Forum: Rants
Topic: Another Ex Rant!
started by: caseman984
Posted by caseman984 on Oct. 29 2001,13:30
Hey, thats what this forum is for right? So here go to rant off about my ex again.

Yesterday, after school, I received an email from her. SHe had once again heard that I had said something or done something towards her from one of her friends. And once again it was not true. Trying to explain this to her was like pulling teeth but I finally got through to her. In explaining it, I used the fact that a number of people from our school had been threatening me, because of my ex's friend. She questioned me further upon this, asking exactly who and when. I couldn't remember because I don't put much merit to things like that, so I told her my best aproximations as to the times and places. After i told her this she went on to9 say that she was going to go to school and ask all of those people one by one to see if any of them had, in actuallity said any of those things. When she said that, I tried to explain to her that I didn't know she needed them as facts, and I had just said when I thought it might have been. She wouldn't, of course listen so now I've "lied to her again." I know for a fact that at least one of the people who I told her did say something, but I really don't know about the others. This all happend about 2 weeks ago, and I had since forgotten about them. I rememberd last night, too late of course, the other person who had told me about it. I don't know, this is all very frustrating. To top it all off, I caught a nasty cold, so I can't even see straight. *sigh* life sucks, but shit happens. I'll get used to it.

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Originally posted by Tattered:
Caseman's kewl, he sometimes makes good posts based on small observations.
Posted by Beldurin on Oct. 29 2001,18:00
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Originally posted by Vigilante:
High school is 100\% bullshit. Cut your losses and run. Deliver ultimatums about this rumor shit to those you have reason to believe really are friends, and give the finger to everyone else.

It's high school...I say give them ALL the finger.

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Give me ambiguity or give me something else...

Posted by Dark-Angel99 on Oct. 29 2001,18:10
Seriously when you are out of high school more than half your friends now wont be your friends anymore. I say do whatever you have to do to get thourgh these horrible years.
Posted by Vainness on Oct. 29 2001,18:19
Aventari and i went our separate ways so now i post in this section. All i can say is i really wish u had been with some girls prior becuase you really don't even know. Your friends saw this, why couldn't you? Comon, your chick paid her way she paid for your way, she made you food when the rest of us were going out and i knew u had to study,i cleand ur dirty shower and toilet the dishes.. eeee gads, i emailed u, left u kind notes, i did everything in my heart that i knew was right, and you can throw it all away chalk it up to some shit that really i think could have been fixed i know u see otherwise i know, i feel bad that we were alike in so many ways that we couldn't get to see the other one as clearly as we'd have liked. Alike in the way we dealt with things. I feel bad that i had to constantly reassure u that it was ok to be in a relationship after u were so independent, and i feel bad that your defense mechansism render you incapable of dealing with your mom. You never new i read your speech on the day of her service u never knew how i cried about the pain u must of felt and how i could start crying just thinking about the words i read. You just could never understand the fucking HEART i put into this.All i wanted from you was some attention really, which you couldn't give me... The content of our relationship can't even begin to be discussed on a stupid post i could never convey to anyone how much u meant to me, and will always mean. I just don't have the capacity to do this again, i really opened up to you and u really fucked me over. I CAN'T DO anything but take the anger and sadness and swallow it and ignore it and just go on. (im pissed mad here so im sure when i read this a day from now im going to hate saying this shit and prolly take it down)

This message has been edited by Vainness on October 31, 2001 at 06:39 AM

Posted by Nikita on Oct. 29 2001,18:19
caseman :: She sounds like she has a case of paranoia or something. And she seems to care too much about what ppl say/think/etc. Why does she care about those nitty gritty details anyways? Just tell her to sit on a pyramid and spin down to the bottom. Maybe that way she won't act so constipated. Cut her out of your life. Block her emails. Yargh!

As for getting over HS - I agree w/ DarkAngel-99 I don't really talk with that many ppl from HS. I only talk to one (Dan da MAN!). Used to be 2, but he became a hypocritical dweeb. The rest of them have been thoroughly brainwashed and went to christian colleges or something like that.

edit: woulda been taken outta context otherwise

This message has been edited by Nikita on October 30, 2001 at 01:21 PM

Posted by caseman984 on Oct. 29 2001,21:03
Vainness.. man... what happend? If you want someone to talk to, you can always talk to me on AIM (CasemanXP) or MSN (caseman984@msn.com). Take a little comfert in knowing your not the only one. Don't give up all hope. Talk to your friends, this is exactly the time that you need them the most. Give me a ring, I'm on most of the time.


Nikita: I have to see her everyday at school, but hopefully that will change soon, my dad's talking to my counseler about changing my schedule, we just had exams, so it wouldn't be too hard. I have cut off all communication with her, I'm over it.
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Originally posted by Tattered:
Caseman's kewl, he sometimes makes good posts based on small observations.

This message has been edited by caseman984 on October 30, 2001 at 04:05 PM

Posted by Dark Knight Bob on Oct. 29 2001,21:30
for a small fee i'm willing to make your ex "disappear" if it gets too bad... just drop me an email and i'll see what some of my contacts can do for you

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simultaneity is not absolute. So just because you think i'm wrong, from my frame of reference i'm right!

Posted by Vainness on Oct. 29 2001,23:30
thank you, im trying to be a tough girl about it and not cry about it, so im not doing this 'talking it out bit'.

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For future reference i suggest calling your 4 remaining brain cells together and having them consult with each other before posting any more B.S

Posted by Vainness on Oct. 30 2001,00:10
FUCK FUCK FUCK
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This message has been edited by Vainness on November 25, 2001 at 10:19 PM

Posted by j0eSmith on Oct. 30 2001,00:43
Jesus fucking christ! Do you girls have all these responces lying around in cans?
I swear I've been told the exact same thing before.

"We need to build a foundation of friendship before we had a relasionship, lets try that"

I fucking hate that.

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When my flying days are over, and my death has come to pass
I hope they bury me upside down, so the whole damn world can kiss my ass

Posted by Vigilante on Oct. 30 2001,00:45
Now, in theory it's an excellent plan. In practice, however, it's a dead end road to "I don't want to jeopardize our friendship."
Posted by Vainness on Oct. 30 2001,01:08
im new to it my first inital response was ok its sick and twisted that u stay friends but for some ppl it works. everyone is different. Im not good with these things they call relationships so its quite the learning experience nonetheless.

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For future reference i suggest calling your 4 remaining brain cells together and having them consult with each other before posting any more B.S

Posted by Vainness on Oct. 30 2001,03:32
yeah, well do u have the one lying in ur can that says: must tell girl i care about her then fuck her then tell her oops u didn't know? oh i wasn't serious about this relationship i thought u knew?

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This message has been edited by Vainness on October 30, 2001 at 10:32 PM

Posted by Vigilante on Oct. 30 2001,05:36
High school is 100\% bullshit. Cut your losses and run. Deliver ultimatums about this rumor shit to those you have reason to believe really are friends, and give the finger to everyone else.
Posted by Nikita on Oct. 30 2001,13:36
Well I don't know about you guys but I would like to know the person a bit more than just "hey, what's your name? wanna make out?"

Unless of course, you want to focus on the physical attraction alone instead of the entire package. Those relationships end up being major fuckfests ... oh wait, so THAT'S what you want ...

Posted by aletros on Oct. 30 2001,17:39
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Originally posted by j0eSmith:
Jesus fucking christ! Do you girls have all these responces lying around in cans?
I swear I've been told the exact same thing before.

"We need to build a foundation of friendship before we had a relasionship, lets try that"

I fucking hate that.

It's in the book they get when they hit puberty. Obviously, it's magic and invisible to males though. Not sure what happens when a gay or transvestite sees one...

Posted by Vigilante on Oct. 30 2001,18:01
What it really boils down to is that we're all damned if we do, and damned if we don't. There's simply no other explanation for our dilemmas.
Posted by Vainness on Oct. 30 2001,23:52
i really wish guys didn't think not showing their feelings was the way to handle everything, i hate having to read minds, i know guys rant on and on about how chicks want them to read their minds. Im not saying guys should start crying or fucking turning to pansies im just saying chalking it up and just not showing anything and becoming a rock sucks dick. How is this pertinent beats the fuck out of me. Guys are tough cookies.

/me kicks self


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This message has been edited by Vainness on October 31, 2001 at 06:52 PM

Posted by Beldurin on Oct. 31 2001,02:48
quote:
Originally posted by Vainness:
i really wish guys didn't think not showing their feelings was the way to handle everything, i hate having to read minds, i know guys rant on and on about how chicks want them to read their minds. Im not saying guys should start crying or fucking turning to pansies im just saying chalking it up and just not showing anything and becoming a rock sucks dick. How is this pertinent beats the fuck out of me. Guys are tough cookies.

/me kicks self

WOMEN having to read minds? Excuse me? I say what I feel, when I feel it. Unfortunately, the women I have dated don't seem to undertand this. Case in point:

When I'm asked "what's wrong?", if something's wrong, I say what is wrong. When nothing is I say nothing is wrong. On the other hand, when you ask most women what's wrong, and something is, you get "nothing" in response, but you're supposed to be fucking clairvoyant and just KNOW.

Vainness, I apologize, and I'm not trying to be insensitive to your situation. I feel for you, but it's just that I was dumped about 2 weeks ago, and I"m still not sure why and I"m a little bitter and disillusioned about the whole dating/relationship thing.

Nikita - can I join the nunnery with you?

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Give me ambiguity or give me something else...

Posted by j0eSmith on Oct. 31 2001,05:52
No, I think your all confused.

Thats the line they give when they dump your ass.

"I really think we needed to bulid a foundation of friendship first, because we had this great thing, and nothing for it to rest on"

Once again, I fucking hate that. If your going to break up with me just fucking do it.

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When my flying days are over, and my death has come to pass
I hope they bury me upside down, so the whole damn world can kiss my ass

Posted by Nikita on Oct. 31 2001,05:57
Aaaaaaah, screw this $#!+. I'm going to be single and unemployed for the rest of my measly life! I should join a nunnery. Betcha I would see plenty of hot lesbian action ... I'll sneak you guys in from time to time ... with a small cover charge of course

Hmph. Happy Hollow-weiner! (time for coffee)

Posted by Vigilante on Oct. 31 2001,10:11
Football.

*grunt*

Posted by Observer on Oct. 31 2001,12:54
If that's how you handle responding with "nothing", then don't get pissed at him when he says, "ok" and continues on with what he's doing.

You want another example? Read a tale from our good friend Jim.
< http://www.detonate.net/ubb/Forum1/HTML/000936.html >

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Posted by Nikita on Oct. 31 2001,13:58
Ah fuck it, everyone must be sentenced to DEATH BY SNOO SNOO!
Posted by Dysorderia on Oct. 31 2001,15:41
Snoo Snoo??

Someone has been smoking too many kitchen herbs.........

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After Bill Gates's wedding night, his wife finally knew why he called his company Microsoft.

Posted by Nikita on Oct. 31 2001,16:35
Oh dude, Futurama!
Posted by Vainness on Oct. 31 2001,17:41
Im sorry about your situation as well, your right some women are like that.Classic example, I think personally if i am asked that question and something is wrong i think 1) your(the man) prolly happy and it would ruin your day 2)its too complicated that u prolly don't want to know 3)you can't do anything about it so whats the use 4)nothing

if i tell him nothing its all centered around how iam to anticipate your reaction, i want to keep u the happiest so if i say nothing is wrong when there is.. it means im gonna fucking handle it becuase i don't want to worry your little head off. Theres more important shit to attend too like that football game..

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This message has been edited by Vainness on November 01, 2001 at 12:44 AM

Posted by blanalex on Nov. 01 2001,00:33
quote:
Originally posted by Nikita:
Ah fuck it, everyone must be sentenced to DEATH BY SNOO SNOO!

FUCK YEAH! I want to snoo snoo you first!

Then LiNeY and my neighbor across the street. After that... well... i hope there will be nothing left for snoo-snoo

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«Mes amis, la Terre est un assemblage de fous, de méchants et de malheureux, savez-vous bien, par exemple, qu'à l'heure où je vous parle, il y a cent mille fous de notre espèce, couverts de chapeaux, qui en tuent cent mille autres couverts d'un turban ou qui sont massacrés par eux, et que c'est ainsi qu'on en use de temps immémorial?»
-- Voltaire

Posted by j0eSmith on Nov. 01 2001,01:15
quote:
Originally posted by Vainness:
if i tell him nothing its all centered around how iam to anticipate your reaction, i want to keep u the happiest so if i say nothing is wrong when there is.. it means im gonna fucking handle it becuase i don't want to worry your little head off. Theres more important shit to attend too like that football game..

Does anyone else detect RIPPING SARCASM in that statement?

Seriously, I could feel a massive guilt trip about to be sprung from all the way over here.

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When my flying days are over, and my death has come to pass
I hope they bury me upside down, so the whole damn world can kiss my ass

Posted by aventari on Nov. 01 2001,02:04
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Originally posted by Vainness:
Im fairly sure (he) is viewing me as taking this away from him, the whole forum thing is his happy medium.

Emerald, I don't view this as taking the detnet forums away from me. I've been here since they opened, I'm not about to leave now.
To tell you the truth I don't know know what to think about this. What are you trying to accomplish?

I still care about you, and I'm willing to be friends. But it's over I'm sorry. I dont know how else I can put it.

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LET'S GET AWESOME

Posted by ASCIIMan on Nov. 01 2001,05:03
Hypothetical question: How would you like to die?

Me: Yes, um, I'd like death by Snoo Snoo...

Posted by Vainness on Nov. 01 2001,08:24
Shrugs, Kevin, what can i say to that? Nothing. *sigh*.

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Posted by caseman984 on Nov. 01 2001,09:47
I finally got webspace so I'm gonna flaunt it. Here's a pic of Echo and I in happier times:

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Originally posted by Tattered:
Caseman's kewl, he sometimes makes good posts based on small observations.
Posted by Vainness on Nov. 01 2001,11:34
Last i checked it was callad 'Rants'not setting out to accomplish anything, i needa talk it out with people unfortunately unlike you who continually hides from everything, If you choose to deal with it like you deal with everything i can only say im sorry for you. Im done.

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Posted by Vainness on Nov. 01 2001,11:35
oh yeah, and AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW.

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Posted by EvilGenius on Nov. 01 2001,12:20
what i absolutely can not fucking stand, is when really Hot girls say, "you shouldn't have any trouble finding a girlfriend.. i'm sorry, i don't like you that way, aren't we better as just friends?" look, i'm a computer geek, i waste a lot of time on here, but i do get out, i am athletic, feel i look decent, but just because i'm not some stud no chicks seem to dig what i have to offer, at least, not the chicks i find attractive.. now, it's nice to have super-model women, but even still i -love- the extremely attractive plain look, always have.. but apparently, that's asking for too much... i have many of female friends, and just because i seem a little down they feel it's their place to say "you shouldn't have any problems finding a women" --
ok, ok... just fucking stop that shit right there. if you're a hot girl, don't ever say that to some guy unless you want to carry that statement on a little further, and actually date him.. exceptions may be long-time friends or something.. other than that, stfu. don't let the comment come out of your mouth, it doens't help for shit. like i want to hear some slap-fine chick tell me that i'm a good looking guy, very attractive one once said.. and just leave it at that? please dear God, what exatly is it that i have to do... i'd rather have her sit there in total silence while i bitch, or hell, not even there at all... i appreciate a good "it'll be ok" statement, but i'm a big boy, i know to move on.. i don't need "you're gorgeous, you should have no problem finding girls..." kind of comfort.. doesn't work for me.

Edit: although on another note to make me feel better, i did have a high-school senior, head-cheerleader, and super-hot chick hit on me at a HS football game a bit ago.. that made me feel better, even though i couldn't have her.

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This message has been edited by EvilGenius on November 02, 2001 at 07:21 AM

Posted by Chrissy on Nov. 01 2001,12:40
Hey relationships don't work out. But honestly Vainness this is between you and Aventari. I understand that you are hurting, we all hurt sometimes so you aren't really alone and sometimes its good to get these things out. But I will also say this, don't hold on to something that doesn't want you because it only hurts you more in the end. I know this from many experiences with relationships. If he is offering friendship you should really consider taking him up on it, but only if you really want to be friends with him and nothing else. Again this is from experience.

The first guy I ever fell in love with broke my heart about 4 years ago(we dated my first year in college for 14 months). For almost a year after we broke up I still spent every single day with him hoping for the "friendship" which he promised me. You know what ended up happening? I got my heart broken again and again...each time he said he would call and didn't, each time he said he would meet me and didn't, each time he said I love you, Im just not in love with you any more...it killed me inside but I couldn't imagine my life without him. Then one day as I was walking back from class I realized that I didn't need to be feeling like that any more. I had more important things to do with my life than picturing it without some guy...

We all hurt and we all live through it. If life were happy and easy all the time we would live an unfulfilled life I think. There are times when the trials make the triumphs so much better.

As a side note, I hadn't spoke to my ex in about three years. After I "woke-up" that day I just stopped talking with him and we eventually lost contact. I finished school and moved a bit further north of the university I attended. Over the summer I worked in the state capital (where I went to school)for one of the state offices. I was taking the bus to the parking lot and he was on the bus. We talked and laughed and it was nice because we had grown up so much since those days we were geeky college freshman trying to figure out what we wanted to do with our lives. I wouldn't say I don't think about him, I do all but not the same way I did when all this first happened. Now I think about the way my life has turned out and why things happen the way they do. (I did so much with my time after that, I went to Australia, England and now I attend law school- I would have done NONE of these things if he and I were still together I can tell you that). You just have to remember that you are young and sometimes these things happen but each time you have to get up, brush yourself off and realize that someone is looking out for you.

P.S Sometimes posting on line hoping that the other person will see what you wrote isnt always the best way to communicate. Perhaps you should call or meet with Aventari to discuss how you feel. As it is most of us have our own issues with relationships...perhaps we arent the best to be seeking advice from (no offense to anyone of course).

Posted by Vainness on Nov. 01 2001,20:04
I really enjoyed reading that Chrissy, yeah i know its not the way to communicate, ive already said everything i could say to him face to face, Im done ranting.

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Posted by Wiley on Nov. 01 2001,20:44
This is the most depressing thread I think I have ever read. I feel like walking into oncoming traffic. He said, she said, I feel, you feel, bla, bla, bla. All this outpouring of emotion can't be good. Lets all find a more healthy solution.
Lets go out drinking and end up with somebody new for tomorrow.
Posted by MattimeoZ80 on Nov. 01 2001,23:29
word... thanks for ruining my drive... just finished my physics lab up. nah, i'll just go read one of the more "lively" threads and things will be all good. don't dwell on failed relationships, its not worth it; even if you could have it back there would always be the break-up foreshadowing everything. move on, or at least find something else to occupy your time with.
Posted by Wiley on Nov. 01 2001,23:37
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Originally posted by EvilGenius:
although on another note to make me feel better, i did have a high-school senior, head-cheerleader, and super-hot chick hit on me at a HS football game a bit ago.. that made me feel better, even though i couldn't have her.

Couldn't have her? WTF, did your dick fall off earlier in the day? What kind of piss poor performance are you turning in here? You don't down the ball when you catch it, you run it in for the 100 yard return. Now go ask your mamma for your balls back and hit that cheerleader punanny!

Posted by Nikita on Nov. 04 2001,05:16
b/c her bf is probably the monster captain of the football team and will crush him into a diamond if he tried anything?
Posted by Dark Knight Bob on Nov. 05 2001,11:25
ah without the padding they're easy picking for a good old fashioned punch to the sternum or solar plexus or one of hundreds of other nasty pressure points.

"one swift kick in the happy sacks and he'll go down like any other" - Lister

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Posted by WillyPete on Nov. 05 2001,12:51
As from one of my friends:
"Just 'cause there's a goalie in the box, don't mean ya can't score!"

Re: Vainness' earlier request for guys to express themselves and not rely on girls' mind reading. We do! It's just that girls are so used to reading behind the scenes, they don't see we're being quite open most of the time. If we don't tell exactly what we mean, it's cause we fear getting dumped.
Example:
G:"Do you love me?"
B Thinking)'If I say yes, she might think I'm getting too heavy, but then again if she loves me and I say yes, am I lying? What if I say yes and I mean it and she says she doesn't?'
(To Girl):"Hmm, I'm not sure..."


A day in my life:
G:"You wanna go out somewhere?" B:"Ok" G:"Where shall we go?" b:"Wherever, I'm not fussy." G: (Thinks)'He doesn't care where we go. He doesn't care about me. He doesn't wanna go anywhere with me. OMIGOD! He's sleeping with another Woman!' (To Boy) "YOU BASTARD!"
B:"PSYCHOBITCH!"

Posted by EvilGenius on Nov. 05 2001,21:22
quote:
Originally posted by Wiley:
Couldn't have her? WTF, did your dick fall off earlier in the day? What kind of piss poor performance are you turning in here? You don't down the ball when you catch it, you run it in for the 100 yard return. Now go ask your mamma for your balls back and hit that cheerleader punanny!

i was here in this town, and she was a cheerleader from my home town, she actually asked me to accompany her to her homecoming dance...

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Originally posted by Nikita:
b/c her bf is probably the monster captain of the football team and will crush him into a diamond if he tried anything?

she actually dates a collegiate football player from like minnisota, or michigan or something like that, anyway.. she didn't havea date and i was supposed to go with her even though i had only met her that night.. now, i understand God has humor, or God=life whichever you prefer, but that very weekend i was unable to return to my home town... so i couldn't attend with her.

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for some reason, the only time i have these incredible women become attracted to me is when it's impossible to actually follow through with metting them again... at least under those circumstances.. now i have no chance with this girl in respects to her boyfriend being so fucking far away it's rediculous.. and she was up for it! goddamnit i hate myself for not going home that weekend... you wanna hear the real funny part? all the group work i couldn't miss that same evening ended after only an hour.. wtf? a mandatory meeting on a saturday night for a group grade, and it lasts an hour.. i could've accepted the 0 for it. i think i cried in my sleep cause i couldn't bring myself to cry while conscious... and yes, i will meet her again when i go home for thanksgiving. see if i can do something about it.

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Posted by veistran on Nov. 05 2001,21:45
I dunno, if she has a good sense of humor the anecdotal value of that story might score you a few points.
Posted by Vainness on Nov. 05 2001,22:59
FUCK FUCK FUCK

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This message has been edited by Vainness on November 25, 2001 at 10:23 PM

Posted by Greasemonk on Nov. 07 2001,10:32
You think thats bad? My ex got her fucking tongue pierced 2 months after we broke up, AND she wouldnt demonstrate the shit to me. Its ok though, shes going out with this ugly ass fucker and the only reason she is "dating" him is because her mother was being a bitch and she didnt want to live there so he gave her a place to stay.

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