Forum: Sex
Topic: What gestures | actions do girls give out when they want sex?
started by: azzie

Posted by azzie on Mar. 06 2001,02:44
Us guys want to know! Some guys take it the wrong way, Some guys know exactly what to look for and some guys do nothing at all!

Give us some tips


Posted by CatKnight on Mar. 06 2001,07:58
bravo on a decent first post that actually makes sense. i think that might be a first.
Posted by Neophyre on Mar. 06 2001,08:46
well i'm not sure how sheep give out signals, i'm pretty sure most kiwi's dive in.

lol!


Posted by askheaves on Mar. 06 2001,14:23
Obligatory: < http://www.detonate.net/ubb/Forum1/HTML/000568.html >

However, good topic! Thanks for bringing life to the Sex thread.

One thing that I've noticed is that their face seems to change. It's like, there's probably a bunch of subtle things happening that contribute to them looking totally different. It's weird. For one, their mouth seems to part a bit, and they get a glassy look in their eyes. Their lips start to part, they stare a lot, their upper chest gets flush, their face gets flush. Sometimes they'll be unzipping your pants, but it's usually more subtle.

This is from my limited amount of experience.


Posted by DuSTman on Mar. 06 2001,14:37
I'm not sure if this is just a guy thing, but there's an effect called vasocongestion, which is where greater amounts of blood are in the ears when we're turned on... as a result the ears go a somewhat darker shade of orange and heat up a bit. I'm not sure if the same thing happens to women, but it's a possible cue..

Also, i should mention, the earlobes are eroginous..


Posted by jim on Mar. 06 2001,15:04
It's all in the eyes.

It can be in the speach and movement, such as "Fuck me now!" means just that, and if you find her mouth wrapped around your crank that's a pretty good sign as well. Unfortunately for us men, that is not usually the case.

But the eyes will always be there. Like askheeves said. Especially with the staring.

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Posted by Sithiee on Mar. 06 2001,18:43
quote:
Originally posted by jim:
if you find her mouth wrapped around your crank that's a pretty good sign as well.

isnt that one a bit obvious? or was that one of those things where "youd think that would be obvious, but this one guy i knew...."??


Posted by kixzor2 on Mar. 06 2001,18:52
I agree - I tend to stare more intently, but then I'm a visual person.
If she's got her arms around you or your holding her hands, watch out for the slightest nudge that she might be giving. Eg: If she pushes your hands more towards her chest/stomach/butt - then that's a sure signal. Its' usually Really subtle though, so double check before you get slapped
Posted by acidfire on Mar. 06 2001,21:39
After meeting my girl for bout 2-3 weeks we lay in her bed, dressed, above the cover holding our hands. Whe had never kissed eachother (guess i was to frighten to take first step). After some time (30 min or more...) she softly moved our hands forward and backwards, they didnt move for more than 5cm. And suddenly we were kissing...

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Posted by fire_502 on Mar. 06 2001,22:03
dustman - i think you might mean vasoconstriction, but i could be wrong.

anyway, all those physical indications are pretty good to follow, but you can pick up signals from her friends too. like if they walk by smiling and don't stop to talk with her, you're most likely gonna get laid. if her friend tells you to buy the girl a drink, you're definately gonna get some play. in any case, don't forget to call her the next day. it doesn't even matter if you were both just using eachother, still call her. or else you'll be branded an asshole and you can never date anyone who is even acquainted with her.


Posted by PersonGuy on Mar. 07 2001,01:40
quote:
Originally posted by jim:
if you find her mouth wrapped around your crank that's a pretty good sign as well

Not in today's society... they might go strait for THAT to avoid the "loss" of their "virginity". They might not want to have "sex" with you AT ALL!

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Posted by fire_502 on Mar. 07 2001,02:24
i think if that were the case, it would be because they felt pressured...not because it's what they wanted. i know there are differing opinions on it, but i know i sure as hell wouldn't come on to a guy with the intention of "going straight for THAT" and nothing else...hell i don't want THAT at all! basically if they don't want to lose their virginity, why would the send out signals that they want to? nevermind. i remember now.
Posted by azzie on Mar. 07 2001,03:18
Heh. Thanks Neophyre - Kiwis dive into anything there is, perhaps thats why aussies are so laid back drinking XXXX, Subsitute for XXX which they can't get

I think the main reason for us sensible guys (wether that be at the club-scene, bedroom, kitchen, bathroom, whereever) is not the fact that we instantly recognise these signals (there are so many of them). The point is - the guy is thinking, OKAY But I don't want to screw up. Thats why guys hang around for more signals, or stronger signals - to make sure so they don't get slapped.

On the other hand, there's also the guy who doesn't want to give his girlfriend (esp if she is a particularly new girlfriend) the impression that SEX is all he's after in a relationship. A Fair majority of females think men think with their dicks 100\% of the time - Doesn't surprise me. It's hard being the guy trying to be different.


Posted by DuSTman on Mar. 07 2001,03:23
quote:
Originally posted by fire_502:
dustman - i think you might mean vasoconstriction, but i could be wrong.

Probably.. It was quite a while ago I read about that..


Posted by fatbitch on Mar. 07 2001,09:12
one thing is in voices - one of the positive signals chicks give off is the pitch of their voice - if its significantly higher than normal (i.e high pitch schoolgirl type) then she is interested, so she is subconciously trying to be more feminime.

same goes for guys, if youre trying to chat someone up, you may notice yourself talking deeper than normal, of if one of your friends is talking to a chick deeper/lower than normal you know what he is trying to do


Posted by Chrissy on Mar. 07 2001,15:32
um I would say usually if a girl is really interested in having sex and the two of you have been together for a while then she will just tell you flat out. However if its just a hook up in the bar and shes looking for sex (and you dont know) then she may be more teasing- tossing her hair, flirting, touching you- a lot in many different places. I would also tend to think that once you brought it up to her (that is if you didnt get slapped before doing so) then she would tell you - yes or no. I tend to show my boyfriend more attention when I want some but then I dont have sex for sex sake. If wanted to get off I would take matters into my own hands and I think he would too.

Wow Im rambling- ignore me

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Posted by ytsejammer on Mar. 08 2001,16:16
In my experience, if a girl wants to get closer, she'll usually get quiet all of a sudden and you can almost hear her thinking out loud, saying "I wish he would just touch my hand", or "why won't he look me in the eyes and smile?"
I recommend looking her in the eyes, and if you know what I'm talking about here, it will all come together. This all happens when you first start dating or very very early in the relationship. Then once you're used to each other, all that means nothing, and you just have to wait till she grabs your genitals.

--= ytsejammer


Posted by demonk on Mar. 08 2001,17:35
Chrissy, your ramblings are more intelligent than some of detonaters' attemps at deep intellectuall thought, so you can ramble all you like.
Posted by Vigilante on Mar. 08 2001,23:12
Dream Theater! woohoo!


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Posted by ytsejammer on Mar. 09 2001,00:48
Right on bro
Posted by kuru on Mar. 11 2001,11:08
i try to be obvious.

if the guy's not touchin me in the hot spots, i touch his.

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Posted by SaxMaster on Apr. 22 2001,04:02
I thought it was a good sign last night that this really hot girl i know who never gives me the time of day practically jumped me in our dorm dance club however she left after an almost 45 minute make-out sessionn Clothes on, unfortunately. We were both quite drunk but we had our fun. She smiled at me today, so I guess neither of us had regrets. The point of me saying this is that I'm almost CERTAIN i could've gotten her in bed. But then that would be taking real advantage, and I would never do that. Makin out is one thing, but sex when it's not completely (sober) consentual is just WRONG (unless the girl practically just forces herself on me, and then of course i NEVER mind that unless it's a sea hag or something)

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Posted by BigKahuna on Apr. 22 2001,04:43
quote:
Originally posted by azzie:
Heh. Thanks Neophyre - Kiwis dive into anything there is, perhaps thats why aussies are so laid back drinking XXXX, Subsitute for XXX which they can't get


hahaha nice one


damn i just don't understand chicks. ok heres the story - me and my gf were at her mates house for drinks, we went into her friends bedroom and started making out. her friend whos room it was walked in on us, then led us up to her parents bedroom, as they were away. she shut the door on us and we were in the dark standing there, but nothing happened! i didn't really want to try any of the 'moves' on her as we have only been going out just over a month, i wasn't really sure how she felt. i don't know whether she wanted to, maybe she could have thought the same thing i was thinking. what do you all think? should i have done something or not?

This message has been edited by BigKahuna on April 22, 2001 at 11:56 PM


Posted by Greasemonk on Apr. 22 2001,09:10
quote:
Originally posted by BigKahuna:
hahaha nice one


damn i just don't understand chicks. ok heres the story - me and my gf were at her mates house for drinks, we went into her friends bedroom and started making out. her friend whos room it was walked in on us, then led us up to her parents bedroom, as they were away. she shut the door on us and we were in the dark standing there, but nothing happened! i didn't really want to try any of the 'moves' on her as we have only been going out just over a month, i wasn't really sure how she felt. i don't know whether she wanted to, maybe she could have thought the same thing i was thinking. what do you all think? should i have done something or not?



Just over a month?? Is she a virgin? Sounds like its time to start massaging the tits and checking the oil if you ask me. Or you could take other approaches like having her do stuff to you instead of you doing stuff to her.

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Posted by PersonGuy on Apr. 22 2001,13:14
Yup... defy all reasoning and just make a move. You'll feel better once it's over... first steps are always the most aquard.

CHEERS!

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Posted by askheaves on Apr. 22 2001,13:57
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