ok heres some info bout me. i am 18. when i was 17 i had my most intensive and lasting 'crush' on a girl that i had only known for a week. she was also 12 years old. physically and mentally, she was much older than her genetic age, but that is hard to belive from mr just saying it, so pls just belive me :)

earlier this year, i had a very brief, intense and drunk experience with a girl 3 years 8 months younger than me (just 14). she wanted me all the way. my morality kicked in (past about half a case of beer!) and i avoided it. i still dont regret doing that, especially considering how hard that can be when drunk, but anyway back to the point

i am physically attracted to younger bodies. i think this is common in a lot more guys than will admit. but i always get stuck on the maturity. as much as i lust after the young flesh, the emotion attachment is quick to happen, but significantly more shallow. i have had 2 major girlfriends, and both of them have been my age (17 and 18) and although they weren't as physically magnificent as the less aged ones, they held conversations much better :)

to summarise. although i would never do anything physical (i.e sex) with someone that young, i certainly want to sometimes. i suppose iwould like to know how common this is? plus of course any other responses any of you may have. thanks

I actually prefer older women.

The woman I am 'seeing' (not dating) right now is 34. I'm 25.

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A couple of years into college, I felt no real attraction to girls who were in high school. Some of the older ones looked good, but it was marginal.

As of now (just graduated), I can safely say that going out with anybody under 18 is just not in the cards. 19-20ish is pretty ok, but it would suck not to be able to go drinking with them. And, 21-22 would be perfect for me.

It was like dragging a big rubber band of attraction. It was all stretched out at first, but it ended up catching up as I got older. That's a terrible analogy. Point is, most likely you will start to be attracted to girls closer to your age. If you aren't any time soon, just listen to the younger ones talk. It'll drive you nuts, and you'll come to the same conclusion that you already did: girls closer to your age will be more interesting to you, because they are typically going through the same experiences.

and yeah, talking to the younger ones can be very hard, but i find that sometimes one can surprise you with a flash of wisdom if none of her friends are around. thats when i wish i could zap her a couple years older

SO, by having sex with these women, you don't need to feel bad because they're younger than you... you need to to feel bad, because they're using you to act out something wrong with them. The bad part is that even if you refuse to do it with them, until they get some help, there's a MILLION guys lined up right behind you who might not refuse.

Ok, and just so nobody gets mad... guys can be screwed up too. But that's only if they CAN get sex from people their own age but ONLY want MUCH younger chicks.

But anyway, like [whoever] said, you'll probably grow out of it, so just keep it tucked for a year or two, and start haning out with older people.

Hope that helps!

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the young girl thing was true for me to, when i was 16 17 18 all i chould think of was 14-16 year old girls. and i had girlfriends that were 2-4 years older than me. now my last girlfriend was 4 years older than me, and now im talking to a girl(woman)whos 31(oh my god is she fine!!)and im 22. i asked her how old she was and she asked how old i thought she was and i said 24, she asked how old i was and i said 22 and she said she thought i looked 24 and that she was 31. then their was a wierd pause as we bolth calculated the diffrence. and i hoped she didnt think i was too young and i hoped she was wondering if i thought she was too old. and i hope you dont think im rambling, off topic. because i most certainly am. lets just leavi it at this we have alot of animated conversations and she kissed me on the cheek last nite (woo hoo)

anyway age is a semi-arbitrary number and shouldent be used to gauge someones maturity, though it often is, because people like to belive there is an absolute scale that they can use to stick a lable on everything.

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Happy trails,
Luke

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"Compassion brings us a certain inner strength. Once it is developed, it naturally opens an inner door, through which we can communicate with other human beings, and even other sentient beings, with ease and heart to heart." --The Dalai Lama

Boy, I am long-winded on this post

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Originally posted by Rhydant:
but i dont think i would go out with a freshman or a junior.

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The main problem comes when you graduate and they don't or vice versa; but then again, most relationships in high school don't last that long anyways...

--directhex

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