Forum: Sex
Topic: What the hell is wrong with the guys?
started by: LiNeY

Posted by LiNeY on Apr. 02 2001,18:57
Well, now it's been 3 years that people keep asking why I never have a b/f and the answer is a simple "I dunno, and it ain't my fault!" Now as in every country I've been to the guys seem to like me (Canada, Spain, ...), I wonder if maybe it is just really a problem of the guys around here (Germany), or if I am doing something wrong.
Now, this is the girl in question: blonde, grey eyes, rather pretty, communicative, and interested in almost everything on this planet.
Should I change myself or simply move to some other place?

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Posted by CatKnight on Apr. 02 2001,18:59
ya move down here with me

you are special in the sense that you aren't attracted to the normal asshole guys. I guess you just havn't met any nice mature guys yet.

so seriously...move down here with me


Posted by LiNeY on Apr. 02 2001,19:02
no problem...
what's the next airport?
Posted by Spydir Web on Apr. 02 2001,21:25
RDU International... Common... ya know ya wanna... it's not peer pressure... do it...

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Posted by kai on Apr. 02 2001,23:33
well in germany they uh like do it at 16. so your like broken.

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Posted by Xenoflargactian on Apr. 03 2001,00:35
my bro says that most girls dont think they're pretty, and the ones that do are sluts.

No offense or anything, but by my brother's definition, you're a slut. hehe

p.s. i like ur location (douglas adams)


Posted by Rhydant on Apr. 03 2001,03:19
and thats your BROTHERS opinion. maybe he's gay or something?
girls that say they are pretty are just obssesed with themselfs. not neccecarily slutty, but just vain. you know...

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Posted by fatbitch on Apr. 03 2001,10:15
fuck man i'd be happy with a chick that was content with how she looked. every single little bitch i know thinks she is the worlds ugliest fucking dog and gets pissed when i dont dissagree with them, just cause i cbf sucking up "oh AS IF you are ugly! you are SO good looking!! *suck* *suck*"

fuck that, be happy with how you look, it'd be a good change from the females around here


Posted by LiNeY on Apr. 03 2001,14:22
To all the dear guys who know so much about women's looks and reputation and nothing about their psychological features:
1. a woman who thinks she is pretty is one thing - a woman who KNOWS she is pretty is something totally different. Thinking that she's pretty often leads to vanity and obsession with herself. Knowing that she's pretty makes her feel a lot more secure and she's much nicer do be with - she won't be bitching about her good looks all the time as she knows securely that they're there.
2. women are the most insecure beings on earth. Of course, EVERY woman has got that complex about her looks. But you are what you are and instead of making your looks a problem it's a lot wiser to accept yourself. 3. Now here comes one of the biggest secrets: Every woman is beautiful, and not just on the inside! Just take a close look at it, and you'll see that simply every chick has got some thing or other in her looks that is really beautiful.
As to being a slut or not - well, that brother's theory is so absurd I am not even gonna respond to it. If anyone really wants to think I am a slut, then no words are gonna keep him from it - for stupidity there ain't no cure.
Something concerning being vain: mind ya, I wrote "rather pretty", not "pretty" or "totally pretty".

Any questions as to my looks should probably better be discussed only by people who have seen my pic. ))


Posted by PersonGuy on Apr. 03 2001,15:36
Gold diggers aren't that pretty inside... or psycho bitches from hell... or axe murdurer chicks...

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Posted by pengu1nn on Apr. 03 2001,18:09
quote:
Originally posted by Greasemonk:
You got that right!!! My supervisor is butt ugly but she has one hot body!!!!!!!

don't ya hate that, i know a coupla chicks like that


Posted by whiskey@throttle on Apr. 03 2001,18:22
quote:
Now, this is the girl in question: blonde, grey eyes, rather pretty, communicative, and interested in almost everything on this planet.

I think I speak for everyone here:

We're going to need a pic.


Posted by CatKnight on Apr. 03 2001,18:51
i've seen her. she's quite cute.

edit: she wants me to post her pic, so here it comes...

This message has been edited by CatKnight on April 04, 2001 at 01:52 PM


Posted by LiNeY on Apr. 03 2001,18:59
okay, here we go for all the detnet world to see...


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Posted by jim on Apr. 03 2001,19:03

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This message has been edited by jim on April 04, 2001 at 02:03 PM


Posted by CatKnight on Apr. 03 2001,19:08
praise from jim? thats gotta be a good sign
Posted by Greasemonk on Apr. 03 2001,19:24

Red for the red hair, nice eyes and lips

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This message has been edited by Greasemonk on April 04, 2001 at 02:24 PM


Posted by jim on Apr. 03 2001,19:47
quote:
Originally posted by CatKnight:
praise from jim? thats gotta be a good sign

I know... Fucking scary isn't it?

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Posted by Rhydant on Apr. 03 2001,20:45
quote:
Originally posted by LiNeY:
rather pretty

god damnit. you know what, im not gonna say it. im just not gonna say it.

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Posted by Observer on Apr. 03 2001,22:24
[Edit] fine, whatever. The last thing I need is people attacking me indirectly instead of to my face just because someone got fingered. I've made my info open in my profile and ICQ info. I thought the post below this one was meant as a joke.

What is it with people who can't complain to me directly but rather get pissed off at other people who feel compelled to tell me? Not just here, but in real life as well. What are they ashamed of?[/Edit]

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This message has been edited by Observer on April 05, 2001 at 11:01 PM


Posted by CatKnight on Apr. 04 2001,00:11

This message has been edited by CatKnight on April 04, 2001 at 07:40 PM


Posted by Greasemonk on Apr. 04 2001,05:26
quote:
Originally posted by LiNeY:
To all the dear guys who know so much about women's looks and reputation and nothing about their psychological features:
1. a woman who thinks she is pretty is one thing - a woman who KNOWS she is pretty is something totally different. Thinking that she's pretty often leads to vanity and obsession with herself. Knowing that she's pretty makes her feel a lot more secure and she's much nicer do be with - she won't be bitching about her good looks all the time as she knows securely that they're there.
2. women are the most insecure beings on earth. Of course, EVERY woman has got that complex about her looks. But you are what you are and instead of making your looks a problem it's a lot wiser to accept yourself. 3. Now here comes one of the biggest secrets: Every woman is beautiful, and not just on the inside! Just take a close look at it, and you'll see that simply every chick has got some thing or other in her looks that is really beautiful.
As to being a slut or not - well, that brother's theory is so absurd I am not even gonna respond to it. If anyone really wants to think I am a slut, then no words are gonna keep him from it - for stupidity there ain't no cure.
Something concerning being vain: mind ya, I wrote "rather pretty", not "pretty" or "totally pretty".

Any questions as to my looks should probably better be discussed only by people who have seen my pic. ))


You got that right!!! My supervisor is butt ugly but she has one hot body!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by jim on Apr. 04 2001,10:41
kuru don't start this shit again.

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Posted by masher on Apr. 04 2001,11:10
what about this...

according to the maps from < Lycos >, theres a 'Curtin rd' that goes past PSU.

How ironic is that?

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This message has been edited by masher on April 05, 2001 at 06:13 AM


Posted by kuru on Apr. 04 2001,17:22
liney left out one thing that *most* girls will do (because of their insecurity):

FISH FOR COMPLIMENTS.

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'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
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Posted by Vigilante on Apr. 04 2001,17:34
Mmmm...

Yes yes, move down to CatKn... Wait wait wait, I mean move down here with me. Yes, with me, that's what I meant.

*taps fingers*


Posted by CatKnight on Apr. 04 2001,17:40
/me tugs on his fishing line and reels in a LiNeY

edit: this is post 666 for me...that can't be good

This message has been edited by CatKnight on April 05, 2001 at 12:41 AM


Posted by CatKnight on Apr. 04 2001,20:54
there are a lot of beaver references. beaver hall, beaver terrace, beaver ave, etc. shilly pennsylvanians.

edit: i don't get the curtin road reference.

This message has been edited by CatKnight on April 05, 2001 at 03:58 PM


Posted by Observer on Apr. 04 2001,21:15
Curtin rd ==> Curtain Rod

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Posted by CatKnight on Apr. 04 2001,21:23
cheese

This message has been edited by CatKnight on April 06, 2001 at 02:14 PM


Posted by kuru on Apr. 05 2001,01:06
that someone's address and phone number are in a phone book is not their request to have someone put that information on a highway billboard.

and because someone posts something here from a university account, you can't also assume that they want their full name, e-mail address, residence and phone number posted here.

it was cute when it was done to people who gave their permission to 'try and find them', but it's not cute now.

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'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
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Posted by CatKnight on Apr. 05 2001,03:11
thank you kuru
Posted by LiNeY on Apr. 05 2001,13:57
quote:
Originally posted by CatKnight:
/me tugs on his fishing line and reels in a LiNeY


so, here we don't have a girl fishin' for compliments but a guy fishin' for a girl!

hint to CatKnight: for LineYs, the best bait is chocolate... good luck!

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Happiness is not a Fish that You can Catch - Our Lady Peace


Posted by jim on Apr. 05 2001,14:03
And a girl fishing for attension...

hint: It's not LiNeY.

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Posted by kuru on Apr. 05 2001,16:44
it's spelled attention.

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'dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal desire.'
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Posted by jim on Apr. 05 2001,16:54
I don't give a rats ass.

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Posted by CatKnight on Apr. 05 2001,19:15
apology accepted. no harm done.
Posted by Observer on Apr. 05 2001,19:44
Thanks.

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Posted by DeadAnztac on Apr. 05 2001,21:35
quote:
Originally posted by LiNeY:
3. Now here comes one of the biggest secrets: Every woman is beautiful, and not just on the inside! Just take a close look at it, and you'll see that simply every chick has got some thing or other in her looks that is really beautiful.

Now this is DEFINITLY true, I know of no girl that is totaly unatractive, some are more atractive then others IMO, but none are really ugly. Of course I'm a desperate geek so maybe my opinion doesn't matter


Posted by solid on Apr. 05 2001,22:07
That's not true. I'm sorry, but a literal retard (physically and mentally) is not good in any way.. I'm sorry.

Also, how bout those really fat women doing some really stupid disgusting stuff on stileproject? The really vomit inducing ones?

Of course, on average- yes it is true.


Posted by ytsejammer on Apr. 05 2001,23:23
About the hot body, ugly face thing...
I feel your pain, whoever it was that mentioned it. When you're around those kind of women, you just gotta keep your eyes on a different(lower) level so that you catch what you wanna see. Just be careful. If you make this a habit, you might get slapped.

--= Devin

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Posted by Observer on Apr. 06 2001,05:15
And to keep this topic near the top.
CatKnight, I fucked up and I am sorry for posting your info (with or without details). Public wrongdoing, public apology. The info has been removed from my post, though it doesn't matter to me if you do the same.

ICQ#:16265411

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Posted by fatbitch on Apr. 06 2001,22:42
quote:
Originally posted by DeadAnztac:
Now this is DEFINITLY true, I know of no girl that is totaly unatractive, some are more atractive then others IMO, but none are really ugly.

i disagree. theres this girl at a skating rink i go to who is fat, ugly, annoying, loud, stupid and all-round painful to be near. she is always going on about her 'boyfriend' (don't know how she got someone to date her) as if he is a prize but noone has ever seen him. she is totally obsessed with my hair (or lack thereof - i shave it with a number 1 regularily) and always asks me if i have washed it. she is 100\% annoying

there is nothing 'beautiful' about this one


Posted by damien_s_lucifer on Apr. 07 2001,02:42
liney (I know I didn't capitalize right ) -
I agree with CatKnight when he says you're selective. German men are not known for being romantic or even interesting - that's why many German women marry American soldiers and move over here. (I know FOUR German women who did that.)

Not that Germany is a bad country, but in the words of my friend Jeus : "In Germany all the guys are busy trying to kiss their superior's ass and mark their place in SOCIETY that they forget how to have fun and the poor women end up really bored."


Posted by LiNeY on Apr. 07 2001,09:29
yeah damien, you're quite right unfortunately. The guys around here are REALLY not romantic (you know, in Germany there ain't even such a thing as dating... I mean, either you go steady or you don't go out at all), and all those who are not entirely stupid assholes are just interested in their career or studies or whatsoever, and just trying to flirt with them leaves them totally puzzled and/or scared. Looks like I'll have to marry to the US...

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Posted by CatKnight on Apr. 07 2001,18:12

Posted by LiNeY on Apr. 07 2001,19:31
Why can't I resist smiles? ... *sigh*

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Happiness is not a Fish that You can Catch - Our Lady Peace


Posted by CatKnight on Apr. 08 2001,05:32
yep. i guess you're gonna have to come over here
Posted by LiNeY on Apr. 08 2001,05:55
so you'd marry me?

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Happiness is not a Fish that You can Catch - Our Lady Peace


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