel. Then at least she'll know, and if she still doesn't want a relationship, I'll just leave her alone. thx miNus This message has been edited by miNus on March 24, 2001 at 05:17 AM
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whiskey@throttle
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Allow me to translate the female vocabulary:Maybe = No, but I don't want to make you feel bad. Also, as a female, I subconsciously crave attention, and now that you've just displayed your desire and affection for me I know I have the upper hand. I find it flattering, so I'll keep the answer gray and watch you grovel at my feet. It feels good to know guys like me. Oh, and another thing: if you give her an ultimatum and put her on the spot to answer a question that generally requires some degree of time and extended thought to answer...I PROMISE the answer will always be "no." That's a golden rule...the "maybe" forced into a definitive answer will turn into, "it's not that I don't like you..." You can't go up to a girl and say, "tell me now! I'm in love with you and want an answer now!" That shit doesn't work, and you'll only wind up making her feel uncomfortable. It's as if you don't respect her judgement and feelings, and it also makes you look like an impatient stalker. Whether you like "mind games" or not, love is a game and you use your brain to play it. You have a choice as to whether you want to get with it and win, or play by your own rules and fail miserably. Remember, you want to appear both mysterious and important...carry that cool confidence about you when you flirt with her, but still remain distant. Don't hang out with her every chance you get. Make her want to come to you. Make her want to "figure you out." That's all. I assure you will see results. In fact, there's no doubt in my mind.
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