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Topic: Love..
started by: Sithiee

Posted by Sithiee on Jan. 15 2001,01:18

i hate it. theres this chick, who i am completely in love with (the reasons for, im not entirely sure of anymore), and yet she treats me like crap. love is cruel, why the hell would i fall in love with someone who is so mean? lets look at all the offenses.

1) my cds. she lent me one of her most favorite cds (like prolly in her top 5) and i returned it the next day, in better condition (i replaced the case with parts from my own cd cases). i lend her 3 of my cds (all in like the top 20, and i have a lot of cds), Radiohead - Kid A, Soundgarden - Superunknown, Depeche Mode - Ultra. I got kid a back about a month later, because i gave her her own copy. I only just got my other two back (about 3 months later) and that was only because i nagged her so much. and where were they? she lent MY cds to some guy in maryland. she lent out my cds, which were not hers to lend. WTF????

2) ignoring me. she does this all the time now (as opposed to when i first met her). every time i say something about it, its either a) i dont give her enough space b) she wasnt ignoring me or c) she has a lot of stuff going on right now. yeah, and my life lately has rocked (my best friend since 1st grade moved away, i have to deal with a teacher who is likely to fail me and make me not get into college, i have to apply to college...uh huh, just great). and yet, i dont ignore my friends at all.

3)ingratitude. im a seinor, so at my school im allowed to go off campus for lunch. she told me how she likes biscuits from kfc, and the last time i brought her one i got this "Are you trying to make me fat?? Jesus Rob, you are such an idiot" and then she just walked off. i spend my time and money to try to do something nice for her, and thats what i got.

4) i cant hate her. this makes me the most angry of all. she came over today to give me my cds back, and i was psyching myself up to tell her off, and i ended up apologizing to her, and while i did it, i was thinking "NO! you fool, PUT THE SMACKDOWN!!" but i failed.

yeah, i know, i know, im totally fux0red up, but yeah. that ones been building up for a while. i hate love, and i wish i could turn it off.

Posted by reman on Jan. 15 2001,02:57

sithee's suckin it down.

don't be too hard on yourself mate, and just remember what steve irwin the crocodile hunter says.. "this is fuckin dangerous and its probably gonna get me killed, but lets just see if i can stick my thumb fair up its bumhole"!*

*I dont advocate sticking your thumb up her bumhole no matter how amusing _you_ may think it will be*

*unless of course you webcam it live to detnet in which case I am willing to pay ŭ.95 for the priviledge.

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Posted by kuru on Jan. 15 2001,03:08

want me to come tell her how to behave like a human being instead of a leech?

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'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
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Posted by Sithiee on Jan. 15 2001,08:19

yeah, except i would fear for your safety...and leech is a very very good term. i forgot to add how she leeches off of me, money, rides, food, soda, yknow, just about anything i have on me...

Posted by Wolfguard on Jan. 15 2001,10:16

quote:
Originally posted by Sithiee:
...and leech is a very very good term. i forgot to add how she leeches off of me, money, rides, food, soda, yknow, just about anything i have on me...

Just a stupid question
is this girls name Kim?

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Posted by kuru on Jan. 15 2001,11:25

honey, don't fear for my safety.

well, unless by that you mean you fear for what would happen to me after i kicked the living snot out of this parsitic organism and ended up going to jail, because she's probably not over 18.

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'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
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Posted by askheaves on Jan. 15 2001,18:17

quote:
"Are you trying to make me fat?? "

Use a more subtle approach...

"No, honey. I know you don't need any help."

Posted by damien_s_lucifer on Jan. 15 2001,18:35

It's not love. If you LOVED her, you'd TRUST her enough to tell her off when she treats you like shit. Love & trust are inseparable, and you sure as hell don't trust her... what you have is an ego dependency. i.e. your ego depends on how SHE sees you.

Take your ego back... you don't need her permission or even her consent. It is YOURS, after all. Good luck, I feel your pain(tm)...

This message was brought to you by the VOE (Voice Of Experience)

Posted by Sithiee on Jan. 15 2001,19:41

observer, a lot of column a, a little of column b

and yeah, i wish i could tell her off...i have some sort of brain block on that though...its like, when i think "ok, its time to tell that slut whats what." it always comes out as "sorry"...i think all i want right now is for her to just completely leave me alone...of course thats not about to happen...today at lunch when i was eating with my friend, she had to come over and talk to my friend. he being an intelligent person left so that she would leave too...but then when he came back, she followed...and after listening to her blabbering on and on about herself, i got up to throw out my trash, and she stole my seat and said "hahaha im going to steal rob's seat" i figured she was trying to get a reaction out of me, so i just didnt come back until the period was over to get my stuff...i figure if i cant tell her off, ignoring her should get my point across....man, im pathetic...

Posted by solid on Jan. 15 2001,22:45

is this one of those

you "im a nice guy can you cut me some slack?!"
her "ya right! i like playing around with you like this!"
you "you sadistic ass!"
her "yep."

situations?

Posted by mqa on Jan. 16 2001,00:06

the only reason she treats you like shit is because you let her. there is nothing wrong with getting angry. if you dont get angry she will keep pushing you until you explode columbine style, or you have a breakdown and end up in an institution. by not getting angry you are telling her "this behaviour is acceptable, please continue". this is one of the few times i can speak from first hand experiance, trust me on this one. you can also try brain washing your self in to not liking her anymore, but thats difficult if you see her everyday.

Posted by kuru on Jan. 16 2001,00:49

write her email. yes, it's low and slimy to tell someone off in an email, but if that's what it takes to get some balls and tell her she's not going to shit on you anymore, go for it.

you gotta rescue your dignity, however, or you will be her slave even after she's married to some other guy.

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kuru
'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
-robert frost

Posted by Vigilante on Jan. 16 2001,01:00

I suggest you go ahead and, as mqa so eloquently put it, explode columbine-style.

Posted by Sithiee on Jan. 16 2001,05:01

laura....why did you guess kim?

Posted by Observer on Jan. 16 2001,05:19

I would say that it's not really love, but rather a blind infatuation. You point out all of the things you hate about her, but then you still want her even though she obviously treats you like shit. Now, up until this point, from reading your posts here, I didn't figure you for the type of person who enjoys being shit upon (otherwise it probably would have surfaced in the sex forum). You really deserve better; I guess everyone deserves better than that.

As to why you're attracted to her, if it's not just physical attraction, then maybe the standard Loveline approach applies. (Looking into relationships with parents, emotional background, etc.)

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Posted by pengu1nn on Jan. 16 2001,05:32

quote:
3)ingratitude. im a seinor, so at my school im allowed to go off campus for lunch. she told me how she likes biscuits from kfc, and the last time i brought her one i got this "Are you trying to make me fat?? Jesus Rob, you are such an idiot" and then she just walked off. i spend my time and money to try to do something nice for her, and thats what i got.

i can take alot of shit, but i think that would have set me off. you should have taken that biscuit and shoved it up her ass "now it will make you fat, bitch!"

Posted by Sithiee on Jan. 16 2001,08:33

solid, no.

and the only place i have ever been able to say anything really mean to her is AIM/e-mail and i would go ahead and do it again, but i think im gonna see how this whole "ignore her and she will go away" idea works...

and mqa, when i tell her that shes being a bitch, she somehow always turns it around to make it my fault...i dont know how she does it...

Posted by Wolfguard on Jan. 16 2001,09:52

quote:
Originally posted by Sithiee:
laura....why did you guess kim?

sounded like a kim i know

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Posted by cr0bar on Jan. 16 2001,16:19

quote:
Originally posted by Sithiee:
and mqa, when i tell her that shes being a bitch, she somehow always turns it around to make it my fault...i dont know how she does it...

You're an idiot, that's whats going on here. Plain and simple, really. You say you "love" this girl but she treats you like shit. That doesn't sound like love, that sounds like you being an idiot.

Posted by damien_s_lucifer on Jan. 16 2001,22:49

quote:
Originally posted by cr0bar:
You're an idiot, that's whats going on here. Plain and simple, really. You say you "love" this girl but she treats you like shit. That doesn't sound like love, that sounds like you being an idiot.

Damn, Sithiee, you've incurred the wrath of the almighty cr0...

Posted by Wolfguard on Jan. 17 2001,10:39

quote:
Originally posted by cr0bar:
You're an idiot, that's whats going on here. Plain and simple, really. You say you "love" this girl but she treats you like shit. That doesn't sound like love, that sounds like you being an idiot.

"The more you suffer, the more it shows you really care, right? yeh." -offspring

i think everyone has one of these relationships at one time or another. I had one go on with the deamon hose beast from hell that gave birth to my child. Since i pulled my head out of my ass and got away from her she has continued to make my life a living hell. She uses every excuse she can to take me back to court for more money (that she never gets), try to have me arested for back child suport (that im paid up on) and use my child as a weapon against me every chance she gets. I think she figures that since i was not happy with her little bitchslut ways i can't be happy at all.

Moral of this story? Get as far away from this person as possible before more damage can be done.

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Posted by cr0bar on Jan. 17 2001,14:06

quote:
Originally posted by damien_s_lucifer:
Damn, Sithiee, you've incurred the wrath of the almighty cr0...

I mean that in a gentle, friendly, chiding sort of way, of course.

Posted by Wolfguard on Jan. 17 2001,15:35

Kinda like god when he tossed us out of Eden. Go forth, be fruitful and multiply he told us.

Considering his mood im thinking he told us to go get fucked but once again we got it wrong…

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Posted by WillyPete on Jan. 17 2001,15:54

You're confusing infatuation with love mate. Like Damien said earlier, if it was love she'd know it and at least reciprocate or be friendlier.

She probably doesn't even know what she's doing to you. She sounds pretty self centered and it's my guess that when she is distracted into not thinking about herself all the time and just having fun, that she is the person you fell you've fallen in love with. Right? Seems like she has too many issues right now.
If you're only just getting ready to go to college, you probably have some pretty heavy issues yourself. Concentrate on having fun yourself and not on her or how miserable it makes you. Nothing attracts people to others than seeing those people enjoying themselves. There's so much misery in the world, they hope some of your joy will rub off on them. Just relax, it'll sort itself out or it was never worth hassling yourself about. there's plenty of time and plenty of girls like her with better attitudes, although it probably doesn't seem that way at the time.
Good luck.

This message has been edited by WillyPete on January 18, 2001 at 10:57 AM

Posted by kai on Jan. 17 2001,23:54

your name is rob? weird.

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Posted by kuru on Jan. 18 2001,02:44

lose the bitch.

i don't even mean that in a nice way. god. i am so SICK of chicks treating guys like that. if i could give them all a boot to their self-absorbed little heads, i would.

but i'd need a lot of boots.

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'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
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Posted by Sithiee on Jan. 18 2001,03:37

first and foremost, thank you cr0 for your great vote of confidence.

second, yeah, i can tell shes changed and either she is in no way the person i used to like, and i was just too slow to notice, or that person has like gone into hibernation or somethin....either way, my plan is the same....as i was saying to my other friend rob (why is it wierd that that is my name?) operation get_my_damn_cds_back was a success, and operation avoid_that_fucking_bitch_like_the_plague is ago...and i can say that today (well, yesterday) i had no contact with her at all, and its the best day ive had in a long time....there is a high correlation between not seeing her and my happiness...i think ill stick with what works....so, yeah....

Posted by kuru on Jan. 18 2001,03:47

congrats sithiee.

* dusts off sithiee's dignity and hands it back to him *

you'll be needin this again

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kuru
'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
-robert frost

Posted by Blain on Jan. 18 2001,06:52

LOL!
That's some funny shit heaves.

Posted by kuru on Jan. 18 2001,07:12

um... ask, babe, do you really wanna hang on to another guy's nads?

maybe you should just put those up somewheres for a while....

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kuru
'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
-robert frost

Posted by askheaves on Jan. 18 2001,17:26

If you can stick to the plan, you'll get these back too.

*keeps Sithiee's nads pending further accomplishment*

Posted by jim on Jan. 23 2001,18:07

Sithee you are starting to sound about as weak as Michael! You don't want that do you!?

Just stay out of it. The chick obviously doesn't like you the way you like her, and you are fucking torturing yourself over it!!!

Go get laid!!! Get a hooker if you have to.

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Posted by pengu1nn on Jan. 23 2001,18:16

lol,

jim knows how to put things into perspective.

Posted by Greasemonk on Jan. 23 2001,19:24

Exactly, she probably doesnt like the way you like her either. I wouldnt worry about it there are plenty of women in the world. Look at Chris Robinson, hes married to a hot chic. If he can get a hot chic anyone can.

Posted by Sithiee on Jan. 23 2001,19:30

all is good again. after i posted that, i took my baseball bat and beat the fuck out of my banister, which made me feel good enough to go talk to him...and we worked it out, the first thing he said was that he felt like the biggest backstabbing prick on the planet..and basically, we worked it out, and i explained to him what a bitch she really is, and how id decided i wasnt ever gonna talk to her again, and i warned him that she was a lying bitch. and basically, he completely agreed with me. then he went and explained it to her, and she started crying (what a wuss!) and what i got from him about it, was shes mad about it, something about how she thinks i would have been too rigid to date (i can guarantee you, thats a lie), and that she thought i wanted to date her either for bragging rights or to get into her pants, which wasnt true...and how shes mad at me (ha!)...but basically, its cool now, except that shes mad at me...which could be bad for me because shes half jewish (jewish women are scary), but im pretty much ok now...and now that i think about it, im actually ok with the fact that shes pissed off at me...the sun is shining again

Posted by Sithiee on Jan. 24 2001,05:26

i dont know what to do. yesterday my best friend since the 1st day of 1st grade (thats about 11 years and some odd months) told me how he and laura have a thing for each other now, be he doesnt want to date her because he knows i still have feelings for her. WHAT THE FUCK???? then he asked me if i was ok with that, and i was sort of in the mentality of just being hit in the head with a baseball bat, so i said i was. then later she called me to talk about stuff, and she brought that up, and i told her i didnt wanna talk about it...but yeah. what the fuck do i do? i am more angry at him than i have ever been at anyone in my entire life, and im scared that i cant trust him anymore...but without him, i think i would have killed myself by now...and now he is the problem. i dont know who to talk to about this, or what im supposed to do, but i think this probably the worst day of my life...

Posted by CatKnight on Jan. 24 2001,05:59

let him get fucked (figuratively that is) the same way you did. if she is as much trash as you describe she will do the same thing to him and he will eventually break it off. don't try to warn him though because he'll take offense...

oops

This message has been edited by CatKnight on January 24, 2001 at 04:45 PM

Posted by Kayy on Jan. 24 2001,16:14

Sith, looking at the entire thread and reading it right through, I see there's one thing totally and incomprehensibly missing..

The fact that you never said whether you explained your feelings (whatever they may/may not have been).

Assuming you didnt tell her;
You ever come to the conclusion that just *maybe* if you'd explained your shit to her that maybe she would have been a helluva lot nicer to you?

Fair enough though man, your choice is your choice, I aint gonna force you into nothin (like I could anyway from over here in Ye Olde England), but hell, if you tried, things might work out ok, and if they dont, then it wont change much really will it?

Think about it man.

Posted by ic0n0 on Jan. 24 2001,19:36

sounds like you love her like a swift kick in the balls, to have crush on someone is normal i am told and people have lot's of um in high school and all thu out life, get over her she likes to play with you like a puppet she proably knows you like her in more than platonic sense but she likes to use your feelings to her own benift that is sick and wrong. Tell her your feelings and if she rejects you she rejects you better to get it out in the open so there is no doubt. And for god sakes stop doing her favor's if she is such an asshole.

Posted by Sithiee on Jan. 25 2001,00:48

oh, i told her alright. i dont care anymore. shes a backstabbing lying, manipulative bitch. and now shes fucking with my head! today after school when i was leaving, she was sitting at a table with one of my friends in the cafeteria (which was almost empty) and i said goodbye to my friend, but nothing to her, cause i knew she was pissed at me, and i didnt think i wanted to have any sort of conversation with her. so i said goodbye to my friend, and then she says goodbye to me, as though we were still really good friends. what a mindfuck. now im scared and confused...but im gonna stick with the plan of not talking to her if i can help it, because i still cant tell her off...

Posted by solid on Jan. 25 2001,01:56

"I cannot determine your mental problem, so in short I wish to never come in contact with you in any way possible. Visual, phone, so on.

DO YOU UNDERSTAND?"

Posted by Rhydant on Jan. 25 2001,23:14

you know.. i prefer the kind of love your in with the other person not knowing it
< Hmmm.... i wish. >

if only it could be.
come to think of it.... thats a bad picture... doesnt do her justice

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Make it idiot proof and someone will make a better idiot. The thing I hate most is that I didn't have a better idea.

Posted by Vigilante on Jan. 25 2001,23:33

It certainly doesn't...

Posted by Rhydant on Jan. 25 2001,23:53

SHUT YOUR MOUTH, LAM0R!

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Make it idiot proof and someone will make a better idiot. The thing I hate most is that I didn't have a better idea.

Posted by solid on Jan. 26 2001,00:07

quote:
Originally posted by Vigilante:
It certainly doesn't...

rotfl
the funny part is that you can almost hear him saying that.

Posted by Vigilante on Jan. 26 2001,00:08

Oooh, feisty.

Posted by Rhydant on Jan. 26 2001,00:31

Bah.
no, really. that is a bad picture. she looks much better in person
now if i only had the guts to ask her out

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Make it idiot proof and someone will make a better idiot. The thing I hate most is that I didn't have a better idea.

Posted by Sithiee on Jan. 26 2001,00:33

I'd try and give you some advice....but, well, look at what happened the last time i liked a girl....heh..

Posted by Vigilante on Jan. 26 2001,00:33

Try impressing her with your defense of her beauty by giving her a link to this thread.

Posted by Rhydant on Jan. 26 2001,00:35

ok, again. thats really not funny
i have another picture of her but its not on the net

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Make it idiot proof and someone will make a better idiot. The thing I hate most is that I didn't have a better idea.

Posted by kuru on Jan. 26 2001,01:54

you could um, try just being more physically affectionate.

when you hang out and watch tv (if you do) sit close to her, rub her shoulders, touch her, something.

usually, if i want a guy to know i like him i arrange it so i'm sitting next to him, and then i make sure i kinda lean up against his side and usually he will get the hint and wrap an arm around my shoulders or something. from there it usually gets more comfortable and i end up kinda layin on him with one arm draped over his leg and my head in his lap.

hard to miss the meaning of that kinda close physical contact.

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'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
-robert frost

Posted by CatKnight on Jan. 26 2001,16:55

this forum is better then pr0n!

well, almost

Posted by Rhydant on Jan. 26 2001,18:02

quote:
Originally posted by CatKnight:
this forum is better then pr0n!

what is that supposed to mean?!

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Make it idiot proof and someone will make a better idiot. The thing I hate most is that I didn't have a better idea.

This message has been edited by Rhydant on January 27, 2001 at 07:56 PM

Posted by kuru on Jan. 26 2001,20:01

god, i didn't mean suckin his dick. at least... not at that point anyway. it takes a little longer than that before i go down.

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'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
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Posted by solid on Jan. 27 2001,00:27

quote:
Originally posted by kuru:
god, i didn't mean suckin his dick. at least... not at that point anyway. it takes a little longer than that before i go down.

YOU DIDNT?! damn.. i guess that means that all those times they did that it wasnt cuz they liked me...

Posted by Blain on Jan. 27 2001,05:32

quote:
Originally posted by kuru:
layin on him with one arm draped over his leg and my head in his lap.

Posted by Blain on Jan. 27 2001,07:35

I know you didn’t mean that, it just sounded funny when taken out of context.

Posted by kuru on Jan. 27 2001,19:15

can i help it that i'm just a physical chick?

the guy hasta figure out i like him and make some indication that he likes me too before things really get naughty.

and when is askheaves coming back *pout*

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'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
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Posted by solid on Jan. 28 2001,00:24

indications?!

jeez kuru its a guy (i mean not to degrade us that much, but..)
if you just pull us into a dark corner and say "fuck me" its pretty much just "well, thats that".

of course, im tlaking about .. i think about 60-75\% of guys

Posted by kuru on Jan. 28 2001,11:45

the kinda guys i want aren't that easy.

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'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
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Posted by Sithiee on Jan. 28 2001,18:23

i finally told her off! yay me! it basically went "hi....your a evil whore, and this is why....you hurt me, and i hate you for it.....dont fuck with my friend, or i will destroy you, you evil whore" and then i added a post script that was a quote of tyler durden with "do not fuck with us." and a post post script saying that i will be watching her...im so proud of myself.

Posted by Dark Knight Bob on Jan. 28 2001,18:26

hehe sith's turned into a right honourable little evil man of very high evilness that represents evil in all its form. good on ya man

Posted by kuru on Jan. 28 2001,18:43

i think you get your balls back now

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'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
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Posted by Sithiee on Jan. 29 2001,08:34

she took my e-mail telling her off as a death threat, even though i specifically said in it that i dont physically hurt people. she thought it was a death threat because im in the rifle club at school. so basically, when she said that she was like scared for her life, i decided it wasnt worth getting in that much shit over it (shed told her parents...that kinda scared me) blah blah blah...she said something about a "columbine letter" WTF?? blah blah blah "im not a threat to him, i wont do anything to hurt him" just like she unintentionally hurt me...blah blah blah....DUMB HO! so after apologizing and saying i stepped over the line (which i dont really believe) i just told her we should start over like we just met, and now i can devise a new way to get rid of her with out her fearing for her life....man thats some bullshit.

Posted by solid on Jan. 29 2001,13:06

aww shit sith. seriously, when someone gives me bullshit i stick with the "fuckem over" plan all the time. i even resist my parents, school staff, or any other authority. "so whats your point? he/she pissed me off and i gave them a piece of my mind. they offended me when they talked to me before and i dont see the problem here. do what you want, because i have nothing to lose"

of course, that is when i do seriously have nothing to lose. but then again individual results may vary.

dont take no ones shit.

Posted by Sithiee on Jan. 29 2001,13:18

my friend isnt gonna date her until i tell him i think its ok...and seeing as how shes that unstable....well geez...i dont think it would be a very good idea

i think it would be appropriate to quote agent smith at this point..."They're not out yet!"...

Posted by askheaves on Jan. 29 2001,18:49

Damn, man. I was about to give your balls back too. Guess I get to keep them for a few more days

Posted by kuru on Jan. 29 2001,19:29

sithiee dude, you should NOT have apologized to her again.

i think you've been totally castrated.

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kuru
'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
-robert frost

Posted by cr0bar on Jan. 29 2001,19:52

Posted by Sithiee on Jan. 29 2001,19:54

ok, lets see...apologize, or have her parents call the police and have them think im some sort of threat, come arrest me or whatever, get MY parents involved....blah blah blah...NO

Posted by solid on Jan. 30 2001,00:39

ok.. would you like me to prepare a speech for you sith?
it goes like this.

"Hello, bitch (replace bitch with bitch's nam). I'm here to talk to you about what i think about your behaviour towards me, around me, so on. I would like you, to stop the following (insert blah blah blah). Now i would like you to consider the following (insert what you want her to know). Now i would like you to NOT make any foolish assumptions out of this brief conversation. I am not a threat. I am not a homicidal maniac. That is all"

or- if you prefer:

"look bitch (replace..) , can you please stop being such a pain in the ass? do you always have to complicate things for me? because of you i have to do all this crap i hate, just because youre worried. and i mean i really, really dislike that. you think im trying to scare you or worse but its nothing like that. we have (im being nice by saying we btw) problems communicating. id just like for you to give it your best shot to stay away from me, and any matter concerning me (btw, say all this in a nice sincere manner). now id like to get back to my life- this isnt a life and death situation"

or option 3:

"fine, call the cops."
then exsplain to the cops whats up, tell them the real truth of what happened, and how shes being a real pain in the ass and overreacting to everything.

im sure even the cops will understand.

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but for gods sake dont just give in. never be a victim of being someone elses shit unless you will definately get physically hurt, seriously mentally hurt, or you just as well might die.

Posted by Sithiee on Jan. 30 2001,00:52

whatever, we're "neutral" now, so basically shes gonna leave me alone, im not planning on giving my friend the ok to go out with her, ever. she lost, i won, and now im gonna drop it....

Posted by Rhydant on Jan. 30 2001,02:32

well Sithiee, i think you get your balls back now. so how took them anyways? kuru?
heh heh, i talked to that chick today. BOOHYEAH! but uhm... nothing happened. damnit!

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Make it idiot proof and someone will make a better idiot. The thing I hate most is that I didn't have a better idea.

Posted by askheaves on Jan. 30 2001,03:05

ok, Sithiee. you get one of your balls back. you may do with it as you please. you get the other one back in one week pending your sticking to the neutrality.

As for you, Rhydant. I'll just be holding those for a while for you. You won't be needing them for a while, as they'll just get you into trouble.

I AM THE BALLKEEPER!

Posted by Rhydant on Jan. 30 2001,04:04

wha...? what!?
*sniff* you have no faith in me, do you people? I WILL GET THIS GIRL, DAMNIT! I WILL!

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Make it idiot proof and someone will make a better idiot. The thing I hate most is that I didn't have a better idea.

Posted by CatKnight on Jan. 30 2001,04:09

keep your balls to yourself please jeez.

(or as my RA would say: "You can't throw balls in the halls, but you can play with them in your rooms")

Posted by Sithiee on Jan. 30 2001,08:36

first off, he knows that i basically find out about everything, sooner or later, and more often sooner, and thats because i watch people, and i get everyones opinion on everything. second, he knows that our 12 year friendship is worth far more than her slutty bitch ass, and if i was a big enough asshole, id tell him to just not be friends with her, and he would. this really isnt just any friendship.

edit: i meant to add(without an extra post) that shes also way too much of a prude to have sex with him. shes super paranoid about people thinking shes a slut (which lots of people do) to have sex with anyone, so theyre not gonna be doing the nasty any time soon. and shes also way too unstable to like one guy continually for a long period of time, so after a while shes gonna find a new guy to like. i estimate a month or two. dont forget i used to be really good friends with this gil for about 8 months, she told me lots of stuff about herself and such.....

This message has been edited by Sithiee on January 31, 2001 at 03:40 AM

Posted by kuru on Jan. 30 2001,14:29

kuru didn't take nobody's balls.

askheaves is the balls-keeper.

Posted by WillyPete on Jan. 30 2001,17:36

And you seem to think your friend won't go out with her until you say it's ok? Shit he's probably boning her when you're at home on your pc. Guys don't ask for permission, they just ask for approval before they dare bring it out into the open. I mean, come on. When was a guy ever considerate? It's just not in us. We have no real genetic capacity for thinking about other people.

/end rant_cynicism

Posted by hair on Jan. 31 2001,02:49

quote:
Originally posted by Rhydant:
ok, again. thats really not funny
i have another picture of her but its not on the net

Not everyone has to agree with you about who is good looking. I, personally, agree with Vigilante. So be it. Its really not that important. I don't need your confirmation to think someone is hot. Why do you need mine or anyone else's?

By the way, are you friends with this girl?

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If the doors of perception were cleansed everything would appear to man as it is, infinite. - William Blake

Posted by Rhydant on Jan. 31 2001,20:18

yea, i guess your right. just a little paranoid for another reason

uhm... not really. ive only talked to her a couple of times. her parents work for my (soon to be, maybe) step dads company. so ive actually been in the same room with her other tahn school.

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Make it idiot proof and someone will make a better idiot. The thing I hate most is that I didn't have a better idea.