he has to be able to accept unconditional love, and try to realize that he deserves it...

and he's gotta be sexually expressive, or my libido would cause me to explode.

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kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa

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Kari p00h
*GF of Caseman984*

The perfect guy must have an appreciation for and knowledge of how to handle big boobies.

silly boys.

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kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa

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Originally posted by kuru:
there's slightly more to playing with boobs than sucking on the nipple like you expect your dinner to come out of it.

silly boys.

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kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa

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Originally posted by kuru:
if your girl's into it, there's always the (pardon my french) boobie-fuck.

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Wanna go have dinner sometime?

This message has been edited by whiskey@throttle on September 27, 2000 at 11:08 PM

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kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa

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Originally posted by kuru:
now you're talkin. and if your girl's into it, there's always the (pardon my french) boobie-fuck.

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Amen to that.
Praise Kuru! lol

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-- incubus
As I chase the leaves like the words I never find ...

yet another reason i love men so much.

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kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa

i'm sorry if you got the impression that i was like 'whoa, dudes, i just wanna fuck 'em all' cause that's not even close to what i'm really like.

yeah, i'm hyper sexual when i'm in a monogamous relationship with a guy... and only with THAT guy.

truth is, when i hear stuff like 'i could have a 1 nighter with you' it's an instant turn OFF. i made that mistake exactly twice, and i can't see it happening again.

no offense, but i could never have anything to do with a guy who'd want nothing more than one fuck with me. i'm worth more than that. a lot more.

i said this to a friend of mine once, and it still holds true... i know what people assume about me because of my attitudes and the easy way i talk about sex, and i pity them that they are unable or unwilling to ever look deeper.

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kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa

Couldnt have been said better Kuru
I respect you alot. Im glad you have the courage to take up for yourself. something I dont possess.

This message has been edited by Kari p00h on September 28, 2000 at 07:32 PM

i try not to be a complete bitch about it, though sometimes that's rough.

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kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa

it's interesting, one of my friends has a similar attitude towards sex as you, open, liberal, open to discussion and experimentation. But (and it's a fairly major but) he does not have the strictures that you place on partners that he does. he is just as happy to have a casual fling, as he is to have a long happy relationship with only one person. also he cares less about the person's attributes than you do, he doesnt need someone to intelligently converse with him, he doesnt need them to appreciate him for who he is...blah blah...

hmmm let me guess your star sign...my guess is you're a cancer...hmm i may be talking out of my ass...oh well

regards, reman

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People ask me to fix their computer. I do in 5 seconds.
They say "You think your good don't you".
I say "I know I'm good". People always ask stupid questions.

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Originally posted by kuru:
he has to be able to accept unconditional love, and try to realize that he deserves it...

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this may be a little off topic, but why do you think *some* guys do this? i can't seem to, and my gf hates it... i have no idea why i can't...

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brodie

Now every face, it looks familiar...
then every face would melt away until now...
everyone, do you know, I know your deception?
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brodie: accepting unconditional love is hard, i have a difficult time accepting it myself. i think what helps me is that i've learned that it's not up to me. if someone wants to love me completely and unconditionally, there's not a damn thing i can do about it. love is something that people give because they want to, it's a gift that i try to accept graciously. i have a VERY hard time believing that i deserve unconditional love, but i try. i don't expect any guy to ever understand why i love him no matter what, why i want no terms, no conditions, and i don't even ask that he love me back before i give my own love to him.

my heart is not a rational thing, it chooses, without the involvement of my brain, who it loves and how. by 'accept and try to understand that he deserves it' all i mean is that i hope he'll know that i give my love freely, because it makes me happy, because my heart believes he deserves it, and i ask nothing in return.

i just want him to know that he doesn't have to believe he deserves it, that to me, it's enough that i believe he does.

i hope that made sense.

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kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa

That doesn't mean that being a (choosy) sexual person is a bad thing, it just tends to make me want to turn and run at times...

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< http://www.personguy.com >

ps: sorry so sappy....

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brodie

Now every face, it looks familiar...
then every face would melt away until now...
everyone, do you know, I know your deception?
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calm down and stuff, i didn't mean that i was lookin for a guy HERE that fits those qualifications.

brodie: i hope that helped... not all chicks are lookin for the same thing.... but me, i say 'i love you' because i want to and because i mean it. it doesn't require an 'i love you too'.... at least, i don't.

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kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa

To tell the truth I'm VERY afraid of you, and could never have anything to do with you (other than a 1 night stand). There's several reasons for that, but mostly it's just speculation of your past that has driven you so hyper sexual. Not to say that there isn't a chance that you could be normal and just super fun for no reason, but I wouldn't take the chance.

Hehe, but don't be pissed, I'm just being honest!

PS: and I don't care if you have the most perfect shlong on Earth, it's never going to make a girl think that YOU'RE perfect.

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< http://www.personguy.com >

This message has been edited by PersonGuy on September 28, 2000 at 12:31 PM

what the fuck? i'm kinda confused here since like, i was just describin what i'd want in a guy who i had a relationship with in like, really non-specific terms.. i thought that was the point of this thread... and then i saw your post in which you were hypothesizing about you and me....

none of what i said was directed at anybody on this board.. i dunno why you reacted to it the way you did....but now yer jumpin all over me n sayin that i'm spazzing out?

what the hell? did you totally misinterpret it? i dunno why every post you've made after i said what i like in a guy has contained anything relating to me and you...

'my point was just that there's no way I'd feel safe commiting to anything with you.'

uh??? um??? where did that come from? i'm not defensive, i'm confused. where did i say somethin that led you to believe i was askin for any commitment from anybody on this bb? i was talkin to nobody in particular about stuff i like, and all of a sudden someone starts makin suggestions about 1 night stands and whether or not i was an abused child??

i dunno dude, but it seems to me if anybody misreacted (is that a word?) it was you.

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kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa

This message has been edited by kuru on September 29, 2000 at 03:55 PM

My fingers were bent on that quotaion.

There is just NO WAY... you've GOT to be doing that on perpose!! RIGHT?!? OMG...

Am I crazy, or does anyone else think she draws the most outragious conclusions from comments that don't mean anything!?!

Ok, I'm calming down, but you drive me insane, acting like you don't even do that... sheesh...

and don't forget *whew*

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< http://www.personguy.com >

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<P:\>erson\Guy.exe -PersonGuy *pERSONgUY.cfg
< http://www.personguy.com >

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<P:\>erson\Guy.exe -PersonGuy *pERSONgUY.cfg
< http://www.personguy.com >

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Originally posted by Greasemonk:
Does having 7"+ length and 3" girth qualify as a perfect guy?

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I'll tell you right now that being well-endowed is no boon. My ex-girlfriend wouldn't let me even attempt to go all the way until about a week after we started sleeping together. That, and the problems you have getting up after a class where your mind wanders. Plus it's not like a set of big boobs for girls. There's not usually any visual evidence of size, so it doesn't help get any women.

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I never let my schooling get in the way of my education - Mark Twain

"Why yes, I am concerned about the geopolitical climate in the mideast. Oh, have I mentioned I have an extremely large set of genitals?"

I dunno, I have a feeling that girls view it like finding they get an extra topping on the ice cream cone. Nice, but it still would be okay without it.

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I never let my schooling get in the way of my education - Mark Twain