Forum: Sex
Topic: school ball
started by: BigKahuna

Posted by BigKahuna on Jun. 14 2001,07:47
ok heres the deal - me and my gf were talking today about her school ball and then she tells me that another guy friend has asked her to his school ball and that she's going. i don't really like the idea of this, but i don't think i could tell her. am i just being petty or do i have a right to be jealous/angry/concerned? whats even worse is that shes going out with this guy, one of his mates, and one of her mates tomorrow for lunch or something. any ideas?
Posted by PersonGuy on Jun. 14 2001,09:50
I say: time to start scrapping the barrel for a DIFFERENT chick to ask. Sorry, man... it's the way it goes sometimes...

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Posted by L33T_h4x0r_d00d on Jun. 14 2001,11:27
Buy a gun.. a big one.

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Posted by porn_dealer on Jun. 14 2001,11:39
quote:
Originally posted by L33T_h4x0r_d00d:
Buy a gun.. a big one.


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Posted by cr0bar on Jun. 14 2001,13:43
"My girlfriend is seeing another guy. Should I tell her I don't like this? I don't want to lose her!"

Um, yeah


Posted by jim on Jun. 14 2001,13:48
If you haven't already dumped her ass, then their isn't anything I can say that will help you...

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Posted by RenegadeSnark on Jun. 14 2001,14:03
Might I suggest the following line:

"Roses are red, violets are blue, trash is dumped, and so are you."

It also wouldn't hurt to say something along the lines of:

"Rat-tat-tat, yo"

And if that's not good enough:

"You're having your period all over my nice carpet" <slap> "Get out in the back yard, bitch"


Posted by PersonGuy on Jun. 14 2001,14:05
WOAH! YOUR GIRLFRIEND!?!? Sorry, I didn't read that thuroughly enough...

Now I'm with Jim... er sort of. Tell her that either she can go to the dance with that guy OR remain your girl friend. And if she says, "But..." you need to say, "The only 'but' I want out of you, is the fuzzy peach one that you hide under that cute little skirt! Hehehehe!" (quoted from "The Godson")

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Posted by CatKnight on Jun. 14 2001,15:17
eh coming from the reverse point of view, my prom date had a b/f that went to another school. however, he was a total fucknugget that abused her and i was always the shoulder to cry on. anyway, if you aren't a fucknugget, and you aren't blowing things out of proportion* then she probably doesn't want to go out with you anymore but just doesn't have the nerve to tell you.

*note: you may be blowing things out of proportion, the other guy might just be a genuine friend. however, it was still rude of her to take priority of a friend over you.


Posted by jim on Jun. 14 2001,15:21
I'm telling you... THIS IS A BAD THING!!! The more you try to tell yourself it's not that bad, the worse it's going to hurt.

She if fucking you over. CUT THE LINE, NO SECOND CHANCES, JUST LEAVE! NOW... RUN!!!! GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!

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Posted by Sithiee on Jun. 14 2001,18:16
its a ball. its primary purpose is to serve as a place for teens to neck. its fucked up to go with a "friend".

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Posted by askheaves on Jun. 14 2001,19:45
Run like hell. Had a similiar problem.

I was going to go to homecoming with this one girl. Went out on a date with her, and was ready for fun at homecoming. Then, she tells me that her boyfriend probably wouldn't like it if we went together about a week before hand.

There's just too many things wrong with that situation that all came out in one sentance. That was the end of that adventure.

Nobody needs to put up with anything of that type. The only time going to a dance as friends is appropriate is when they're really friends and there's no boy/girl friend in the picture.


Posted by BigKahuna on Jun. 14 2001,21:23
The thing is i'm still going to HER school ball with her, but she is also going to HIS school ball with him on another day.
To tell you the truth i really do see it the way you guys put it (besides the gun part ) She has a boyfriend she shouldn't be going to another ball with another guy. I have been asked to my old schools ball by a chick that i know from there, but i said no because the first thing i thought of was my gf and how she would feel if i went to a ball with another chick. I was thinking about going to my old schools ball just to get back at her but she probably wouldn't mind and i would just be spending $$$ on something that i don't really want to go to.
Posted by kuru on Jun. 14 2001,21:47
it's pretty much always bad when your girlfriend is seeing another guy. unless of course you like that, which you don't.

telling her you don't like it isn't the problem, because odds are, she doesn't give a shit about that. i'd ditch her.

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Posted by j0eSmith on Jun. 14 2001,23:21
For fucks sakes! Your clinging! Quit it! Stop! Now! Exclamation mark!

Seriously though. Tell her that you don't like what shes doing. Actully just tell her that you've had enough of her bullshit and find yourself a new and improved woman.

Leave her and move on.

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Posted by PersonGuy on Jun. 15 2001,00:02
quote:
Originally posted by BigKahuna:
The thing is i'm still going to HER school ball with her, but she is also going to HIS school ball with him on another day.

Hrm... this makes it a little more complicated. Odviously she's hot or you wouldn't be putting up with this crap!

It's not going to be good if you stop her. She'll probably be upset about it. However, males can only define the rules of a relationship AT THE BEGINING. If you let this go now, you've permanently lost your ground on her going out with friends. Basically if you let her go... you have ZERO possibility of a healthy long term relationship with her.

But here's my advice: Cances are you won't marry her... in fact, you probably won't even be dating he a year from now. So I say let her go an be happy... and then slice-off some ass ASAP! Just be prepared to have MANY MORE uncomfortable situation come up.

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Posted by j0eSmith on Jun. 15 2001,00:42
Or yeah, you could go PG's route and just use her, that works too. I'm serious.

^-- Look, I'm not even faking a 'moral high ground'.

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Posted by aletros on Jun. 15 2001,05:16
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Originally posted by CatKnight:
it was still rude of her to take priority of a friend over you.

Er? I'd have to disagree. A real friend comes before just about everything but family. This includes current boyfriend or girlfriend.
Yes, I'm bitter my drinking buddies and I got stiffed by a friend to watch Ally McBeal with his girlfriend. :P
Honestly though, unless she's "the one", then why worry if she goes with someone else? Let her, and if something happens then oh well. Life sucks. If IS just a friend, then you become the trusting, caring, open one blah blah blah sweet lovin' for you.


Posted by directhex on Jun. 17 2001,05:44
i detest things like school balls. my loving girlfriend, however, threatened to take one of her bloke mates to it instead of me.

LAST time i wear a tux.

at least she made up for it when we went to her (deserted) house afterwards

--directhex

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Posted by Wolfguard on Jun. 17 2001,11:09
CK: I could not say it any better myself.

Just remember
There are no personal problems that can't be solved by a suitable application of high explosive.
And
If you love some one set them free if they come back to you they are yours forever...
If they don’t, well, god made sniper rifles for a reason.

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Posted by Greasemonk on Jun. 17 2001,11:18
quote:
Originally posted by BigKahuna:
ok heres the deal - me and my gf were talking today about her school ball and then she tells me that another guy friend has asked her to his school ball and that she's going. i don't really like the idea of this, but i don't think i could tell her. am i just being petty or do i have a right to be jealous/angry/concerned? whats even worse is that shes going out with this guy, one of his mates, and one of her mates tomorrow for lunch or something. any ideas?

I hate it when people do this stupid shit. Why cant people respect each others relationships? You think her guy friend would find a SINGLE chic to go with instead of starting some friction between you and your girlfriend.
Here is what you do, tell her its ok. Then after that dumbasses BALL bring some friends, find the guy, and kick the living shit out of him. It sounds like the dumbass is leeched to your girlfriend and cant find anyone for himself. Take as many friends as you can to the lunch and have lunch with them all, if they make any type of comment or gesture kick the living shit out of them. It sounds like a few people are going to attempt to get you two to break up eventually. Beat him and his mates into unconsciousness...

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Posted by CatKnight on Jun. 17 2001,11:24
the reason why i am smarter then all of you ( ) is because i tend to look at everything from multiple perspectives. if you were in this guy's shoes, what would you be thinking? i'm positive all of you have done some sort of stunt to get a girl you really like to break up with her b/f who may not be a nice guy or whatever your rationale is. if this is the case, you should go up to the other guy and say "look, i know what you are trying to do. we have a very good relationship, and i don't need your ass meddling around and ruining it for both of us. i'm afraid i'm going to have to kick your ass now." etc, etc.
Posted by SLATE on Jun. 18 2001,03:28
Umm.. i'm on the other side of the coin. i went to my dance with a girlfriend of mine (a FRIEND). She has a boyfriend. I actually asked him permission cause I didn't want him to be upset and shit, plus I didn't want to fuck up their relationship, cause I'm not an asshole. After he said i could go but if i tried anything he'd kill me, I was cool. After the dance, him and I kinda became tight.

If you KNOW for sure he ain't gunna try nothing or your woman aint gunna try anything then who cares man, let her go. You DONT own her and if she wants to go and have fun, then let her do so.


Posted by PersonGuy on Jun. 18 2001,14:36
See... SLATE did the RIGHT thing.

Cat-man... if her BF is abusing her call the police. You have NO RIGHT to butt in the way you did and cause MORE chaos!

Teller: Oh, no! There's a bomb in the bank!

SUPER-Cat: Don't worry! I'll destroy it with a hammer!

*BOOM*

Narrator: Once again, the day is saved!

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Posted by Wolfguard on Jun. 18 2001,16:19
quote:
Originally posted by PersonGuy:
Cat-man... if her BF is abusing her call the police. You have NO RIGHT to butt in the way you did and cause MORE chaos!


Strap into that chair there guy before you hit the ceiling.

Where did this come from anyway. try quoting a couple of lines so we can trace your source.

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Posted by PersonGuy on Jun. 19 2001,23:26
quote:
Originally posted by CatKnight:
eh coming from the reverse point of view, my prom date had a b/f that went to another school. however, he was a total fucknugget that abused her and i was always the shoulder to cry on. anyway, if you aren't a fucknugget, and you aren't blowing things out of proportion* then she probably doesn't want to go out with you anymore but just doesn't have the nerve to tell you.

Yah... I was a little late to comment... but I didn't realize how much that statement sucked until he started calling himself a GENIOUS 13 posts down!

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Originally posted by CatKnight:
the reason why i am smarter then all of you ( ) is because i tend to look at everything from multiple perspectives. i'm positive all of you have done some sort of stunt to get a girl you really like to break up with her b/f who may not be a nice guy or whatever your rationale is.

No. No I haven't, <arnold>ass-hole</arnold>!

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Posted by SLATE on Jun. 20 2001,01:40
holy shit... dont tell me the arnold and pacino sounds are popular over there too...
ohh goodness
Posted by PersonGuy on Jun. 20 2001,01:52
< oh yes... >
(not to mention Gary Coleman)

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