Forum: Sex
Topic: Being bi.
started by: Purple Dog Food

Posted by Purple Dog Food on Jun. 24 2001,07:29
Is being bi being greedy or getting the best of both worlds?
Posted by Wolfguard on Jun. 24 2001,09:31
Being bi is never having to say no to sex.

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Posted by Observer on Jun. 24 2001,10:42
Sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don't.

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Posted by PersonGuy on Jun. 24 2001,13:48
It's getting the best of the female world (cause chicks dig gays), but taking it in the ass every so often.

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Posted by jim on Jun. 24 2001,13:56
If you are a male:
Being bi is being gay but trying to cover it up.

If you are female:
Being bi is fun for everyone.

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Posted by Wolfguard on Jun. 24 2001,14:21
you know that your statement...

Oh, wait, its jim, homophobos extreamous.

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Posted by ic0n0 on Jun. 24 2001,14:29
my best friend told me he was gay two weeks ago, i am fine with it if anything it has made our relationship closer (not like in a sexual way) cuz he could be totaly honest with me. mr.Frued thought everyone was to some degree bisexual, then again he was also a drug addict.

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Posted by RenegadeSnark on Jun. 24 2001,15:21
germfuck! You can't condemn people's opinions to be invalid just because they are a drug addict. OK, maybe you can, but it isn't right. Freud was a heroin addict but no one but his close family knew until after his death.
Posted by cr0bar on Jun. 24 2001,15:48
Oh, no, that's where you're wrong Renegade. See, drugs are evil dementia in chemical form. Anyone who uses them is a complete idiot, and any ideas and observations they have are just part of the mechanism the drug has invoked in them to propagate itself and take over the world! Anyone who says otherwise is a pathetic drug addict who has already fallen into the trap.

You should've paid attention in DARE.


Posted by jim on Jun. 24 2001,16:34
quote:
Originally posted by Wolfguard:
Oh, wait, its jim, homophobos extreamous.

Roger that.

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Posted by TonyDennis on Jun. 24 2001,19:13
Haha, jim is so cool.
Posted by Chrissy on Jun. 24 2001,20:59
I am still trying to figure out what the attraction is here for men. Personally, been there done that got the t-shirt wish I could return it.

What more can I say...

I was young and stupid

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Posted by Wolfguard on Jun. 24 2001,22:29
quote:
Originally posted by jim:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Wolfguard:
[b]Oh, wait, its jim, homophobos extreamous.


Roger that.

[/B][/QUOTE]

No problem with your post then. Your just being you.

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Posted by Wolfguard on Jun. 24 2001,22:31
quote:
Originally posted by Chrissy:
I am still trying to figure out what the attraction is here for men. Personally, been there done that got the t-shirt wish I could return it.


Sell it on ebay...

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Posted by MattimeoZ80 on Jun. 25 2001,01:37
amen. i mean really, see heres the logic: if you're a guy you're just greedy, if you're a girl you're greedy too, but it gets guys off, so the guys won't think you're greedy, because you're not stealing a girl, you're just sharing her.

well of course i still think its gross in general...

quote:
Originally posted by jim:
If you are a male:
Being bi is being gay but trying to cover it up.

If you are female:
Being bi is fun for everyone.


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Posted by damien_s_lucifer on Jun. 25 2001,02:31
Rant #1 :
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HOW THE FUCK ARE BISEXUAL PEOPLE GREEDY JUST BECAUSE THEY'RE BISEXUAL???

someday, if we're lucky, the human race will learn to stop associating certain personality traits with sexuality.

Being bi is no more or less natural than being gay, which is no more or less natural than being straight. Even if it was, who the fuck cares what nature thinks?

Here's some definitions for ya :

heterosexual : sexually attracted only to the opposite sex.

heterosexual : sexually attracted only to the same sex.

bisexual : sexually attracted to both sexes to varying degrees.

Consider this... We may choose who we'll pursue and who we won't pursue, but we don't choose who our bodies wanna get it on with.

If you are a straight man, when was the last time you chose to pop a stiffy when a fine-ass chick walked by? If you're a straight woman, when was the last time you chose to get all hot and bothered by a cute guy? Do you really think that, unlike you, gay or bi people have some magic power to MAKE themselves be attracted to people?

Straight people get turned on when an attractive member of the opposite sex walks by.

Gay people get turned on when an attractive member of the same sex walks by.

Bisexual people get turned on when an attractive member of the human race walks by. Lucky them.

Rant #2 :
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Concerning Jim the homophobe : being 100\% straight does not imply homophobia.

I can honestly say I've never been interested in trying to get together with another man. The few times I've been pressured into thinking about it, I end up thinking of fungus and the smell of a ripe locker room - not exactly the kind of thing to make my dick get hard.

I could conclude - as some people have - that this must mean I'm secretly homosexual and just don't want to admit it to myself or anyone else, but don't you think I'd NOTICE if my dick got hard around men???

I am not afraid of homosexuals as a class of people. There are a few specific gay men that worry me, but there are plenty more STRAIGHT men that I'm afraid of - so does that make me both homophobic AND heterophobic? Or does it just mean that some people are downright scary?

This whole "men who are 100\% straight must be secretly gay" thing is just plain idiocy, and all it does is hurt the cause of equal rights, if for no other reason than it doesn't make straight men real eager to fight for gay rights. No one likes to be called something they're not.

This message has been edited by damien_s_lucifer on June 25, 2001 at 09:48 PM


Posted by TonyDennis on Jun. 25 2001,09:22
I don't know why you would want to get into a flame war. Your opinion is doubtfully going to change someone else's (online anyway).

Anyway, Jim's held that opinion for some time now, why didn't you bitch then? I thought it was pretty damn funny.

This message has been edited by TonyDennis on June 26, 2001 at 04:23 AM


Posted by Wolfguard on Jun. 25 2001,09:52
There is no reason to flame Jim for what he thinks.

What he thinks is up to him based on how he feels. He sticks to his guns and will even see your point of view if you put it in an inteligent manner. He will still think your wrong but he will see it.

So, Jim does not like homosexuals. Big deal. Chances are they dont like him either.

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Posted by kornalldaway on Jun. 25 2001,11:27
quote:
Originally posted by Wolfguard:
There is no reason to flame Jim for what he thinks.

What he thinks is up to him based on how he feels. He sticks to his guns and will even see your point of view if you put it in an inteligent manner. He will still think your wrong but he will see it.

So, Jim does not like homosexuals. Big deal. Chances are they dont like him either.


I think Wolfguard is the oldest one here, and I would say at this point he is the wizest. This is the first time that I ever see somebody in a forum bring up this statement. And I couldn't agree more. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and rather then try and prove that opinion wrong, why not just leave it as a simple fact that is what that person beleives and let it be.
Occasional more or less formal debate is educational for all, but I see no reason to start flamewars.

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Posted by Wolfguard on Jun. 25 2001,11:39
wizest? Me?

<long fit of laughter>
<still going>

Heh, oh god thats funny.
I may be old but im still figuring things out about life. If im the wizest one here you guys are screwed.

I think i would be the one that fucked up the most so far and is some how still alive to tell about it.

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Posted by PersonGuy on Jun. 25 2001,13:55
quote:
Originally posted by Wolfguard:
So, Jim does not like homosexuals.

I'm pretty sure he has never even IMPLYED that... but I may be off-base...

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Posted by TonyDennis on Jun. 25 2001,14:19
quote:
Originally posted by Wolfguard:
There is no reason to flame Jim for what he thinks.

What he thinks is up to him based on how he feels. He sticks to his guns and will even see your point of view if you put it in an inteligent manner. He will still think your wrong but he will see it.

So, Jim does not like homosexuals. Big deal. Chances are they dont like him either.


Blah, that's exactly what I was trying to get at, I just couldn't find the words.


Posted by jim on Jun. 25 2001,14:43
quote:
Originally posted by PersonGuy:
I'm pretty sure he has never even IMPLYED that... but I may be off-base...


you are off base.

If you want to know how I really feel. Read this thread here: < http://www.detonate.net/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000018.html >

And thanks Wolf for not re-flaming me!

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Posted by Ozymandias on Jun. 25 2001,17:03
quote:
Originally posted by jim:
If you are a male:
Being bi is being gay but trying to cover it up.

If you are female:
Being bi is fun for everyone.


You know, this mentality pisses me off, and I was going to make an outraged post, but I've been so unmotivated lately, I weighed whether getting into a flame war was worth defending my opinion, and decided it was not.

I sure do love life.

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Posted by Dark Knight Bob on Jun. 25 2001,20:07
quote:
Originally posted by TonyDennis:
Haha, jim is so cool.

oh great now hes got his own groupies


Posted by incubus on Jun. 25 2001,22:33
<eminem>
I'm not homophobic, you're just heterophobic - staring at MY jeans watching my genitals bulging! That's my muthafuckin balls, you better let go of 'em, they belong in MY scrotum you'll never get hold of 'em!"
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hehe.

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Posted by jptech on Jun. 26 2001,01:36
Wow... I've managed to keep quiet for sooo long! Was really hard to remember my password so I could post :-)

So - my Ũ.02 here, seeing how I seem to be detnet's only gay guy...

I know a whole lot of people who are bisexual. Some of them do it because they can, because they like the idea of being able to get all the sex they can. Some of them are SERIOUSLY confused, and honestly don't know what's going on with them. Some have resigned themselves to their "fate", knowing that they like a little of everything, but just to be "normal" (whatever the hell that is) act upon only half of their instincts. And only recently have I started seeing the last type - the ones who know who they are and what they want, and are willing to go for it...

I consider myself quite lucky to be seeing someone right now who falls into the last category... he acknowledges the fact that he is bisexual, and is quite willing to admit the fact. Right now, he calls himself gay, because that's what he is - maybe in the future, he'll be calling himself straight. Maybe not. Right now he wants a relationship, and honest-to-god relationship, just like "normal" couples have. I'm hoping that I'll get to be the other half.

Anyways, I'm off-topic... too much time at work make brain work double-plus not good...

Bisexuals aren't greedy - they're lucky. They can be "normal" and at the same time enjoy a little of everything. I've "been there, done that, got the t-shirt" on both sides of the fence, and I know what I like better - and that's where I am today.

So Wolfguard and PersonGuy - you guys are cool - thanks for your support :-)

And jim - not to start a flame war, tho I know it probably will - I have a question - if your best friend, someone you've known for years, all of a sudden told you he was gay, would you feel the same way about him as you've made it blatantly clear you feel about homosexuals? (I had to ask - this happened to me a few years ago right after I got out of high school)

This message has been edited by jptech on June 26, 2001 at 08:37 PM


Posted by jim on Jun. 26 2001,01:45
I thought I already answered this before.

Yes.

My best friend from 3rd-8th grade. After 8th grade he left for another high school, and I didn't see him again until I was in the 12th grade. All the sudden he is gay. And no I never hung out with him again.

Also, I was reading up on all my old friends at < http://www.highschoolalumni.com/ > and found out I guy I hung out with from 6th grade all the way to the point that I joined the Marines was gay the whole time I knew him. THAT PISSES ME OFF! I will NEVER talk to that mother fucker again. Matter of fact I sent his ass a nasty fucking email.

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Posted by PersonGuy on Jun. 26 2001,02:20
quote:
Originally posted by PersonGuy:
but I may be off-base...

<ren>YOU EEEEEEDIOT!</ren>
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Posted by Wolfguard on Jun. 26 2001,12:18
quote:
Originally posted by PersonGuy:
I'm pretty sure he has never even IMPLYED that... but I may be off-base...


He did not imply it. He has flat out said it.

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Posted by Wolfguard on Jun. 26 2001,12:23
quote:
Originally posted by jim:

And thanks Wolf for not re-flaming me!


When we find something new to flame about im sure the napalm will fly. Im pretty sure we beat this one to death already

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Posted by jim on Jun. 26 2001,13:08
agreed

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Posted by SLATE on Jul. 03 2001,06:02
quote:
Originally posted by Chrissy:
I am still trying to figure out what the attraction is here for men. Personally, been there done that got the t-shirt wish I could return it.

What more can I say...

I was young and stupid


oh, do tell! if you want...

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Posted by SLATE on Jul. 03 2001,06:05
quote:
Originally posted by Dark Knight Bob:
oh great now hes got his own groupies


comming soon to a forum near you: < www.clanjimhatesgaysfromdetonate.net >

wow, that was SO not funny..
Sleep time....

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Posted by Caseman985 on Jul. 12 2001,14:51
quote:
Bisexuals aren't greedy - they're lucky.

I wouldn't really say that.. It is my belief that no one is truely bisexual. Scientists have found very blatent and dramatic differences between the chemical makeup and workings of the homosexual vs. hetrosexual minds. Its been a while since I read up on it so I won't try to remember exactly what those differences were.

Anyway, it has also been shown that a very large majority of the people who are bisexual were abused as children one way or another. Somehow this abuse confused their line of sexual thinking and made them attracted to members of both sexes. I'm not trying to dismiss Bisexuals as people with a diseas, for heaven sakes my own mother is bisexual. All I'm trying to do is give another viewpoint on the subject.

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Posted by afropik on Jul. 12 2001,15:25
quote:
Originally posted by Caseman985:
Somehow this abuse confused their line of sexual thinking and made them attracted to members of both sexes


Wouldn't that make them, by definition, bisexual? So they have to exist. I think because of it hitting so close to home, you shut it out a bit, trying to deny it's existance, yet you know that it's possible.

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Posted by CatKnight on Jul. 12 2001,16:07
i think what he meant was that people who are bisexual are actually gay but don't want to switch sides completely
Posted by L33T_h4x0r_d00d on Jul. 12 2001,16:36
quote:
Originally posted by damien_s_lucifer:

Here's some definitions for ya :

heterosexual : sexually attracted only to the opposite sex.

heterosexual : sexually attracted only to the same sex.

bisexual : sexually attracted to both sexes to varying degrees.


I think you meant

heterosexual : sexually attracted only to the opposite sex.

homosexual : sexually attracted only to the same sex.

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Posted by Pickle Therapy Lady on Jul. 14 2001,00:35
quote:
Originally posted by Wolfguard:
Sell it on ebay...



I second that motion. I was dicussing just yesterday the potential dollarage involved with a thong/panty wheilding online endevour with the potential of giving the purchaser a webcam view of them being worn before sending them to the buyer. I'm sure the whole T-Shirt thing could be done just as easily and make a decent amount of flow as well with the right "tweaks" for sell tactic.
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Posted by Psycizo on Jul. 14 2001,00:42
quote:
Originally posted by cr0bar:
Oh, no, that's where you're wrong Renegade. See, drugs are evil dementia in chemical form. Anyone who uses them is a complete idiot, and any ideas and observations they have are just part of the mechanism the drug has invoked in them to propagate itself and take over the world! Anyone who says otherwise is a pathetic drug addict who has already fallen into the trap.

You should've paid attention in DARE.


Weed.... must have weed.... hold on.... i've never had it.. but somehow i know what it's like..... woah this is trippy.... dude....

Oh yeah.... and bi's are great... i also know and am friends with a gay guy.... he bites me =\...

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Posted by Pickle Therapy Lady on Jul. 14 2001,01:46
quote:
Originally posted by Psycizo:
Weed.... must have weed.... hold on.... i've never had it.. but somehow i know what it's like..... woah this is trippy.... dude....

Oh yeah.... and bi's are great... i also know and am friends with a gay guy.... he bites me =\...



Can I bite you too?
*nibble nibble nibble*

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Posted by PersonGuy on Jul. 14 2001,02:43
quote:
Originally posted by Pickle Therapy Lady:
I was dicussing just yesterday the potential dollarage involved with a thong/panty wheilding

Someone beat you to it... in several Asian countries you can buy used women's panties in a vending machines. Look it up yourself though... I'm to lazy...

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Posted by Pickle Therapy Lady on Jul. 14 2001,07:20
quote:
Originally posted by PersonGuy:
Someone beat you to it... in several Asian countries you can buy used women's panties in a vending machines. Look it up yourself though... I'm to lazy...



Thanks PG but there are actually women in the States who do it as well. I've just never been impressed with the girls who do it. I'm sure it could be done better. That's all I really mean. And I don't blame you...I'm too lazy too. I'm currently NOT sweating it.


Posted by Wolfguard on Jul. 14 2001,16:51
quote:
Originally posted by Caseman985:
Anyway, it has also been shown that a very large majority of the people who are bisexual were abused as children one way or another. Somehow this abuse confused their line of sexual thinking and made them attracted to members of both sexes. I'm not trying to dismiss Bisexuals as people with a diseas, for heaven sakes my own mother is bisexual. All I'm trying to do is give another viewpoint on the subject.

Ok, this fits with my experience then.

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Posted by Psycizo on Jul. 16 2001,17:07
quote:
Originally posted by Pickle Therapy Lady:

Can I bite you too?
*nibble nibble nibble*

Why not? LOL!

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Posted by porn_dealer on Jul. 18 2001,15:12
quote:
Can I bite you too?
*nibble nibble nibble*

I'll take three, thanks.

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Posted by CowboyNeal on Jul. 18 2001,15:13
And I'll take nine! Bites! Of ham...

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Posted by Pickle Therapy Lady on Jul. 18 2001,22:00
quote:
Originally posted by Psycizo:
Why not? LOL!

quote:
Originally posted by porn_dealer:
I'll take three, thanks.

Sure ... but only if you're fruit flavored and not over-ripe. Damn do I hate soft fruit!


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