Forum: Sex
Topic: fucking...
started by: fatbitch
Posted by fatbitch on Jan. 14 2001,02:50
warning: this post contains many uses of the work "fuck"

have you ever noticed that someone always says they 'fucked' someone? i am talking about sex here. do you ever hear anyone say "xxx fucked me" instead of "i fucked xxx"? or when someone is talking about their friends, they always say "hey, did you hear, john fucked xxx", never "xxx fucked john"

what is up with this? why do people always think it was their doing? i am not ranting here, im just trying to pose a serious question about the use of our language. here is one theory that i came up with quickly. guys think they 'fucked' the girl, because they have the tool (penis) and they see it as working the tool on her, therefore fucking her. girls (not that i could make an accurate statement abotu this, just my simple thinking) say they 'fucked' the guy, becuase, well, most guys would take sex whenever they can get it, it seems to be the chicks perogative to fuck, so they say they fucked someone because it was wholly their choice

is this a valid point of discussion? or am i just talking out of my arse? i enjoy analysing our language and how we use it. such as the difference between "dual" and "duel", but i wont go into that right now, this being the sex forum

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Posted by kai on Jan. 14 2001,03:16
quote:
Originally posted by fatbitch:
"dual" and "duel", but i wont go into that right now, this being the sex forum

whats wrong with dual in a sex forum. things like dual 1Ghz procs. now that just gets me all randy.

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Posted by Sithiee on Jan. 14 2001,13:36
thats kind of like how people always say "you look like xxx". i find that offensive. i usually say "bull shit, xxx looks like me!".....yup
Posted by Dark Knight Bob on Jan. 14 2001,19:31
I think its based on a very complex physcological effect called a person perspective on the situation

he/she is the one talking so its from their point of view therofre they were the ones fucking.

sounds simple to me

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Posted by Neophyre on Jan. 14 2001,22:53
umm i dunno it all depends on the whether its referring to it in the first person, second person or in the third person.

i really dont remember what it means, i just remember my english teacher rambling on about it last year.

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Posted by askheaves on Jan. 14 2001,22:54
that's one hip teacher, conjugating the word fuck in class
Posted by fatbitch on Jan. 14 2001,23:18
I know its a matter of perspective - i was just wondering why it is we perceive it like that. oh well :)

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Posted by Sithiee on Jan. 14 2001,23:23
dude, my math teacher curses all the time. she is crazy. she curses, she makes fun of us, she talks about how her husband isnt gonna get any (he is also a math teacher...theyre both really fat, so it makes it funnier) and then shes also really nice and is good at teaching. almost teh ideal teacher. the ideal teacher would also have to be a fox.
Posted by nautilus on Jan. 30 2001,20:47
what's damn amusing is when you conjugate the word "fuck" to a foreigner. at first it's funny b/c they're not quite using it in the right way, then when they do get the many forms of fuck straight, they get excited and use it all the time. besides, the word fuck with a french accent is just entertaining on its own.
Posted by SaxMaster on May 08 2001,13:01
I dont fucking care how fuck many fuck times fuck people fuck use fuck the fuck word fuck. Get the ideafuck?

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Posted by Greasemonk on May 08 2001,14:14
Ill say it once and Ill say it again. Chics dont get laid, they get fucked.

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Posted by LiNeY on May 08 2001,15:01
quote:
Originally posted by nautilus:
what's damn amusing is when you conjugate the word "fuck" to a foreigner.

wow you can conjugate that? Please tell me... I am a foreigner.

Posted by askheaves on May 08 2001,15:05
I fuck
You fuck
He/She/It fucks

We fuck
Y'all fuck
Thou fucketh

pretty simple one

Posted by cr0bar on May 08 2001,15:59
I don't understand the originating confusion in this thread. . .no single person does the fucking (let's not get into discussions about who has the dick or whether masturbation is fucking). It's not really fucking unless there are at least two people, so if you're going to say "I fucked X", then it is also true to say that "X fucked me."

Remember, to fuck means to have sex with. If I do something with someone, they also do it with me. Unless they're dead. Ok, I'm sorry I even posted to this thread.

Posted by Sithiee on May 08 2001,20:21
thats not entirely true. if a guy is spankin it, hes having sex with himself. so he could eitehr be fucking himself, or it could just be he fucks....

edit: i just read the parentheses in cr0s post, so since i couldnt come up with anything intelligent to say, i added this, showing my not being smart.

This message has been edited by Sithiee on May 09, 2001 at 03:22 PM

Posted by psychopharmacologist on May 09 2001,01:06
You could say "I fucked me"
or "I was fucked by me".
except the phrase "I fucked me" also contains the meaning of the other. since the Subject and the object are the same thing.
Thats the duality of masturbation.
Posted by Greasemonk on May 09 2001,10:34
When was the last time I hear a chic say "I fucked this guy" was when everyone who heard it gave her a weird look. One person even asked if she gave it to him up the ass with a dildo or something.

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Posted by LazyGit on May 11 2001,14:33
Fornication Under Consent of King

Does either person have permission to use the word?

Aaaaaaaah.
cheers

Posted by Blowgoats on May 20 2001,04:29
I think it should be "xxx and xxx fucked eachother..." That works very well...and yeah...later.

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Posted by Trog on May 20 2001,07:33
quote:
Originally posted by LazyGit:
Fornication Under Consent of King

erm... that's < not > the origin of the word....

back on topic, though, I've heard both girls and guys talking about "fucking" someone, and about being "fucked", but the latter is more common for females, and the former, for males, which suggests the whole "Tool" mentality is stronger in the circles I hang out in... which is odd

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Posted by Rhydant on May 20 2001,13:02
this topic was started 4 months ago. let it die already!

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