Forum: Sex Topic: What do girls get out of a blowjob started by: whtdrgn_2 Posted by whtdrgn_2 on Feb. 15 2001,12:20
The topic says it all. I just wondered why women do it. I can't see it being to fun, but perhaps it is just the end I am thinking about :-) ------------------ Posted by Wolfguard on Feb. 15 2001,12:40
what do they get?complete control ------------------ Posted by WillyPete on Feb. 15 2001,13:54
Same thing you get out of giving a muff dive. (Aside from the obvious sore jaw and slaty aftertaste.)
Posted by PersonGuy on Feb. 15 2001,14:55
Medical:
quote: Mabey the mouth counts as penetration... Leykis:
quote: Me:
quote: Crissy? kuru? ch1ckie? kixzor2? ------------------ Posted by Chrissy on Feb. 15 2001,15:53
honestly- I like to see my guy happy...I know he likes it thats why i do it.And it is a control thing- it makes you feel some what powerful I suppose. that may just be me thou ------------------ Posted by kuru on Feb. 16 2001,02:37
um, well what i get out of them is the knowledge that i'm giving my partner something that he really likes. and the thing i focus on most in sex is pleasing my partner.it's a turn on for me, because i'm giving him pleasure, hearing and feeling him react, and knowing that i'm responsible for all those noises and movements and shivers. so by the time he's blown his load, i'm really turned on, and then generally it's my turn to be on the receiving end of some really intense pleasure. ------------------ Posted by kixzor2 on Feb. 16 2001,23:19
Tell ya the truth - I'm a b/j virgin. Handjobs yes, kissing and such down there yes, but never completely.To answer the question; I get way turned on that he's getting turned on by my actions. Nuff said. Posted by Chrissy on Feb. 19 2001,11:47
Blow jobs can be lots of fun in the shower- just gotta watch not to get too much water in your ears though.Ok- if you like to shower with your guy he's what I would do. That is of course if you no longer want to be a bf virgin (which is fine if you do) but here are some tips if you are unsure. Not saying that you are- you just may not want to I dont know. :O First put the water on so its nice and warm, not too hot or else you'll burn your guy (not to mention yourself). Get undressed, let him get undressed also. You step in first then let him follow you. Wet your hair and let him wash it, then take a bar of soap or a mesh sponge and lather up really well, let him clean you really well with it, let him get to all your sensitive areas(breast, between your legs, butt etc) (if hes not already hard then he will be now If you arent a fan of the shower this can easily be perform without the soap etc but cleaning him up makes it a little more fun, plus it gets him a little more exicited if he has to wait for it. Thats the way I would do it. I havent had many complaints about my "style" but there are tons of techniques that you can use- you gotta find the ones that work for you. Why do I have a feeling she wasnt asking for blow job technique advice. *shrug* Hey Im always looking for ways to improve- guys let me know what you think of it- this way I dont feel like I wasted my time ------------------ Posted by whtdrgn_2 on Feb. 19 2001,12:28
I wouldn't complain....
Posted by CatKnight on Feb. 19 2001,12:30
*FAP FAP FAP FAP*man i gotta get a girlfriend and get her to try that. *sigh* well you made my day a whole lot brighter (and harder) chrissy Posted by kuru on Feb. 19 2001,12:51
ummmmmmmm yeah... so, now that we've covered what a GUY gets out of a blowjob, back to the topic at hand... ------------------ Posted by Chrissy on Feb. 19 2001,13:02
kuru,I was just providing some friendly advice. Lighten up ![]() ------------------ Posted by whtdrgn_2 on Feb. 19 2001,13:13
So what do you get out of it Chrissy------------------ Posted by CatKnight on Feb. 19 2001,18:11
jim, you're an idiot.
Posted by jim on Feb. 19 2001,18:12
Fuck off dipshit.------------------ Posted by solid on Feb. 20 2001,02:13
What's in who's hand?
Posted by Neophyre on Feb. 20 2001,02:57
question: why did chrissy have to describe how she gives a guy a bj when kuru & ch1ckie is the only other chick in the forums?------------------ This message has been edited by Neophyre on February 20, 2001 at 09:59 PM Posted by kuru on Feb. 20 2001,03:44
kixzor2 is a chick too, but she'd also already weighed in with her input.it just seemed like an odd time for a description of how to. ------------------ Posted by solid on Feb. 20 2001,03:55
quote: For attn/teasing. Even though you knew. Aside from that let's not forget some chicks get attn from bj's aside from control. And if their guy loves it why not do it. OHH YA... i almost forgot- its like how kuru said at the beginning- it is a turn on sometimes... most of the .. all.. well individual results may vary. Posted by jim on Feb. 20 2001,05:03
quote: Cause kuru ALWAYS stays on topic, you know. ------------------ Posted by kuru on Feb. 20 2001,05:05
yeah, ok. friendly advice is just best given when asked for.------------------ Posted by Chrissy on Feb. 20 2001,11:44
blahsorry if I caused a problem...didnt realise that you would be so sensitive about it kuru- Posted by jim on Feb. 20 2001,14:38
It detracts from her ultimate goal of owning all male detnetters.:P ------------------ Posted by whtdrgn_2 on Feb. 20 2001,14:57
Kuru doesn't own me... I am not temped by her ways... ![]() ------------------ Posted by nInabLaDe on Feb. 20 2001,18:22
for the actual question. (been watching for a while but didn't say anything before) A guy's movement and the noises he makes demonstrate the fun he's having. When you're not having quite as much fun you are more attune to what he's feeling and that can be a tremendous turn-on. Swallowing can reek, but if you concentrate really hard on him, usually you really even want him to come by that point. Best pointers letting a girl "get something" out of it... 1. don't smoke (but that one's doable) 2. BE CLEAN, the smell, oh the smell. 3. don't push her head down. 4. if you're laying down, let her rub against something hand/leg, whatever. I don't even like getting oral sex, but i love giving it..but oral sex should come after the real thing, not before. ------------------ Posted by CatKnight on Feb. 20 2001,19:17
yay we got another ch1cka in the detnet forums.welcome! ------------------ Posted by solid on Feb. 21 2001,03:22
quote: there is a path taken quicker to achieve that goal. ah fuck. Posted by kuru on Feb. 21 2001,05:33
it takes being 'so sensitive' to notice odd timing?------------------ Posted by kuru on Feb. 21 2001,06:01
oral is like the appetizer. both getting, and giving. then there's 69, which is another type of appetizer. enjoyable, fun, and exciting, yes, but all in all, they're really there to get ready for the entree. ------------------ Posted by incubus on Feb. 21 2001,06:31
Well, despite what everyone else says ... I fink Chrissy's post was pretty much o/t. 'cos the post a couple before was something like "I havent given a BJ before" and Chrissy's reply was "ok here's how you do it". Seemed fine to me - I think I may have to go out and get one now hehehLighten up! These days no-one can post any kinda sexual comment without starting to bitch at each other. *** [incubus] throws a rock ------------------ Posted by incubus on Feb. 21 2001,06:36
Anyway, my post on topic, it's a power thing in part, but in partial agreement with Kuru it's also part of the whole shabang. Sex for me is pleasuring your partner to show your feelings for them, and that's basically the other way round with the women I sleep with. They know that I like it, and I show them my 0ral sk1LLz to show them the kind of pleasure they're showing me.<personguy> ------------------ Posted by PersonGuy on Mar. 02 2001,23:45
quote: Hehe... I saw how your comment fit fine Chrissy. Strangely enough I got no *FAP*s... For some reason I only get that from descriptions of oral on chicks. ------------------ |