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Forum: Rants Topic: God Damn Women! All of them started by: whtdrgn_2 Posted by whtdrgn_2 on Feb. 21 2001,14:18
This post is inspired by my X.Now she has decided to take up a position out of state, with her new job (claiming that the raise would make it easier on me for what I have to pay her). She will take the kids of course, and I can see them on holidays. BULLSHIT... She doesn't understand that I don't care about money, I could be broker then shit (which I am), and as long as I have those kids... I'm fine. This is going to be a long, nasty, no-holds-bar court battle... THIS MEANS WAR!!!! And I have discovered that all women are like this. They will leave at the first sign of trouble becuase "they can't deal with it." All women under the age of 22-23 are not worth it, they havn't let it all go yet; therefore, they can never be trusted. They either pull your heart out of your ass, or they pull your wallet out of you pants. ------------------ Posted by Chrissy on Feb. 21 2001,16:18
You know- I understand that these forums and hence these threads are male dominated. I'm 22 and I would want my kids to have a dad (thats if I even had kids, which I dont but thats not the point). Not all women are like your ex. I will say that some are but not all of us. As far as your kids are concerned. I would tell you this. I have a friend he's 27 and has 2 kids under the age of 7. His wife moved them out of state about 3 years ago. He's been working and paying for them all that time. He didnt have the cash to go thru court battles for them and he thought it would be harder on them anyway. Now its three years later and shes back with the kids- they know who their father is, how much he loves them etc...see it doesnt matter where you are as long as your kids know that you made the effort to love them etc....when you get the money etc to take them from her thats when you should do it...But for now I would say you should let her go with them just call often, visit often and keep giving them the things they need materalistically and they will never feel as if you abandonded them. Then when you have your life together you can take her to court. How old are they? ------------------ Posted by demonk on Feb. 21 2001,16:29
I've noticed more women act like your X than not. The courts have always been biased towards men in custity cases, so I don't know if your going to have much luck. Why is it that women get to decide what happens to the kids? And you can't tell me she didn't know that taking that other job would involve taking your kids away from you. Damnit, that just isn't fair to do to a guy who loves his kids. I say fight her on this, but only too a point. Too often stuff like this just degenerats into both parents trying to hurt each other using the kids. I guess if you can show that she is really doing this to remove the kids from your life you might be able to get custidy of them, but it will be a long shot. Just don't lose sight of who the real victims here: the kids.
Posted by DuSTman on Feb. 21 2001,16:31
Well the courts do tend to side with the mother by default on these things unless there is compelling evidence against her. That said, you may wish to turn this to your advantage by having a sex change operation. That way you'd both be mothers in a sense, and also it would illustrate your devotion to the courts. You may also consider murdering their mother. Just a thought. Posted by Dark Knight Bob on Feb. 21 2001,22:04
just say that you'll kill her if you dont get the kids... no wait that wouldnt work...hmm let me think up something else------------------ Posted by damage on Feb. 21 2001,22:11
Well, now that DuSTman has degraded this thread to include homicide...WOW!I understand what you're going through though, whtdrgn_2. My wife and I almost split up and I would have been without my son. But I agree with ALMOST everyone else. If you do have a court battle, makes sure you are doing it for the right reasons. Your kids best interests should be the only incentive. If they'll be better of in their mothers custody, leave them there and be a good father. If you TRULY believe they should be raised in her house, fight. But everyone else is right about men and women in custody suits too. You'll have to prove her to be an unfit mother in order to get custody. That can get really ugly. And if there's one thing a DO NOT recommend, it's creating or perpetuating a situation where the two of you can even be in the same room together. My parents ended up that way and I hated them for putting me through that. Basically, I'm just trying to say, if you're gonna fight, stay above the belt. ------------------ "On a long enough timeline the survival rate for anyone drops to zero." Posted by damien_s_lucifer on Feb. 22 2001,00:20
you can always have your wife disappeared, if you know The Right People™...
Posted by solid on Feb. 22 2001,01:01
Jeez! Get back on topic it was getting interesting.Yes, chrissy- these forums are male dominated. But hey, it still doesn't make up for everything else that is, in its own way female dominated. What the hell, I mean thats all I hear nowadays. "Men are bad, women are good" and "NO! Men are good, women are bad!" and the like. Really, if they have problems they should just say "fuck being civil" and start to kill each other... Of course thats the average people I'm talking about, not us mighty detnetters. its pretty shitty to just walk into the world to see two groups pretty much secretively fighting each other. tell me something that men generally do within these degrees, id like to know. Posted by kuru on Feb. 22 2001,04:08
not all women are evil, but almost all of them are capable of *extreme* evil.i sincerely hope your ex falls in a well. she sounds like one of those ultra-bitches that have become the reason i will not hang out with chicks. and so what if the dude is currently hating all chicks, one did some pretty nasty vile things to him. and believe me, anybody who'd scream at him for his statements has at one point in her life hated MEN because of what one man has done, or made the statement 'men suck' or 'i hate men'. so leave him alone. he has every freakin right to be pissed. ------------------ Posted by Chrissy on Feb. 22 2001,11:36
Yeah well no one said he didn't kuru-You want to hear another story- you think women are so evil and as kuru suggest capable of "extreme" evil. Men are too. My bf's sister has a three year old daughter (his sister is my age 22)The father of the baby doesn't pay child support, barely calls and is in general and asshole to his daughter. Case in point the baby's birthday- the father's mother and grandmother bought the baby toys for her birthday- the father who just got remarried to a woman who had a three year old girl also took the toys away from the baby and gave them to his new "daughter" Then when the baby's mother (my bf's sister) told him that he couldnt have her for xmas (because yes she has custody of the baby) because of what he did to her at her bday he called CPS on her. Saying that she was an unfit mother and that she doesnt feed her or wash her or take care of her. I can tell you that the baby's mother (young though she is) is quite capable of washing and feeding her daughter. Not to mention that my bf, his brother and his parents all take turns with the baby. She is anything but neglected. Her restraining order against the baby's father says that he is not allowed to use third party advocates on the childs behalf to gain custody of her. Yet he walks right through all of that and goes to a different county where they have no record of it. Right now my bf's sister is in a court battle to keep the kid. The baby's father is an alcoholic, drug abusing, gun toting redneck who could careless for the baby and just wants the money that child support would bring in for more drugs, booze and guns.... You think women are evil, I think men can be just as evil. Posted by damage on Feb. 22 2001,13:06
The simple fact of the matter is that humanity as a whole is degrading itself beyond recognition. We have a society that is so "me" based that we feel no remorse about stepping on anyone for any reason if they challenge us. The only way most people see to eliminate a conflict is to annihilate their opponent, regardless of whether it creates resolution or not. This is not gender biased. Men will destroy women, if needed. And women will destroy men for the same reasons.There was a time when, if you blew out a tire and someone stopped their car, you would believe they were there to help you. Now, most of us look at the car and think, "Are they gonna beat the hell out of me and steal my hubcaps and tire iron?" The rich try to destroy the middle classes to assist their own greed. Single parents try to create hated or distrust in their children for the other parent only to prove that they are a better parent. When was the last time anyone heard someone say, after a romantic relationship ended, "Wow, I really fucked them over. I feel really bad about that." and had any real remorse in their voice? If you have heard that, admire that person. They're rare. I think it's time for humanity to take stock of itself and realize that we have to take responsibity for our own actions and understand that, isolated, we will die off. Get rid of the maniac that believes TV made him a killer. Get rid of the man that says his father made him a wife beater. Quit complaining about how bad off your life is. WE ALL HAVE BEEN THROUGH THAT SHIT!!! It's called LIFE!!! It's not meant to be perfect. There's a fucking reason we flock together in great cities. WE NEED EACH OTHER!!! Anyone who doesn't think so, get the fuck out and isolate yourself from the rest of us and let the rest of us try and rebuild. ------------------ "On a long enough timeline the survival rate for anyone drops to zero." Posted by jim on Feb. 22 2001,13:32
quote: !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God, that is soooooooooooo true!!! I knew the handful of non-penis owning members of this site would disagree, but what you just stated is FACT! Man I'm in agony for you. So many old memories are popping up! Maybe I could tell you my psycho woman story to make you feel better. Hmmmmmmmm, no I'll just tell you the end. Basically we weren't married, but were engaged and living together. Once I finally put my foot down and quit taking her shit she decided to leave. Since we weren't married and she would be getting NONE of my shit or cash, she instead came over on the weekend while I wasn't home with a moving van and took everything I owned plus cleared out the bank account of ū,000. The only things she left me were: I guess she knew she could get away with taking all the furniture so long as she didn't touch anything electronic. Had she stolen my computer/tv/and home theatre system I would have had her killed. And I'm being serious! ------------------ Posted by demonk on Feb. 22 2001,14:33
Shit jim! These are the kind of women(the male counterparts do exist) that need to be taken out and shot! Why they hell do they feel they are entitled to taking everything a man owns, just because she lived with him? Did she pay the full amount on each iteam at the time it was purchased? Did you give it to her as a present? I just can't stand how society actually looks at this as normal for women to do!!! Makes me want to swear off women and sex all together and live in the woods.
Posted by jim on Feb. 22 2001,14:48
I have no idea what goes through the minds of the devils!She made 1/4 of my income, plus she had 2 kids. I basically supported the 4 of us. She spent most of my paycheck going out on "Girls Nights Out" Meaning I wasn't ever invited. I was pretty sure she was cheating on me, but could never prove it. Until after she was way gone. By accident I bumped into an old friend of hers. I met this friend after we had been dating only 2 months. They went out on one of those infamous "Girls Night Outs" She told me that Psycho Bitch™ had messed around with a guy that night. That was 2 months into a 2 year relationship. I could go on for days about all the shit she did. She is just an eXtreme case scenario, although my girlfriend before that fucked me over in a similar fashion, just not quite as bad. My advice is to look for older mature women, or just not get in a REAL relationship, until you can find a woman who is REALLY ready for a relationship. After Psycho Bitch™, I just went around fucking over women for a while. Well, Not really fucking them over. They would say "I'm not really looking for someone to just be a bed buddy." And I'd say "Well, I'm not really looking for a serious relationship." They'd still sleep with me. It was fun for the few months that I did that until I met the wonderful Christy then I had to go through the trouble of getting these women to leave me alone and stop calling me!!! That wasn't fun! ------------------ Posted by blanalex on Feb. 22 2001,20:54
gee! you're all freakin' me out! you almost make me feel that finally i'm better off alone and stay virgin 'till the end of my days ------------------ Posted by Sithiee on Feb. 22 2001,21:37
you could be isaac newton then.
Posted by solid on Feb. 23 2001,01:05
quote: Yea.. right on the spot. How true. HOW FUCKING TRUE! Posted by nautilus on Feb. 25 2001,02:30
whtdrgn_2,Yes, courts do tend to be biased toward the mother in custody cases. But, assuming that you still consider to be a fit mother, you do have another option other than trying to take custody away from her. Something else you might try is just to have a judge rule that your ex can't move more than X miles away from you. It will ensure that you still have the opportunity to see your kids, and judges are usually more receptive to doing that than they are to uproot the kids and take custody away from one parent and give it to the other. Posted by whtdrgn_2 on Feb. 27 2001,13:52
My childrens best interest are in my heart. Now she told me that I was moved to the bottom of her priority list, and that is why we only had sex once every onther month. It was personal ans she wanted to hurt me, make me feel unwanted. This women just pulled my heart out of my ass.... DAMN ALL WOMEN TO HELL... even the nice ones are "capable of great evil"... well said Kuru... I found an aturney that is number 2 in the state, and is charging me 200 bones an hour, but he is worth it... I'll keep my kids in this state, and that bitch can just go fuck herself.------------------ |