Topic: Since when is Virginity a crime?
started by: Hellraiser
Personally, none of the girls I've fallen for would have been worth it. They all turned out to be bitches. I've been hurt too many times to not be cynical about this, but until I find someone who is worth losing my virginity over, I'll stick to my five faithful digits. No one ever got a STD from masterbating!
Thoughts? Opinions? Am I outta my fucking skull? You tell me.
there are a lot of problems with std's, pregnancy, and a whole mess of other things. that's why it's best to not give a shit what other people think, and do what works for you.
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kuru
'sex is one of the most beautiful and natural things that money can buy' - steve martin
Hellraiser, nobody thinks that you're nothing for never knocking boots. The only problem I have is with self-proclaimed virgins... people who put so much of an emphasis on the importance of sex that they intentionally don't have it (or else they use it to rationalize not being able to get any).
Sex is fun, sex is serious. It's not something to be taken lightly, and it's not something to be avoided at all costs. You find a nice girl who you love and you know she's clean and birth control is very closely observed, than all of that stuff isn't quite as big of a deal. You can't lump an experience like that into the same category as going to a bar and picking up some nasty chic with sores on her lip and banging her in the bathroom unprotected.
Sex is a nice thing when you have it, not a huge deal when you don't. I haven't gotten it for over 1.5 years, but I'm not going completely nuts. Far as I remember, it's a fun thing, but I'm not going to go searching for something to bone. I'll find me a nice girl, start a relationship, see what happens. I'm certainly not able to rule out any activities on a moral basis.
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Originally posted by askheaves:
Sex is fun, sex is serious.
Well for me, sex is mythology, never had (except by myself), and probably never will (and not by choice!)
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Askheaves said:
Sex is fun, sex is serious.
Actually, I'd kinda like to modify that statment: Sex is fun, the decision to have sex is serious, and the act of having sex is downright hilarious. I mean, yes it's meaningful and pleasurable and draws you and your partner closer (at least, the good sex does), but it's also a riot. My wife and I always laugh when we're doin' it, and we always have a great time. So while you are engaging in your well-thought-out, protected Act of Love, don't forget to have a little fun.
Or, to drag this beast back on topic, never ever be ashamed of your virginity. My wife and I were virgins until our wedding night, and one of the biggest benefits is that I can honestly tell her that she is the best sex that I've ever had. There may be better out there, but I enjoy it and in this case, ignorance truly is bliss.
Take care of yourself, and do what's right for YOU.
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--Jynx
We do not make software "releases" -- our software escapes, leaving a bloody trail of desginers and quality assurance people in it's wake...
all you have to do is think it through. are you ready? you know the risks? you have protection? and most of all, is it worth it?
hellraiser is right! no one ever got an STD from masturbating. do this till your married. then go for the real thing.
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Originally posted by Jynx:
My wife and I were virgins until our wedding night, and one of the biggest benefits is that I can honestly tell her that she is the best sex that I've ever had. There may be better out there, but I enjoy it and in this case, ignorance truly is bliss.
Yes! That's exactly my theory behind it....I figure neither of us would be like, "Well...you are the best, except for..." yeah, I know I'm only 15, just thinking ahead and shit.
what i'm trying to say here is, while my sexual history is definitely a plural list, i don't rank them in any sort of order. i remember their names, though a couple of the faces aren't as clear as they used to be. and when the next guy comes along that i'm in a relationship with, i'm gonna have wild, passionate sex with him till he cries tears of ecstasy.
so um, the guy i'm with at any present moment, in a relationship, is number one in the world, and the only one in my mind at all.
i'm not having the easiest time putting this into words, but i guess what i'm sayin is that if i'm in a relationship with someone, obviously he's more special than anybody else. i wish i could say that there'd only ever be one of those, but i've found that life doesn't work that way. everything, even the best things, can end. and when those ends come, i file away all the good memories and wait for the next mr. right, right-now to come along.
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kuru
'sex is one of the most beautiful and natural things that money can buy' - steve martin
whether or not you're fucking someone is not that big of a deal.
whether or not you're spending time with someone of the opposite sex is... otherwise you could wind up like one of my buddies who is 28 and does nothing but work, watch TV, and smoke pot because he's afraid of girls.
Anyway...
If you're a virgin, don't worry about it.
If you haven't had sex in a long time, don't worry about it.
If you haven't made out with anyone in a long time, don't worry about it.
If you have no friends of the opposite sex, then you should probably worry.
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Damien S. Lucifer
I agree with you 110\%. I wasn't a vrgin when I was married, but it didn't matter. I only want to have sex with my wife, and (hopefully) she only wants to have sex with me. I don't care if she has had better, and I don't care if I had had better. Right now, and until she runs away with guedoo, she is the best I have ever had. I like being with her, as well as in her.
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Wine me, dine me, 1000101 me
Ignorance is bliss. I'm loving that statement.
Kuru - you sad cow - Mr.Rightnow? That is so disrespectful, how dare you treat men like that.
oh, no, wait a minute. i think you're just pissed off because all the GUYS on the forum have been sayin stuff like 'preach on sister kuru' and askin me when they can meet me.
you are also an unbelievable idiot if you think that "mr. right now" means 'fuck 'em and leave 'em.'
just because i'm not looking around for THE GUY i will spend the rest of my life with, that does not mean i'm gonna sit around in the nunnery and be all uptight and pretend that the only reason i really want those cucumbers is for all the fuckin fiber.
chill out chick, get off my back, masturbate or something.
there's no need to be makin any kind of comments AT ALL like the one you did, so kindly take your "pert 16 D" breasts and get the hell out of here.
nobody in their right MIND even believes that bra size anyway, since that'd leave you with a TWELVE INCH ribcage, ya twit.
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kuru
'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
-robert frost
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This message has been edited by ic0n0 on January 22, 2001 at 01:54 PM
And of course SHE didn't WANT to remember... that makes it OK in her head.
Cheers! 
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you probably aren't a virgin anymore. i'd say it's likely that even if neither of you actually got off, you still followed the old 'mating instinct'
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kuru
'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
-robert frost