She told me she was crying friday night because she thought there was something going on between me and her friends because when ever she is grounded or something I some how end up talking to her friends about how she got grounded. well her friends told her i stuck around for awhile and now shes fucking mad at me!! she like "if you see them you need to go in the other direction, im not playing" WTF! she runs my life as it is, I can barely see my friends unless shes grounded or at school. I cant talk to her about it because she'll say "ok if thats what you think then leave, if you want to ignore me and shit like that then leave" i think she doesnt trust me and thinks im off with another girl. My ASS! it took me 2 fucking years to find someone to care about besides my mother.

You think im going to give on a challenge? Hell no im going to give up. I doint care how much she pisses me off. I broke up with her once and she started to cry. the reason why i broke up with her was because i listened to what other people think and didnt listen to what my heart said inside. yeah i feal stupid. I'm not going to break up with her, she has to break up with me. I'm tired of hurting other people because ive got a problem. its not worth it.

sorry for the repetitiveness, I just needed to get out somethings that have been bottled up for awhile. heh, thats only the begining. if you want to hear more wait till i get pissed off again. If you want i can type in some of the notes shes written to me.

thanks for reading
Raver-

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It doesnt matter whether you win by an inch or a mile, Winning's winnig-"Fast and the Furious"

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~Anztac [ Pertinaciously disconsolate ]

This message has been edited by DeadAnztac on November 11, 2001 at 07:19 PM

So, unless you completely break her or dump her for good, she'll have that control over you, which she obviously enjoys.

There are far better women out there. And come on, you're 15/16? There are still a few years of sheltered high school left before college, where you have the opportunity to broaden your horizons.

Right now you have more things to be worrying about than whether or not the next step you take is going to set her off.

Have fun and enjoy.

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When 1337 hax0rs start impaling each other with swords and typing code with a hook on one hand, then they can modify the term "pirate."

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Caseman's kewl, he sometimes makes good posts based on small observations.

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For future reference i suggest calling your 4 remaining brain cells together and having them consult with each other before posting any more B.S

Same goes for Raver, really. I certainly wouldn't advise "dropping her ass" based on what little of the story I see here. After all, <Kosh> The truth is a 3-edged sword </Kosh>.

Squabbling over little shit every now and then isn't reason to leave. But SR has painted quite a picture here of a girl that wants to control him and not trust him.

Isn't "Dump his ass" the same advice you'd give to one of your girl friends if she were in a similar situation with a controlling guy, Vainness? "But I love him! He isn't all bad!"

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When 1337 hax0rs start impaling each other with swords and typing code with a hook on one hand, then they can modify the term "pirate."

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Originally posted by Vainness:
Shit there goes my promise not to post in this thread. Ok.
Guy: Im having troubles with my gf... ( he goes on long rant about this and that)
Friend#1: 'Drop her ASS!!'
Friend #2: Yeah, CUT YOUR LOSSES.
Friend #3: ::high fives #1:: 'You're young, man theres tons of broads out there, its called a population man.' Is this like a universal response to guys having troubles with their gf's??? DROP HER ASS???

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If someone isn't happy (or healthy) in a relationship, it's time to end it. Period. Life's too short to keep putting up with mistreatment just because you don't want to hurt the other person, so you hurt yourself. I'm not saying pack it in and run at the first sign of trouble, but if the relationship isn't healthy, then DROP [HIS,HER] ASS!

edit: still can't spell

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When everything is examined for what it really is, the only thing that I can truly claim as my own is the mistakes that I have made.

This message has been edited by Beldurin on November 11, 2001 at 09:50 PM

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Originally posted by incubus:
Smack her upside the head with your meat truncheon.

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Originally posted by afropik:
Smack dat bitch in da toof.

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Well when you put it so eloquently...

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Its a small world after all, its a small world after all, its a small world after all. Its a small small world. -the voices in my head.

This message has been edited by Vainness on November 11, 2001 at 11:04 PM

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Originally posted by StreetRaver:
I'm not going to break up with her, she has to break up with me.

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Originally posted by incubus:
Smack her upside the head with your meat truncheon.

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Originally posted by afropik:
Smack dat bitch in da toof.

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I believe quotes 2 and 3 answer the problem posed in quote 1.

If not, here's a simple way to get her to dump you:

• Screw her friend / sister / mother
  
• Repeat as necessary
  

Note that a random chick off the street will not have the same results. For optimal results, start boning her best friend on a regular basis. And if she still doesn't get it, ask her to join in. (If she says yes - well, then I might rethink the whole "dump her" idea entirely ...)

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Oh and by the way, if you see your mum this weekend, be sure to tell her SATAN!!! - Orbital

She's controlling and manipulative, you are unhappy, you spend all your time on the impossible goal of pleasing this girl to her satisfaction, and she shits all over you.

If the genders were reversed, who wouldn't hesitate to call it emotional abuse? Well, SR, you do not have to take that.

You're young. You're vital. You're going to go to college in a couple years. Don't torture yourself or let anyone ELSE torture you.

If a guy were treating me the way you're describing her: jealous ALL the time, completely lacking any sort of trust, emotionally manipulative, and hurtful, I'd consider him a controlling bastard and get rid of him.

Kick her to the curb, for your own good.

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kuru
'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
-robert frost

You say you don't want to back away from a challenge and that the only way the two of you will be apart is if she breaks it off with you. Honestly, you are doing more harm to yourself than to her. If shes a manipulative bitch she will always be that way. I wouldn't worry about feelings getting hurt, she obviously cares very little about yours.

Vainness, I believe what Observer said is correct. I have no doubt in my mind that if you told one of your girl friends that your boyfriend was a controlling, manipulative man they would not hessitate to say "drop him." Perhaps you disagree but I am sure if you thought about it, its something that has happened to you in the past (I know it has to me). Now whether or not you choose to take that advice is strictly up to you but that still makes my point that your friends probably have given you the same if not similar advice at one time or other.

Give her the "Gasper" and then dump her.

Never just dump a pain in the ass chick. Make sure they never forget the night as long as they live.

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Fucknuggets flamed while you wait.< TeamWolfguard.com >
< Robot Conflict >

Make sure you're done with your dinner, say what you've got to say, ditch her ass, and leave before you're stuck paying for it.

Let her know she's a psychocontrollingbitchosebeast and then walk out casually while everyone else is watching. They get to keep staring at her while she comes up with some way to pay the check, because I bet you she's one of those girls who figures the guy will always pay her way.

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kuru
'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
-robert frost

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bone this other jen bird we've heard about

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Nah, She would rather be with Caseman instead of me. but you know what? I could possibly care less. shit, I have my extremly controling girlfirend thats probly keeping me out of trouble by staying with her and making 20 dollars for formating hard drives. hell I can live with that for now...I'm going to try and talk to her later about the controling thing but might also keep it to my self untill she does it again. oh well, i didnt acctually think jen would go back out with me in the first place. she always thought of us as really good friends. plus 14 miles all together there and back can probly get tiring after awhile. good luck Caseman, hope your happy with her...

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It doesnt matter whether you win by an inch or a mile, Winning's winning-"Fast and the Furious"

This message has been edited by StreetRaver on November 14, 2001 at 03:34 PM

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For future reference i suggest calling your 4 remaining brain cells together and having them consult with each other before posting any more B.S

SELF ESTEEM

I wrote her off for the tenth time today
And practiced all the things I would say
But she came over
I lost my nerve
I took her back and made her dessert
Now I know I'm being used
That's okay man cause I like the abuse
I know she's playing with me
That's okay cause I've got no self esteem
We make plans to go out at night
I wait till 2 then I turn out the light
All this rejection's got me so low
If she keeps it up I just might tell her so
When she's saying that she wants only me
Then I wonder why she sleeps with my friends
When she's saying that I'm like a disease
Then I wonder how much more I can spend
Well I guess I should stick up for myself
But I really think it's better this way
The more you suffer
The more it shows you really care Right?
Now I'll relate this a little bit
That happens more than I'd like to admit
Late at night she knocks on my door
Drunk again and looking to score
Now I know I should say no
But that's kind of hard when she's ready to go
I may be dumb
But I'm not a dweeb
I'm just a sucker with no self esteem

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When my flying days are over, and my death has come to pass
I hope they bury me upside down, so the whole damn world can kiss my ass

You've made yourself a door mat. You know you're being treated like shit.

What the HELL are you doing, dude?

Wake up and smell the fried silicone before it's too late, and this super controlling chick decides to make *damn* sure the leash is on and you're never leaving by DROPPING A PACKET.

If she's desperate enough to trap you, don't put it past her to do it with a kid.

Leave while you still can.

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kuru
'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
-robert frost

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Originally posted by StreetRaver:
plus 14 miles all together there and back can probly get tiring after awhile.

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14 miles? There AND back? That's too far? Shit I drove farther than that to a job I HATED for quite a while. There's no way that's to far to go to see a good woman!

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When everything is examined for what it really is, the only thing that I can truly claim as my own is the mistakes that I have made.

OH, Guess what. I dont care that caseman goes out with jen. I got some really good advice from a really good author J.B Richard, not sure anyone knows who that is
but he told the class ,for "great american teach in", That if all authors listend to there reject letters that they wouldnt be where they are today. after he told us that he kept on going on about how you cant listen to the negative in life. It got me thinking about my situation and i came to a conclusion that im the negative thats keeping Jen and Caseman away from each other. So i called her and the conversation came up about that and i told her about that author and how i was the negative and i told her not to listen to what i think and do what she thinks is right. which would be to date Caseman. I'm surprised because im not mad nor angry that i told her this. I think ive finnaly gotten over her. good luck caseman, your going to love her. Oh, you fuck her and i find out about it...I will personaly hand you a body part. if theres anything you want to know about her come talk to me.

Anyways....sorry for the rambling on about the same thing as well for the repetiveness.

Cheers-

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It doesnt matter whether you win by an inch or a mile, Winning's winning-"Fast and the Furious"

This message has been edited by StreetRaver on November 15, 2001 at 07:13 PM

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Thats driving. I'm riding a trick bike which has a top MPH of 50 with me going as fast as i can get go untill i heel over n cramps and asthma attacks. yes, i did get the bike up to 50 MPH coming back from the beach going down the bridge. trust me it would get tiring.

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ha. i couldn't help it

This message has been edited by veilside on December 10, 2001 at 12:29 PM

In case you can't tell, I'm sick of riceboys.

Hay dumBAass. WhalEtales Only wurk if yoo have more than enouf nitroos.  It chaNges youR niTroos comPression ratio to a numbAR DirectlY proportionATe to the Amound of lEveLS on yoor spoileR.  Then yoo go FasTAR.  Then yoo need some "High performance adhesives" that say VTEC or Type ARRR.  They adddd 15- 25 horsepowers each.

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Posted by incubus on Jan. 02 2002,19:16

All you people can suck my cock.  Don't kick people when they're down.....

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Posted by StreetRaver on Jan. 04 2002,07:45

Congrats ReetSTraver, you just showed how stupid one can be. You obviously made your point clear that i dont know shit about cars nor systems. I do know somethings about cars and systems, but not as much as most people around here.Some of the only major things I have done to a car/truck is change the drive shaft out of a 1995 chevy S-10, I have replaced shocks with air shocks and ran the hoses, I have also installed A 350 Watt System with four 12in woofers. Both the first and second examples I have had major help with. But, the third one, I had no help on. I installed the system in two days.

 I understand that some of the stuff I had Put into this Forum was A bit stupid. To be honest I was only trying to show off to atleast get known or to noticed as a person who knows A bit about cars and systems. I shouldnt try to give advive to someone who put A turbo into there car and had to reweld the waste gate and downpipe. for the whole lowering Blocks and stuff was again me trying to lend about a bit of advice and was not expecting to get whip lashed by verbal assalt. My apologies to anyone I have offended.

 As for the girlfriend thing, I'm still with her and trying my best to keep this relationship last. I admit I am afraid to break up with her because im afriad I will hurt her, and, aswell be alone. I have Already lost someone whom I have cared for deaply and she ended up breaking up with me because we went to diffrent schools. yeah .

 I have to say this to everyone who has Discriminated me in the past. Don't go making put downs or assults to someone if you don't even know the whole story. I have seen poeple mess with other poeple due to there looks, there clothes, the way they look, the fucking shoes they wear, and there laugh.

Another thing. I'm only 15 years old, Give me a break. Im not as educated as you people are. Your in colledge and im stuck in the 10th grade for another year because I didn't pass English two....

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Posted by Wiley on Jan. 04 2002,15:10

Ok, here's my opinions:

°You my friend are a pussy.  Sometimes you gotta cut your losses and hurt a few feelings for the betterment of your situation.  Nobody likes it, it's like going to the DMV  ..you just do it and move on with your life.  At 15 you shouldn't even be in a relationship, take some time to meet different types of people.  Date a few different girls.  Live a little before you knock someody up and end up stuck with them or a child support payment for the next 18 years.

°Don't take things in here too seriously.  People can and will take one stupid thing you say and turn it into a long running joke (see any post made by CK).  At least the ReetStraver thing is done with good form  ...it makes me laugh damn near every time.

°Never get pissed at a friend over a girl unless you are married to her at the time.  You had your chance, let Caseman have his.

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Posted by kornalldaway on Jan. 04 2002,15:17

Wow i wuz just going to sAy that to. YoO sownd reely smrt.  Did yoo go to Florida State Rice-i-versity tO?  

doOd he neEsd soME chrOmE fendAR flarEs to loewr his wINd resIstances and mAke him Go fastAR.

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Posted by kornalldaway on Jan. 04 2002,20:48

of course it won't even be a car without tinted windows and a nice flamework across the hood and sides of the car
and maybe superglue a few switches to the dashboard to make it look cool from the inside
and don't forget those buttins on the steering wheel with little signs like "stage 1" and "stage 2" above them

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Posted by kornalldaway on Jan. 04 2002,20:52

oh wait, it's not a car. it's a trick bike.  
OMFG!!!! I"M SOO FUNHEY!!!!
actually it's all fun and games, but i am not making fun of StreatRaver here. just sick of all the ricers.

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Posted by caseman984 on Jan. 05 2002,01:13

I know this and he's well aware of this.

Speaking of ricers does anyone remember all the little cartoons someone drew that were linked off of detnet once? things like:

"Putting chinese lettering on the car makes the car go faster"
"leaning back makes the car go faster"
"adding loud pipes makes the car go faster"

It was the funniest damn thing  I've ever seen.

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Posted by incubus on Jan. 05 2002,19:21

Regardless of what everyone else says, StreetRaver has my respect.  So h4w!

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Posted by Greasemonk on Jan. 06 2002,17:54

Here you go its Bryans Rice-boy Page < here it is >

Click on Adventures on the side and the cartoon will come up.

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