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Topic: damn parents
started by: solid

Posted by solid on Jan. 15 2001,03:29

piss me off always!

seriously, its always nag nag nag nag nag nag nag nag nag! i cant even live a positive life with all this negative energy around me!

get me the hell outta here!

Posted by Sithiee on Jan. 15 2001,08:23

learn to ignore them. my mom nags at me all day long "have you done your hw? go apply to college! clean your room! do your hw! no i wont give you money! i swear, sometimes it feels like youre just using me" if you learn to ignore it, or perfect the sincere stare nod (look at them and nod while actually concentrating on something else) all will be good...

Posted by Wolfguard on Jan. 15 2001,10:15

quote:
Originally posted by solid:
piss me off always!
seriously, its always nag nag nag nag nag nag nag nag nag! i cant even live a positive life with all this negative energy around me!
get me the hell outta here!

Try spending your life after being adopted by 2 complete morons that only want to bring you down to their level. 2 morons who don't want to see you get anywhere in life and do every thing in their power to keep you from your goals up to and including doing major damage to your psyche. 2 idiots that can go out and buy a boat and a new trailer for vacations, but not help in any way to pay for their kids education. 2 idiots who find it an inconvenience if you have to move back home to finish school. 2 complete fucking assholes that would support anyone else but you in a fight.

Needless to say, I don't talk to my parents anymore.

My point? Shut the fuck up and be grateful they just nag.

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Posted by kuru on Jan. 15 2001,11:23

the only thing worse than that i guess, is if the two complete assholes who do everything in their power to make sure that you fail at whatever you attempt didn't adopt you.

wolfguard is right, be glad all they do is nag. there's a lot worse out there, like parents who reminded you ever single day that you are a breathing disappointment. or parents who blame you for everything they didn't accomplish and decided to do their best to make sure you never got anywhere either.

parents who do shit like complain that you're too expensive to feed even though all you eat in a day is a slice of bread. parents who when you're 13 and you break your leg don't "feel like" driving to the emergency room.

this is not a pity party, either, just a little perspective check.

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Posted by RenegadeSnark on Jan. 15 2001,11:35

I don't think that's all of an appropriate answer... either of you. Seriously, if I break my leg I'm going to be worried, right?

Under the mentality that your posts entail, I should not fret because people are being shot.

Just because someone else has *bad* problems doesn't mean mine, or his, are moot.

Posted by Dark Knight Bob on Jan. 15 2001,16:36

I think all solid wanted was to let off some steam not to get caught up in whos parents are worst. my parents dont ever treat me like i'm a grown up even though i'm feckin 18 for gods sake (well being a mentally aged 12 year old schizophrenic dont help but i cant complain has 8 letters in it and begins with c...)

Theres always gonna be someone worse off (and the most worse off person is gonna be hiding in a small hole with mushrooms to feed off with a rubber band for a gee-tar). does that mean you should be grateful for what you've got? hell no thats what self improvements all about

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Posted by RenegadeSnark on Jan. 15 2001,19:57

omfg, my model parents:

quote:
Originally posted by Greasemonk:
On a lighter note, you got the parents that leave the house up to their teens for weeks at a time while they are on travel. Some buy their kids cars when they turn 16, let them and their friends party and get drunk at 15. Lets see what else, oh some let their bf/gf sleep over and pretend its not happening. Hmm what else, pay for speeding tickets, give a small slap on the wrist when their kids show up at the door at 3am with the cops. Anyone think of anything else??

Posted by solid on Jan. 15 2001,21:31

being bothered is not something to be happy about.

knowing something worse is out there doesnt make one feel better either, it just makes me think about bad parenting, it also makes me feel sorry for you.

my parents broke up, almost literally i mean, and legally i cant see my dad under supervision, same with my brothers. i have to PLAN how to SNEAK outta this PLACE in order to just BE with the rest of my FAMILY.
and when im here my mom cant stop complaining and being so negative all the time.

Posted by Greasemonk on Jan. 16 2001,05:19

On a lighter note, you got the parents that leave the house up to their teens for weeks at a time while they are on travel. Some buy their kids cars when they turn 16, let them and their friends party and get drunk at 15. Lets see what else, oh some let their bf/gf sleep over and pretend its not happening. Hmm what else, pay for speeding tickets, give a small slap on the wrist when their kids show up at the door at 3am with the cops. Anyone think of anything else??

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Posted by Wolfguard on Jan. 16 2001,10:07

quote:
Originally posted by RenegadeSnark:
, if I break my leg I'm going to be worried, right?
Under the mentality that your posts entail, I should not fret because people are being shot.

Being shot is much worse

hey, my post was going to be "be glad they just nag." and it suddenly got a life of its own.

I have (finaly)learned that when a rant comes just let it go and when its done its done. I got rid of a lot of anger that way.

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Posted by solid on Jan. 16 2001,15:35

i get rid of my anger by ranting.

Posted by hair on Jan. 17 2001,03:32

quote:
Originally posted by Sithiee:
my mom nags at me all day long ... "no i wont give you money!"

You poor kid, you. You are so oppressed. And that's such horrible 'nagging'...

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Posted by Sithiee on Jan. 17 2001,08:21

i never said i was being oppressed, just that she nags a lot, and thats actually how she nags sometimes...go fuck yourself

Posted by Dark Knight Bob on Jan. 22 2001,15:04

LOL i love it when people just get fed up with others and go

"go fuck yourself"

it rounds the post up so well
tis a good ting

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Posted by peregrin on Jan. 22 2001,18:46

gee, for a guy who seems hell bent on ripping on other people (parents), Sithiee, you dont seem to be too good at accepting other people's ideas and suggestions. perhaps if you were to consider that for a person bitching about people who nag, you aren't exactly one big fucking ray of sunshine either.

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Posted by Kayy on Jan. 23 2001,03:05

When in the fuck did the whole world turn against Sith?

Take a step back from the computer, breathe deeply, and then come back and be civilised.

Posted by solid on Jan. 23 2001,04:09

exactly how do you expect one to be a 'ray of sunshine' when the aura of the other bitching bitches are surrounding him.

its depressing, and i for one bitch when im depressed.

Posted by Sithiee on Jan. 23 2001,08:20

whoa....i have friends here?...man, thats awesome....

Posted by darksol on Jan. 23 2001,16:32

great, more people like you, thats all the world needs now.........

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Posted by solid on Jan. 28 2001,02:52

ok, lets re write this-
my parents are average parents, theyre worst enemies, from my moms side my dads hellbent on fucking up my mom and vice versa from my dads side.

abuse.. vulgarity.. im writing this down as my mom tells me all this btw. ok.. hes a fake prof., my dad (now my bullshit meters going off) .. he let my mom go off.. to spend some stuff.. had an affair.. it just goes on.

now thats not even 5 minuits of this 1 hour ramble that im in the middle of right now.

how bout now? good enough? am i worthy of being labeled
"fucked with"?

Posted by solid on Jan. 28 2001,02:59

oh yes lets not forget the greatest part of the legend of my dads problems-

he apparently had no mom to live with so now hes mind fucked and cant stand any kid with a mom so hes having as many kids as he can and making them motherless.

like a virus i think.
i hope after this you guys seriously have nothing worse to say because this is pretty much the worst shit ive heard in my whole life. and my mom is saying it.
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edit-
now shes saying how im pointlessly chatting on the computer "so who gives a shit what the guy on the other line said" when this is like my only link to the real outside world because im almost stuck here.
-- aside from that im a kid and i cant think as well or as thoroughly as an adult can, and shes clearly taking advantage of it.

This message has been edited by solid on January 28, 2001 at 10:01 PM

Posted by kuru on Jan. 28 2001,11:52

yeah, you got fucked with. congratulations, your childhood was hard and shitty.

now here comes the even shittier part. it's your cross to bear. you gotta deal with it and make somethin outa yourself for your own sake.

forget about them. stop caring about them. survive. none of us are going to kiss you're ass, but that doesn't mean we don't sympathize.

do NOT give them permission to ruin you. just turn, give 'em the finger, and become somethin. and then when they do want somethin to do with you cause you've made it, you can tell 'em to go piss up a fucking rope.

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'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
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Posted by Sithiee on Jan. 29 2001,18:07

yeah man...stupid parents...giving you a car to go driving around in...and jesus, damn them for giving you so much leeway about shit...what horrible people...i realize how lucky i am to get to use my car as much as i do, and i only got it a year after i got my license...man, my parents must be devilspawn compared to yours, i wish i could be a spoiled prick too...

Posted by kuru on Jan. 29 2001,19:15

yeah stan's parents are such assholes. giving him the car and complete and total freedom. how dare they even get mad at all that he yells at them and then blasts his music so he can't hear them.

they're so evil. stan should report them to the child abuse hotline.

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kuru
'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
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Posted by solid on Jan. 29 2001,19:30

quote:
Originally posted by kuru:
yeah, you got fucked with. congratulations, your childhood was hard and shitty.

yay my new rank! im so happy! thank you all!
(not exactly sarcasm)
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anyhow.. no ill be fine.. i just .. complain.. a lot.. sorry.

and i guess it has its bright side- for example, i get almost unlimited freedom from my mom, and bought out by my dad.. on the other hand it spoils me and ruins me.. which is kind of ok as long as im aware of whats happening and aware of my past self.

it has its own half ass side by remedies, i suppose.

Posted by reman on Jan. 30 2001,03:02

quote:
Originally posted by StanVanDam:
interesting coincidence - i'm listenin to Eminem - Stan.

Here's ya problem sonny, listen to that wigger fuckface eminem will cause you to turn into a pansy girl (no offense kuru ) and make any problem that would seem easily surmountable to anyone else, turn into a midden heap the size of mount everest.

Solution: Stop listening to eminem

YUO=FAG0T

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Posted by StanVanDam on Jan. 30 2001,05:35

A lot of my friends think my parents kick ass. It's because I do pretty much anything I want, but I'm not defying my parents. I guess they have some kind of pretty good trust in me that I won't get myself in any BIG shit. Just got my license like 6 days ago, had the car every day and nite for a good amount of time cept for Sunday. And I was allowed out till 11ish with the car. My other friends had to "earn" trust from their parents which took several weeks. I think my parent's are alright. Either that, or they've given up on me and they're like "yeah, go ahead, u do that" and whatever, but I manage to stay out of big shit anyhow. But fuck they don't listen to things well at all. Ask them a question and they either don't answer or take a REAL long time to answer. Usually end up repeating myself no more than 3 times before yelling or going elsewhere. And when I'm pissed...it's computer time, blast the music from my 4 speaker surround system, and shut out all the noise. And a few minutes ago I was threatened that they won't let me drive anymore. HA! That's what they think. I better fuckin drive or shit will happen..

And I'm just speakin what I'm thinkin right now, I'd prefer not to be flamed to shit so quickly this time, not too many of ya's know me yet. interesting coincidence - i'm listenin to Eminem - Stan. First, my name is Stan. Second, he's talkin bout how he's pissed and shit. I'm kinda like that right now. Music helps I guess.

Posted by kuru on Jan. 30 2001,14:20

reman - no offense taken. i'm not a wussy girl

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'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
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