Topic: caring
started by: liquid metal
Posted by liquid metal on Apr. 15 2002,03:19
why do i care about the people that just piss me off later on?
Posted by Uberkommando on Apr. 15 2002,05:09
Don't bother. People suck. Time spent caring about other people would be better spent hurting them or jacking off.
Posted by editor on Apr. 15 2002,06:52
LM, in my old age, it seems that everyone I know will piss me off sooner or later, and vice versa.It's the human condition.
Posted by Jimi on Apr. 15 2002,13:39
I find a good way to look at it is to live by the motto "I hate stupid people". I take about 30 minutes to talk to them and make a judgement, if I think they are stupid that's where the relationship ends... I'll avoid them.
Posted by ic0n0 on Apr. 15 2002,15:25
The only people who really piss me off are the extremely arrogant self-righteous fucks.
Posted by liquid metal on Apr. 15 2002,15:42
Jimi: they spelled judgment the way you did on Futurama last night. Is it correct in britain in or something?BEEEEEEEENDEEEEEERoooo
how do i get rid of my caring nature?!?! i don't want to care anymore?! i can't just be like "ahaha you suck get away from me"
Posted by ic0n0 on Apr. 15 2002,16:18
Use lots of drugs and stop hanging out with friends.
Posted by TheTaxMan on Apr. 15 2002,22:45
| Quote (ic0n0 @ 15 April 2002,08:18) |
| Use lots of drugs and stop hanging out with friends. |
Haha, exactly correct.
Posted by just_dave on Apr. 15 2002,23:37
metal: I know right where you coming from on this one. I am in the same situation.. caring for people then they piss ya off. And it seems to be the ones you like the best that decide to dick ya over. Ain't it grand </sarcasm> But anyways.. it just sucks .. 
-dave
edit: me speel good? NO
Posted by liquid metal on Apr. 16 2002,01:31
drugs actually sound good right about now.
Posted by Uberkommando on Apr. 16 2002,02:57
"Then there is alcohol. Alcohol is great. It makes you forget, and can be useful if you ever need to amputate a leg. Always carry some of your favorite beverage in a Thermos. Don't drink beer, beer is for stupid people. If you drink beer, may you rot in Hell. Alcohol is a big excuse. "Give me a break, man, I was drunk." Fuck you, pal, there are no breaks. Only losers drink at parties. Just sad people drink with other people. Cool people drink alone. You heard me, alone. Alone with an issue of _Stickboy_ and rad music.When you drink alone, you can think. When you drink alone, you don't need other people to impress. Fact. You're drinking. No one needs to know you can drink half a keg without puking. Bar hopping is for faggots. Alcohol will also help you get to sleep when some eternal questions are bugging you to no end."
God bless cDc.
Posted by ic0n0 on Apr. 16 2002,03:19
| Quote (Uberkommando @ 15 April 2002,12:57) |
| "Then there is alcohol. Alcohol is great. It makes you forget, and can be useful if you ever need to amputate a leg. Always carry some of your favorite beverage in a Thermos. Don't drink beer, beer is for stupid people. If you drink beer, may you rot in Hell. Alcohol is a big excuse. "Give me a break, man, I was drunk." Fuck you, pal, there are no breaks. Only losers drink at parties. Just sad people drink with other people. Cool people drink alone. You heard me, alone. Alone with an issue of _Stickboy_ and rad music. When you drink alone, you can think. When you drink alone, you don't need other people to impress. Fact. You're drinking. No one needs to know you can drink half a keg without puking. Bar hopping is for faggots. Alcohol will also help you get to sleep when some eternal questions are bugging you to no end." God bless cDc. |
Are you drinking now? sounds like you are!
Posted by Uberkommando on Apr. 16 2002,03:21
| Quote (ic0n0 @ 15 April 2002,21:19) |
| Are you drinking now? sounds like you are! |
I was quoting from a source. (But yes, yes I am.)
Posted by ic0n0 on Apr. 16 2002,03:29
| Quote (Uberkommando @ 15 April 2002,13:21) | ||
I was quoting from a source. (But yes, yes I am.) |
Ok i thought so.
Posted by liquid metal on Apr. 16 2002,03:45
yay wooooooo everyone get nekkid!!</fake drunkenness>
Posted by ic0n0 on Apr. 16 2002,04:03
I will jiggle my man boobies for you LM!
Posted by TheTaxMan on Apr. 16 2002,06:16
Thou shalt spankith thy multi-headed monkey.
Posted by kuru on Apr. 16 2002,15:32
Because though it is possible to go through life not giving a damn about anything and therefore never being hurt, it's also a waste of time because you can't ever be happy either.No feelings means exactly that - you have to take the risks to get the rewards.
Posted by CycleLady on Apr. 16 2002,19:55
| Quote (kuru @ 16 April 2002,09:32) |
| Because though it is possible to go through life not giving a damn about anything and therefore never being hurt, it's also a waste of time because you can't ever be happy either. No feelings means exactly that - you have to take the risks to get the rewards. |
Right on!
Posted by kuru on Apr. 16 2002,19:57
I've been numb and I've been hurt.I prefer hurt.
You know you're still alive.
Posted by Vigilante on Apr. 16 2002,20:14
| Quote (kuru @ 16 April 2002,14:57) |
| You know you're still alive. |
That's a good thing?
Posted by CycleLady on Apr. 16 2002,20:20
| Quote (kuru @ 16 April 2002,13:57) |
I like to feel alive. Going through life drunk or high is not a life--I tried it and didn't like it. :o
If the reader has taken in my other posts thus far, obviously I've moved onto other things. My life is far more satisfactory, even though it is hectic at times.
Posted by kuru on Apr. 16 2002,22:39
I think that's because it's impossible to actually live if you're constantly so chemically altered you can't grasp reality.At that point it's just existing. And it's pointless.
Posted by BlackFlag on Apr. 16 2002,23:05
| Quote |
| I've been numb and I've been hurt. I prefer hurt. You know you're still alive. |
If i didn't agree with this sentiment, i'd still be taking prozac.
Dear god, i just agreed with KURU!!!!!!!!!!!
/me vomits.
Posted by damien_s_lucifer on Apr. 16 2002,23:17
| Quote (kuru @ 16 April 2002,11:57) |
| I've been numb and I've been hurt. I prefer hurt. |
Hear, hear!
nice thing about being hurt is that you sit down, you cry, you get over it.
numbness is teh sux0r. when you're numb, the icy coldness in your heart just keeps on building. blocking emotions is a very, very bad idea. it's much healthier to just feel them for awhile, then let yourself calm down.
for example - the other night, I got into a big fight with one of my best friends. We both left the scene pissed off at each other. I went home and cried myself to sleep. When I woke up the next day I felt almost fine; the only thing upsetting me was that I missed her.
She, on the other hand, went home and tried to block it out of her mind. The next time we saw each other, she was still miserable and upset. I was happy to see her anyway
BF : weird thing is, I was numb until I started taking Paxil. It calmed my emotions just enough to allow me to feel them... otherwise they were so strong I was always trying to block them out. But raise the dose, and man... I'm a freaking zombie...
Posted by smartsnake on Apr. 17 2002,01:34
I'm not numb at all but I have notcied that the more I care about someone it seems like they care about me less and less. Bleh who cares people suck.
Posted by Beldurin on Apr. 17 2002,04:57
Can we turn off the self-pity now?Everyone has people that they care about screw them over. Most of the time, it's stupid puppy-love crushes and you'll eventually grow up and get over it. Sometimes it's someone really important, and in that case, you just have to get on with your life.
Part of the problem? Self pity is a major turn-off (for guys or girls). Suck it up and get busy living. Rather be hurt than numb? Being numb isn't living, it's hiding. Life is feeling, whether it's joy or pain...and it takes both.