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Topic: is my DAD a jerk for this?
started by: Spydir Web

Posted by Spydir Web on Apr. 07 2001,16:16

Ok, I dunno if I've said it here before, but I hate my dad. He's an drunk work-oholic. Here's here the "this" comes in...

I haven't seen one of my long time friends in about 6 months, but I talk to him frequently. My school and his school had a track meet last week, and we talked for a little bit and planed for me to go to his house this weekend (he just moved into a really nice house). I couldn't talk to him because he's only got one phone in his house so far (they're waiting for the phone company to get their DSL lines in) and his parents were using it. So about 15 minutes ago my dad comes storming in my room like "have you talked to him yet?! Are you going there or not?!" in his excessively stressed-out-over-nothing way. Then he has me call them, while he's standing over my shoulder (I hate being rushed), and get their address so I can find where they live on mapquest. So I get their address, and next thing I know the fucking prick is yelling at me about how they're "boonies" and shit because they live in the woods and all this complete bullshit. I was about to choke him because not only was he just being a jerk about every god damned thing he could be one about, but because the fucker was yelling at me like it was my fault that he works to much.

Now, I understand he works a lot and gets a lot of stress from it, but goddammit why does he always take it out on me? I know he used to hit me sometimes, but he stopped that long ago. Damned good thing for him, because I swear I could rip his liver right out of his beer gut.

Sorry if this was just stupid or something, but I really had to get it out before I killed him, or atleast inflicted mortal wounds on him.

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Posted by Dark Knight Bob on Apr. 07 2001,23:23

sometimes the best thing to put him in his ppace is to now you dont take his shit and smack him one. give him a real good blackeye. it might sound rough but sometimes its the only way

Posted by DeadAnztac on Apr. 08 2001,05:51

Develop an additude, yo. Tell you dad-man what you feeling, no fronting on that street, yo. If he's pissed at you my brother, just get pissed back.
Your dadio probably doesn't even realize he's doing it.

Posted by fatbitch on Apr. 08 2001,09:26

yeah, give your dad a black eye, then you'll get a broken neck and nowhere to sleep

but do put him in his place, verbally. dont swear at him or insult him, just tell him not to take his work out on you

Posted by Neophyre on Apr. 08 2001,10:38

pouring his alcohol down the drain always goes down well

Posted by Spydir Web on Apr. 08 2001,13:33

I have to agree with fatbitch. Punching the man would not be the best idea, because I'm only 15 and have few other places to go. He couldn't break my neck though. He's slow, weak, and stupid in the sense of fighting. I still wonder where I got my speed, strenght, and "street smarts" from...

Pouring his alcohol down anything isn't good. He has almost 300 bottles of wine and makes his own beer from those beer kits about once a year.

I dunno, I've always figured I'll have the last laugh. I'll probably end up putting him in one of those retirement homes where the nurses beat him and stuff...

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Sometimes you're the dog, sometimes you're the hydrant...

Posted by SiLVeR54 on Apr. 08 2001,16:53

quote:
Originally posted by Spydir Web:
I'll probably end up putting him in one of those retirement homes where the nurses beat him and stuff...

HAHAHAHAHAHA..
ROFLMAO!

sad.... but true..

silver

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This message has been edited by SiLVeR54 on April 09, 2001 at 11:54 AM

Posted by L33T_h4x0r_d00d on Apr. 08 2001,18:42

quote:
Originally posted by Spydir Web:
Punching the man would not be the best idea.

Your kinda right. But if it were me Id hit him with something like a bat or a caddilac. Problem solved.

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Posted by pengu1nn on Apr. 08 2001,18:50

turn his ass into social services?

when he does that shit tell him your gonna pour out his beer/wine, after you have to tell him that a coupla times load it up in a friends car or put it in a trash can where he can't see it then be like i told you so. but 300 bottles of wine is too much to pour out

Posted by Spydir Web on Apr. 08 2001,19:30

I used to think social services would have been a good idea, but there's no real case in my defense, so they'd let him go sooner or later. An idea for when I'm 17 and almost out of the house, though...

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Posted by LiNeY on Apr. 08 2001,19:51

Is there anyone who could be a mediator between you two? Some uncle/aunt, or family friend? It's almost impossible to argue with grown-ups, but maybe you can get someone who helps you deal with the problem and who your dad will listen to...

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Posted by Rhydant on Apr. 08 2001,21:47

quote:
Originally posted by Spydir Web:
(they're waiting for the phone company to get their DSL lines in)

theyre getting more than one? jesus tap dancing christ...

tell your dad to just up and 'let me handle it'

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Posted by Greasemonk on Apr. 10 2001,15:45

Wow, how old are you? You are lucky if he even notices you exist anymore. Everyone around here does this when their kids turn about 16. Buy them honda civics, put loud tailpipes on them, let them move in with their friends. Plus for some reason everyones teenagers in this area magically think they have all the sudden have grown up in the ghetto. So everyone is pretty much an eminem clone creeping around in their hondas.

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Posted by Spydir Web on Apr. 11 2001,05:07

I don't really care to get anyone else involved in the whole family thing... I'm waiting until one day when they just really piss me off. I'm just gonna blow up on 'em, storm out of the house and walk down to this resturant about 3 miles away from the house, eat dinner, come back home and blast some really loud heavy metal stuff all night at about 3/4 volume on my stereo. Trust me, that bitch gets loud. Once me and a friend put it on 1/2 volume. she walked across the street, and she said she could hear it enough so she could make out the words (but you had to know the words to really know what was being said)...

Oh, and my friend isn't getting multiple DSL lines, that's kind of a typo. The telephone company's CO is miles away from his house, so they're waiting until they have one of the box things in their general area...

I'm 15, Greasemonk. I'd rather he just left me alone and ignore me like with most kids, because I've learn to fend for myself. I'm not saying I can go live on my own right now, but I don't really need the parental units hovering over me all the time. And no, I don't think I grew up in the ghetto . I'm a suburban thug and don't mind it.

Oh yeah... November I'm getting my licence, and probably my car... anyone got a good idea for a nice car, nothing to extravigent, that'll get me around and has a ok sound system and stuff?... hopefully not to expensive, too.

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Sometimes you're the dog, sometimes you're the hydrant...

Posted by Dark Knight Bob on Apr. 12 2001,03:15

i still reckon you should hit him

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