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Forum: Sex Topic: Interracial dating... started by: Greasemonk Posted by Greasemonk on Sep. 22 2000,19:04
Personally if Im attracted to a woman it doesnt really matter what race she is. Even though Ive mostly gone out with white chics I wouldnt mind dating someone outside of my race. Anyone else ever date outside their race?[This message has been edited by Greasemonk (edited September 22, 2000).] Posted by hyperponic on Sep. 22 2000,19:13
I haven't personally, but 2 of my roommates last year have, and they both seemed happy. One of 'em is going on his third year with her, i believe.------------------ Posted by jim on Sep. 22 2000,20:00
I'm sure this will come as a big surprise to anyone who has read my posts... But Jim does NOT date outside of the white race.It has nothing to do with hating other races. I have plenty of friends in other races. I'm just only attracted to white women. Period... That's just me though. ------------------ Posted by Lordbrandon on Sep. 22 2000,20:10
Brandon's very first girlfriend was black, thats right all the way back in fifth grade.i rember it well her name was deona and she had braids with beads in them with little peices of tinfoil on the end to hold the beads on. And she said to me, She said to me "Brandon, i think your cute" and "do you wanna be boyfriend and girlfriend?" and i replied; "um.. OK" and so it happened, and so it came to past, that Brandon (though she put no stanky on my hang down) had his first girlfriend. and its been blonde white girls ever scince. Posted by askheaves on Sep. 22 2000,20:23
I went on one date while in high school with an islandic chickie (Guam, Puerto Rico, don't know for sure). She was (probably still is) a fox! She has been in America all her life, living with a foster family (white), so it was like the only thing that wasn't "white" about her was her skin tone. No accent, nothing.It was, however, a very nice date with a very nice girl. Wouldn't discount an experience like that again. Posted by darksol on Sep. 22 2000,21:44
why do people care about race so much? i just dont understand. The whole world should be like hawaii, where everyone is happy. Sorry, fuck that, it should be like hawaii where race is not even thought about.------------------ Posted by jim on Sep. 22 2000,22:47
Then don't think about it like race.For me it's about attraction. I'm not attracted to asians, hispanics, or blacks. All others will be judged on a case by case basis. ------------------ Posted by PersonGuy on Sep. 22 2000,23:27
I've had a Black, Chinese, and Serbian ALMOST-girlfriends... I had an Eskamoen(?) OFFICIAL-girlfriend too...Anyway, I'll have to agree with Jim... it's not about race. It's about what atracts me, and personally Blone hair doesn't turn me on. I like darker hair. Not that I could never date a blone, it's just not the thing I look for. ------------------ Posted by floyd on Sep. 22 2000,23:41
Personally, I believe that a hot/nice/fun woman is just that. Race isn't an issue - for the most part, it's just skin deep, and it's not like heritage or culture should matter. Peace, baby!------------------ Posted by Sithiee on Sep. 22 2000,23:44
yeah, i think its more about attraction, ive been attracted to non-white girls before, but i guess it took a white jewish girl to bring out the man in me....
Posted by kuru on Sep. 23 2000,23:24
so far the guys i've dated white guys, jewish guys, and native american guys.... i just go out with who i'm attracted to and interested in. i've never met a black or latino guy who has gotten the heart rate up, but i'm not so closed minded that i think it's out of the range of possibility.------------------ Posted by directhex on Oct. 04 2000,18:39
it works, far as i can tell. i have no personal experience of the matter, but a mate of mine is dating a chinese girl.me? if they're attractive, who gives a monkee's what race they are. my girlfriend's white, but i wouldn't be bothered about it whatever she was. --directhex ------------------ Posted by jim on Oct. 04 2000,18:43
Hmmmmmmmm, do people really consider Jews another race??I just think white, latino, asian, native american, east indian, and black... I think Jews fall into the white category.. Same with Italions, Germans, so on and so forth.... ------------------ Posted by nautilus on Oct. 04 2000,18:48
I personally don't have a problem with interracial dating, but I've seen some of the really shitty after-effects in terms of how people who are biracial are treated. My cousin's son is 16, half black and half white, and has a very hard time socially at school. The white kids don't want to hang out w/ him b/c he's half black and looks primarily black, but the black kids can tell he's half white, so they don't want anything to do with him either. So until we reach a point in society where people can handle others of biracial heritage, I'm not sure if I could truly condone an interracial marriage, esp. if I knew the couple was planning on having kids. I personally have never dated a black man. But it's not so much b/c of that, but just b/c (as someone said before) I've never found one that I had a lot in common with and was attracted to. And since I do have a boyfriend and I'm not looking for someone new, that's not going to change anytime soon. This message has been edited by nautilus on October 04, 2000 at 01:49 PM Posted by Sithiee on Oct. 04 2000,20:29
jim, i do, and i know a lot of people who do. for me its mostly because i can usually tell the difference between a jew and a white person, so it seems different to me. just like how a lot of times you might find spanish(south american, not whites from spain)look a little like some asian (for the longest time i thought my neighbors were spanish, untill i met their parents.) i dunno, to me i just feel a lot of the time that im really different from a lot of the white people i know...
Posted by Mahdimael on Oct. 05 2000,02:25
It should only really matter who turns you on. One of my friends (who happens to be 1337, as a matter of fact) always teases me that I only like black women. That was only because I told him some black women are pretty. (Look at Tyra Banks, for example). It's odd because he's always about the asian women.In any event, I say go with what feels good. Black, white, red, brown. Skin is skin, but it's only skin. |