Forum: The Classroom
Topic: THE RETURN OF..... 'lets see what you can do......'
started by: SLATE

Posted by SLATE on Jul. 14 2000,04:55
hey everyone! remember me!? summer vaca is time to go out! get away from this machine... which i love so much.. hehe anywho

I went out with this girl on wednesday, and shit seems good.... im gunna take her to dinner tomorrow night... we aren't officially goin out yet, but we pretty much can... or would be if i asked..
whats the best way to go about asking her to 'go steady' or be my girlfriend or whatever.... the cool part is shes hot and outta my league but somehow she likes me :P

never thought a dood like me could get a hot girl like her.. seriously!
and shes not playin me.. i know this for a fact. she honestly likes me (w00000t!)

let me know guys..
once again, its great to be back (kinda)

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Your vision will become clear only when you
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dreams; who looks inside, awakes.
-- Carl Jung


Posted by Willy Pete on Jul. 14 2000,06:11
First Post. (Ack! bleargh. Why did I have to do that? Peer pressure I guess. NO I'm not a loser, I live in the UK, I don't wait up for this.)

Seriously, don't fuck with it. It ain't broke. If she likes you she likes you, no questions asked. When it's ready to move on SHE'LL be the one to better prompt it, just be ready to back it up with something enthusiastic/romantic.

Mostly it's girls that are ready to take that step first. Maybe she's waiting for you to propose it. Just keep on doing what you're doing, it got you this far. And DON'T wax on about why you don't deserve her. If she wants you she wants you, period.
Nothing you can do can change that. You can only Reinforce the correctness of her choice by being reliable, trustworthy and considerate. You might say she's out of your league, but just treat her as an equal. (Which she is.)

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Posted by Kolben on Jul. 14 2000,08:14
How could you possibly know how their relationship is? She could be one of those girls in latex with whips, and actually wants him to be less equal And perhaps he likes it? hehe
Posted by Willy Pete on Jul. 14 2000,11:48
Like I said: DON'T CHANGE A THING!
The bruises won't last.

nyarf nyarf!

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Posted by SLATE on Jul. 14 2000,15:43
update: we are going to fridays tonight!
damn man, i seem all set

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modellers needed!!!
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Your vision will become clear only when you
can look into your own heart. Who looks outside,
dreams; who looks inside, awakes.
-- Carl Jung


Posted by SLATE on Jul. 15 2000,04:22
Almost forgot... I got a little journal thing up on the web, if you wanna check it out.. I'll update it as much as possible with whatever crap happens to me.
< http://slate.dynip.com/journal/ >

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SLATE
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http://slate.dynip.com/thestreets/
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modellers needed!!!
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Your vision will become clear only when you
can look into your own heart. Who looks outside,
dreams; who looks inside, awakes.
-- Carl Jung


Posted by Nene on Jul. 15 2000,16:17
quote:
Originally posted by Willy Pete:

Seriously, don't fuck with it. It ain't broke. If she likes you she likes you, no questions asked.


Good advice.

Coming from a female, the most I would do at this point is drop hints about how much you like spending time with her and that you don't want to see anyone else.

Some girls (not many I know) tend to get a bit claustrophobic with an excessively needy guy, so don't overdo it.

xoxoxo

Nene


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Posted by Rhydant on Jul. 16 2000,06:12
slate, buddy, pal.... does she have any friends, and can i get there numbers?

heh. hell, maybe she likes computer as much as you do. but dont starttalking l33t speak, it might freak 'er out

*reads journal*
hot damn! i never thought id see the day that i meet someone who plays hockey at UT (well, any game) all in one. but youre only 5'7? shit boy, i tower 3 inches over j00!

heh heh, good luck man. and remember; condoms.

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UT 0wnz j00 all!

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Posted by SLATE on Jul. 17 2000,04:32
I've created my own message board for my online journal.. Feel free to visit them both at < http://slate.dynip.com/journal >

The entire messageboard was written in ASP by me.

Thanks,
SLATE

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modellers needed!!!
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Your vision will become clear only when you
can look into your own heart. Who looks outside,
dreams; who looks inside, awakes.
-- Carl Jung


Posted by Octavian on Jul. 17 2000,15:42
i'm with nene. just drop those hints about how much you like hanging around with her and all that crap.

oh, and rhydant, i tower 2 inches over j00!


Posted by nautilus on Jul. 20 2000,13:07
Here's some more female input:

Dropping hints is a good thing. You don't necessarily have to ask her "Do you want to go steady/be my girlfriend?" My boyfriend and I have been together 10 months now, and we just sort of evolved into it. We don't have an exact anniversary date to count from, but letting things just happen naturally took away some of the pressure in the beginning.

Also, be careful not to become to overbearing, esp. early on. Yeah, you like her and want to see her, but make sure you keep it low-key in the beginning, so you don't scare her off.

[This message has been edited by nautilus (edited July 20, 2000).]


Posted by Willy Pete on Jul. 20 2000,14:13
Been visiting your diary....
One thing that hasn't been mentioned but for Brooke. (you said she was telling you this girl likes you.)

She mentioned she doesn't want committment. What exactly would YOU describe as committment and then, do you really expect that. Remember, as highlighted by the nema of your page, you are still a teenager. Life doesn't stop at 20. When you both go to Uni/college you both might expand enough there to decide you need more.
Just Enjoy. Yeah I know I sound like a corporate logo, but that's all there is to it. Screw committment. If she holds your hand, then that's cool even if it is for 5 minutes. Enjoy the 5 minutes, don't dwell on the day inbetween when you don't see her. If you kiss just once, then it's one more than nothing, enjoy it. Don't try to be a superstud-I'myourman-dirkdiggler on a first date. You know what I mean. Just enjoy the moment, let tomorrow take care of itself.

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"Why do movie villains always have to explain their evil plot to the hero in movies? 'Cause good guys are dumb." Moi


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