Topic: Does breast size matter to you?
started by: kixzor2
Do you prefer chicks with bigger tits?
Or just a mouthfull?
Don't care?
For chicks - Do you ever wish to change breast size, and do you think it affects how you date?
anything you can fondle=good
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And yes, it definitely affects my dating life. B/c of my overabundance, a lot of guys treat me like I'm just a walking talking set of boobs. But guess what? There's actually an intelligent female behind this rack! So it's definitely made me be more selective in my choice of guys. I'm just glad I was finally able to find someone who can both appreciate me for the woman I am, but still take advantage of the fact that he's got 2 big toys to play with. 
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It's awfully hot and sticky down south right now.
i would kinda like to have smaller ones, but then not so small that i was flat chested either.
my biggest pet peeve is when guys act like i had some kind of choice in how big they got. they'll say stuff like 'nice rack, how big are those?' as if they think i went out to the store and picked them out one day. it's those guys, and the ones who think that having big boobs means no brain. these guys are the ones who treat a chick like me as if she's stupid, a slut, or both, simply because of how big my chest its.
i actually met a guy who said he'd never date a chick with big boobs because 'girls with big boobs are usually stupid and mess around with other guys a lot.' naturally, he didn't get much of my time.
then there's the other extreme. guys who will only date girls with big boobs. i've run into a few of those guys, and it seeems to me they'd rather date a set of boobs than a human being.
nautilus: you're lucky to have found one of the guys who can deal with a girl that has a set of boobs and a high level of intelligence. those guys are rare. when i meet one, i'm going to tie him up and stash him in my walk in closet so he can't get away. 
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kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa
I have gone out with a chic with inverted nipples, there is something you dont see everyday.
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PersonGuy said:
For example, if they're big, but the nipples don't match, it's a turn off (one lower than the other, one bigger than the other).
it's actually pretty rare for any girl to be perfectly symmetrical. it just doesn't happen, so unless you're looking for a girl with big implants, you better get used to the fact that most of us are a little different on each side. the human body is just made that way.
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PersonGuy said:
But it's VERY important that they're well maintained, whatever the size (whatever that means (LIKE IIIII KNOW!)).
yeah, i'd like to know what that means too. there's not much 'maintenence' to having breasts. they're just another body part, so they get clean in the shower, and the only possible way to counteract gravity is to wear a bra, which pretty much every chick with anything bigger than a B cup would do most of the time anyway.
of course my boobs aren't perfectly even and perfectly round. that's how you can tell that they're not implants!
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kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa
Anywaze, I wasn't talking about PERFECTLY "even". I'm talking about 2-second-glance-from-5-feet-away "even". Like it's-not-odviously-uneven "even".
And I guess "maintaining" is the same same thing... it's the LACK of being maintained that's a problem. I don't know how easy or difficult it is, but every once in a while you'll find some that are a little on the rough side... and it's a big turn off. How does that happen? I don't know... but I guess matenace problem...
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But I know that some chicks use them resposibly. I mean, take a slut with small ones VS a slut with big ones. It's like the big boobs cause the sluts to come out of the wood work... know what I mean? Point being, that there are an equal number of sluts, big or small, but it's always much more odvious with the big, and that's why they get a bad reputation. Unfortunately it becomes a stereo type, and I'm sorry for all the busty chicks who have to put up with that.
Anyway, I like a NICE rack. Size doesn't matter. There are NICE big ones, and NICE small one. For example, if they're big, but the nipples don't match, it's a turn off (one lower than the other, one bigger than the other). And droopy is bad for me, so sometimes if they're smaller, it keeps them perky, and I like that. But it's VERY important that they're well maintained, whatever the size (whatever that means (LIKE IIIII KNOW!)).
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you're lucky to have found one of the guys who can deal with a girl that has a set of boobs and a high level of intelligence. those guys are rare. when i meet one, i'm going to tie him up and stash him in my walk in closet so he can't get away.
I do consider myself very lucky. I haven't felt the need to stash him in my closet, but I make sure I keep him satisfied so he doesn't feel the need to stray. 
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It's awfully hot and sticky down south right now.
As for fake boobies check Stevie "KillCreek" Case for an example of who not to do it. obviously she didn't read Breast Implants for Dummies, or Oreilly's Breasts in a Bra (The one with the beaver on the front).
regards, reman
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They say "You think your good don't you".
I say "I know I'm good". People always ask stupid questions.
guys, please don't make fun of my industrial strength bra. i like having boobs that are on my chest instead of around my ankles just as much as you do.
i'm always glad to hear a guy say it doesn't affect who he chooses to date... tho it is nice when they play with what ya got!
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kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa
i'm inclined to agree with him.
--directhex
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Personally I dont like guns so I guess thats why I dont like big breasts...or something like that..
"Anything more than a handful is just too much."
so any dude who loves me will love all of me. and that includes my breasts.
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kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa
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brodie
"37!? In a row?"
seems kind of shallow.
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kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa
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so any dude who loves me will love all of me. and that includes my breasts.
Exactly!
I have been with girls that've had anywhere from A to Double D cups ... and I don't really mind either/or. I like a girl for her, and only her and ALL of her.. Attitutde and maturity plays a BIG role, and being cute is a definate plus
I totally dig the intellectual thing though
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brodie
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i just find that to me, it's more the attitude, the maturity, the brains, the sense of humor that get me than how big his muscles are or how he fills up a pair of jeans.
no harm, no foul.
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kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa
But this string is really depressing for me, and here's why:
"You're lucky to have found one of the guys who can deal with a girl that has a set of boobs and a high level of intelligence. those guys are rare. when i meet one, i'm going to tie him up and stash him in my walk in closet so he can't get away."
I have been searching all the time for intelligence in girls, but all I find is ignorance and complete apathetcness. It really disturbs me that I just can't find one. And what REALLY REALLY bothers me is that all girls around here are infatuated with guys that have SUPER HUMAN dicks. I mean, when a girl my size, and I'm small, like 5'9" 120 pounds (age 17 too) demands that she can have nothing less then an 8 inch dick inside of her, it really makes me just want to give up.
It seems like the roles have reversed. I'M the one looking for intelligence and love, and they're looking for physical mutations. It's so very sad...
But that's attractiveness, outside that, a mouthful is enough.
But size isn't really that important, its just general shape and 'good aesthetic qualities' that define how nice breasts look. That phrase (I don't know where it comes from), 'Small yet perfectly formed' springs to mind but its not as if big ones can't look good or else porn stars wouldn't be so pneumatic.
Besides, who are men to complain about size? Most of us are stuck in the 6 to 7 inches bracket. It would be a bit hypocritical of us to complain about the flat-chested of a girlfriend when it feels as if we're waving a stick in the Albert Hall when we have sex with them (as in dicks too small not vagina too big).
And how can anybody cite breast size as the most important factor in woman's appearence? For me, it's everything in proportion. It's no good having slinky hips and big tits or a flat chest and big hips. Although big hips are 'a good thing'.
And will people stop saying they're 5'9" or taller and say that means they're small.
cheers
anyway i enjoy a woman with brests in proportion to her body. really big boobs are ok but there not my prefrence. and brest implants make me absolutly gag. Whatever whould drive someone to do something so shallow, you'd have to be pretty fucking charming to convince me otherwise.
and how do you sleep with big ones
16 year old's minds work that way
Thanks!
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kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa
In case your wondering, no that dosen't affect me, I'm pretty pert for my size.
hmmm perhaps its time to start the shower/grower thread :O
regards, reman
as far as what affects me laying on my front, i don't like feeling like i have two grapefruits squashed under my ribcage when i lay down, so i just don't lay out flat on hard surfaces. perkiness is a direct contradiction of gravity, the bigger they get the less perky they are. thankfully there's victoria's secret.
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kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa
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Originally posted by kixzor2:
I dunno about you Kuru, but I'm a 16D,...
16D? You must be a pretty small girl to have a 16" ribcage.
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kuru
'if your children ever found out how lame you are, they'd kill you in your sleep.' -frank zappa
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assuming i care. which i don't. i'm just being honest.
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Originally posted by kuru:
girls who look like models and have brains are rare.
Why do you think "super model" women with brains are rare?
That hasn't been my experience at all.
Most of them are superficial, but I have not noticed a looks to IQ pattern in anyone.
And just out of curiosity, are most good looking men stupid in your opinion?
This is very interesting to me.
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jim
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quote:
Originally posted by jim:
Why do you think "super model" women with brains are rare?
People with real brains and with good personalities are rare. People who look like supermodels are also quite rare. Therefore people who fit both categories are exponentially harder to find. Better to decide which one means more to you and choose on that basis, rather than insisting on finding someone who is perfect in every way.
Like I said, most of the smart, funny, gorgeous chicks I know are very superficial.
But I do know lots of smart extremely attractive women. Just goes with my job, I guess. But I have the sense to know that none of them are going to go out with me. Life is a jip!
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jim
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being stuck up and shallow is really immature, it doesn't speak well for their appreciation of anyone's mind, and that's flat out unintelligent and dull, in both men and women.
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kuru
'sex is one of the most beautiful and natural things that money can buy' - steve martin
The other day me and my bro, LumpyDuck!, were talking and he pointed out that retards seem to usually be ugly. Kinda like it goes hand in hand. My thought was... well, mabey bad genes just come in pairs.
But the's strange, cause you don't see gorgeous geniouses, and the really attractive people never seem to be that smart. Could it be that attractive people are freaks of nature? Hmmm.. ok, mabey I'm reading too much into this, but wadda ya think?
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so i guess you could say in some ways, it does correlate.. but then again remember that down's itself is a genetic condition.
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kuru
'sex is one of the most beautiful and natural things that money can buy' - steve martin
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Originally posted by kuru:
if they're that superficial, then i'd say they aren't really very smart.
Ok then... On your right you have smart, funny, fun, nice, BUTT ASS UGLY POOR BOY... And on your left you have Smart, Funny, Fun, Nice, GORGEOUS RICH MAN.
Which do you choose?
Being superficial doesn't make you stupid. If anything it makes you smart. I have to admit, I want the absolute best, and rarely settle for less. I want the total package. I want a gorgeous, smart, woman, with a great job, great body, great mind, and gives great head.
There is nothing wrong with that.
I think that's what everyone wants. You just have to look at yourself in the mirror, examine who you are, and match up with someone similar to you. Just so happens that the super-model type women will always get the super-model type rich guys (who treat them like shit)...
Such as life.
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jim
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Right on Jim! And, kuru, you still haven't answered my question in the "hot bowl" thread... Then again, mabey that IS the answer to my question.
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Everyone knows that looks are just based on personal opinion; what could be attractive to one person could be not-so-attractive to another. Anyhow, the most beautiful girl I've seen outside of TV and Victoria's Secret is also in my 2nd period Sculpture class. The only problem is, jeezus christ her boyfriend is a fucking DICK! I'm not exactly saying that because he's got the most gorgeous girl I've ever seen, but because I actually know him from last year. And he's a dick.
It's a shame, because when you live where I do, there's a significant portion of the population (at least here in High School) that are ignorant, racist, alcohol saturated, bigot hicks. Unfortunatley, he's one of the aforementioned, and I'd bet money that he treats her 100 times worse than I'd ever think to do. I'd treat this woman like a goddess. Okay, fine, I'll stop ranting.
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Originally posted by Greasemonk:
Its amazing what people will put up with just to keep dragging a collapsing relationship that much longer.
That was frighteningly insightful.
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but if that's all you want in someone? that's superficial... and not very smart.
i'll be the first to admit that i want an intelligent, fun loving, geek who looks good and is pleasant to be around. money however, is irrelevant. unless he expects me to support him out of pocket, pay his rent, etc. that's a no-no. other than that, i don't care.
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kuru
'sex is one of the most beautiful and natural things that money can buy' - steve martin
fuck NO. what, you think i wanna be one of those idiots judge judy makes fun of cause they took in some guy (or girl) after knowing them a week, spent half their life savings and then the dude (or chick) split and never paid it back?
money doesn't matter. as in, it doesn't matter if the never spends any on me. but i'm picky enough to say he better damn well be able to take care of himself. once we're married though, different story. the rules change a bit.
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kuru
'sex is one of the most beautiful and natural things that money can buy' - steve martin
The main assumption that we're all making is that if the person is leeching off of you, then they don't really care about you... which probably is right in most cases. This doesn't matter in cases where the guy doesn't mind, like the 95 year old guy that married Anna Nichole Smith. He was willing to trade fortune and humility for a playmate.
So, any relationship is based off of both party's fullfilling some sort of need, whether for affection, money, attention, sex, painful childhood memories, or whatever, as long as both sides don't mind the reasons, it's a legitimate relationship.
My case? Glad you asked. I'm looking for someone for affection, attention, sex, trust, enjoyment (and a few others I don't remember). If I felt that someone was genuinely returning these to me, then I may decide what I'm willing to give up, though it probably wouldn't be my humility (ie, spending every last dime or not caring about her other boyfriends).
In which case, I'd diffinetly not date her. Just 'cause she's probibly got more self-esteem issues then I want to deal with. Anyone know what I mean? Or should I be sober when I write these?
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Personally, if I felt the person 'needed' me for reasons other than enjoying being with me, I'd be a little put off. I mean, are they with me because of their need for a boyfriend/money/attention/etc., or are they with me because they merely want to be with me. Personally I prefer the latter but I don't seem to be able to find them anywhere.
Guess I'll just have to blame it on global warming or something.
... Stupid El Nino...might be Y2K, too... They're all set back to 1900 or something
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not like anything wouldn't involve discussion, but as long as the whole relationship is a two way street, it's all good.
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kuru
'sex is one of the most beautiful and natural things that money can buy' - steve martin
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dex-man: The clarify your statements... it's harder than most WOMEN can imagine! Guys HAVE to start imagining it at age 13!
kuru: Either, you're full of BS, or we need to get married RIGHT NOW! Cause if you're being honest with your statement, then you're to the ONLY woman on earth who'll support me like that. SURE! I'd cook, clean, buy the nessesities, take care of bills. Who knows... my creative aspirations might pay off, and we'll be on easy street. Best of all, you'd be at work most of the time, and when you come home I'd be ready for bed. That way I wouldn't have to deal with our missmatched views on life.
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Regardless, I don't know if this is my ego talking or just my sense of chivalry that seems to plague my kind ass; but, I would be really uncomfortable with having my girlfriend support me. Wife is another thing, but if and only if I was fired from my job at that time. Otherwise, I'd feel like less of a man almost. Now, this is only because I think that a guy should be able to provide for himself and other loved ones. WHAT I AM NOT SAYING, is that a woman can't do the same, or that a womans place is at home, or only the guy should provide everything. WHAT I AM SAYING, is that though it would be a struggle, I would feel comfortable supporting someone else; although, I would rather not be supported myself. Is this the case for most of you other guys? What about the women (besides kuru)?
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Originally posted by FlexDexter:
I would feel comfortable supporting someone else; although, I would rather not be supported myself. Is this the case for most of you other guys?
It's always a lot easier to support someone else than to be supported. I would rather help someone else than ask for help; I would rather loan money to someone else than have them loan money to me. Why? Because it's not very pleasant to be in debt to someone else.
In a married couple, hopefully you're close enough that no one is keeping track of who owes what to whom. When you get married to someone, you aren't saying "My money is your money, my house is your house, my life is your life." What you are saying is, "My money is our money, my house is our house, my life is our life." That is, it isn't about "you" and "me" anymore, it's about "us."
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Originally posted by Michael:
That is, it isn't about "you" and "me" anymore, it's about "us."
exactly... *clap clap clap*
But, I guess... that would also void the previous arguements. The decision of support would not be left to one person, it would be made by the couple. I guess, in a way... it could be seen that the couples are mutually supporting each other too. Though one monetarily, the other... well... some other way. Regardless, they act together, and love one another... if that were the case; then, what greater show of love could any couple show.
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a little, then it's ok. One thing that I'm attracted to is ambition. I love the idea of a 'geek chic' not in terms of a computer geek necessarily, but someone who can become totally immersed in their interests. I respect that and I admire it. If my girl wants to pursue that, then I'm fine with it as long as we can both live with the sacrifices.
As for leeching off of someone, I can't do it. I have been down to my last Ũ.41 before, and have avoiding asking for gas and food money. However, I love giving. Just this weekend, I had a 5 hour conversation long distance with one of my friends on the phone, and I don't mind because the phone bill is a small sacrifice for being able to have a wonderful conversation. I only hope that she doesn't feel the same way I would have in that situation. I hope she knows that it wasn't a charity or anything, and that it was totally worth it to me.
Off-Topic: I think it's funny that there is an Ask Jeeves ad at the top while I'm posting. Must stop drinking...
DAMN YOU BIOLOGY! That's why I WILL most likely end up getting married and liking it...
Anyway, I mean it, kuru!! You say, "Yes," call the court house, send me your address, and I'll be there on a plane TOMORROW with computer in hand. You provide the housing, and I'll keep up the housing. And I'll persue my music career with my bits of free time between house chores. Waddayasay?
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oh... okay it's j0eSmith, sorry... I apologize...
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Originally posted by PersonGuy:
...but you have to remember that marriage is a female designed consept to keep men trapped. I mean, what other salesperson could sell a few decent BJs and monthy moodswings for โK!?!?
Somehow I think there are a few more benefits than that...
And as for marriage being a way to trap men, historically the opposite has been true.
Also remember that a "trap" is only a trap if you want it to be; if you are happy with a relationship, whether or not you can easily get out of it, you are not "trapped."
But, you're right Mikey-man... there is more too it in that freakin biology!!
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oh yeah, and during the dating phase, you have to support yourself. good luck.
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kuru
'sex is one of the most beautiful and natural things that money can buy' - steve martin
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Well, I would but I'm living for free with my grandma. Jumping from supported to supported was the idea here. But heading into unexplored territory AND supporting myself would definately loose to spend all my time on my music in beautiful Seattle.
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