Topic: Does Size Matter?
started by: RadioActive
Posted by RadioActive on Apr. 27 2002,03:11
so? it's one question i was wondering about for a while. does size really matter from a girl's perspective of view? this is directed for those with actual knowledge. that implies girls or people who actually know if it does. i have no idea, but personally think that it does.and also it does raise the owner's selfesteem, especially when the topic comes up in the discussion.
Posted by Rshias on Apr. 27 2002,05:21
Women I've spoken with are all of a like mind, so I'll sum it up. Size plays a part, but if you're somewhere around average then there isn't much need to be concerned. The most important thing is girth.
Posted by blanalex on Apr. 27 2002,07:33
IIRC one post in Ye Olde Forums, kuru (i think...) said somethings along those lines:| Quote |
| It's neither the length of the rope, nor the depth of the well (sp?), it's how you move the bucket. |
Also, the general conclusion from the females on that topic, was that girth is more important then length, and anything between 5in and 8in (at least, according to kuru IIRC) is just ok.
Posted by BlackFlag on Apr. 27 2002,12:40
i've seen dicks that were just too damn big. (one of the few things about bootcamp that actually lowered by self esteem.....) I felt sorry for the owners; no one short of a hooker or porn star would be able to handle some of the pieces i've seen.
Posted by kuru on Apr. 27 2002,14:16
Now checking in, we have kuru the penis size expert!I did in fact say that anything between about 5 and 8 inches long is within the normal length rage and neither too small to feel or so big that it hurts.
Girth is very important to the chick's pleasure, and I think that anything between 1.5" and 2.25" in diameter is good. It'll feel more substantial than a pencil, but not hurt like a hockey puck.
There you have it, from a chick's perspective.
Posted by Non on Apr. 27 2002,19:34
/me goes to find a ruler.If you messure in centimeters it makes you sounds huge.
| Quote |
| but not hurt like a hockey puck. |
Is there a story behind this Kuru?
Posted by BlackFlag on Apr. 27 2002,21:49
im a Flyers fan, and hockey pucks aren't something i'd normaly associate with sex.............
Posted by kuru on Apr. 28 2002,00:13
A regulation sized hockey puck is 3 inches in diameter. Unless the chick is a porn star, it's probably NOT going to feel all that damned great going in.
Posted by Rhydant on Apr. 28 2002,03:34
a hockey puck hit me in the ass yesterday at practice. i didnt enjoy it.yeah, theres no point to that, but id thought id share it with you all.
Posted by veistran on Apr. 28 2002,07:41
| Quote (kuru @ 27 April 2002,18:13) |
| A regulation sized hockey puck is 3 inches in diameter. Unless the chick is a porn star, it's probably NOT going to feel all that damned great going in. |
or they're into fisting.
Posted by Beldurin on Apr. 28 2002,07:47
| Quote (veistran @ 28 April 2002,01:41) | ||
or they're into fisting. |
ack
Posted by damien_s_lucifer on May 01 2002,09:54
Locker room comparisons suffer from one fault : they don't provide any numbers. For years, men have enjoyed the quick summaries provided by a woman's bust, waist, and hip sizes. Women, however, have had to judge based upon the single and usually inflated measurement of length - an inaccurate technique that often results in disappointment.No more. Using modern mathematical techniques, I have devised a system to provide women with a wealth of information about a man's prowess. It is with great pleasure that I bring you
DSL's Vital Statistics
length : 7.25"
diameter : 1.8"
L/G ratio : ~4:1
weight (assuming density = ~1.0) : 10.6 oz
displacement : 18.4 cubic inches
Posted by WrineX on May 01 2002,11:24
| Quote (damien_s_lucifer @ 01 May 2002,01:54) |
| DSL's Vital Statistics length : 7.25" diameter : 1.8" L/G ratio : ~4:1 weight (assuming density = ~1.0) : 10.6 oz displacement : 18.4 cubic inches |
in your dreams, pal! 
Posted by damien_s_lucifer on May 01 2002,11:33
can anyone guess what WrineX's post says about him?
Posted by kuru on May 01 2002,11:54
Penis envy?Either that or he dreams about cock a lot.
Posted by damien_s_lucifer on May 01 2002,13:05
i'm guessing the former.
Posted by Wiley on May 01 2002,17:29
I don't really see how we can have a female point of view poll here ...seeing how we lack enough females to fairly represent the population. Personaly I think that men are far more critical about breast size then women are about penis size. I don't know of many cases where a man's penis size was what first attracted a woman to him. I know it is important to a girl and it can make a nice thing better or a bad thing worse. But I don't see the female population as a whole going after men with bigger cocks. If that were the case we would have the WonderJock in every department store by now.
Posted by kuru on May 01 2002,17:49
Men seem to prefer that women have breasts, much the same as women seem to prefer that men have penises.Other than that I don't think it matters much, unless of course you are hung like my lying, cheating, good for nothing scumbag son of a bitch ex-boyfriend Nick who had a pecker the size of a midget's thumb.
That thing wasn't even 3" long when it was standin on end. For cryin out loud, squirrels are better hung than he was. He could've modled for the anatomically incorrect Ken doll without much effort. Damn I'm glad I found out what a shit he was and ditched his sorry ass.
Posted by jim on May 01 2002,18:05
From everyone I've ever talked to, size does matter to an extent.You can be to small or large, although average seems to holy grail.
I happen to have a rather long member, which is more of a curse than being small.
No woman wants to ride me, cause it hurts if they sit completly down on it.
They don't like doggie style because it doesn't give them the control they need to prevent me from fully inserting.
So I'm always stuck on top, and when my woman does get on top, she leans completly forward, face to face with me so that I can't fully insert.
And when I'm on top, she won't let me put her legs on my shoulder.
So although I still have a great sex life, I feel very limited in my options, which makes sex get boring after a while doing the same thing over and over. Especially since I'm cursed with a woman who doesn't suck cock. Grrrrrrrr!
So to sum up my sex life:
Forplay is next to none, since if we do have forplay, it's mostly me doing all the work. And I've put my foot down, as of late, saying "If she won't go down, Niether will I."
Sexual positions are limited for me, since certain ones cause pain instead of pleasure for my woman. Basically limited to 3, her on top leaned forward, me on top leaned forward, or lying down side by side.
So to answer your question, YES, size does matter. But bigger is not always better.
Posted by CatKnight on May 01 2002,18:14
wow dsl you are only 7 and a half inches tall? you must be some sort of super-midget!
Posted by Wiley on May 01 2002,18:17
| Quote (jim @ 01 May 2002,10:05) |
| I'm cursed with a woman who doesn't suck cock. |
Dude, that aint right
Posted by Wolfguard on May 01 2002,18:30
| Quote (BlackFlag @ 27 April 2002,16:49) |
| im a Flyers fan, and hockey pucks aren't something i'd normaly associate with sex............. |
or scoring...
Posted by kuru on May 01 2002,19:08
A chick who doesn't give head?She should be sent to a re-education camp immediately!
Posted by jim on May 01 2002,20:51
Yeah, I've been quite screwed my whole life in the blow job department.Every girl I've ever been with has fallen into one of the following categories:
(a few women) Doesn't give head at all.
(lots of women) Doesn't like giving head, and doesn't give good head on the occasions that she agrees to.
(very few women) Loves a mouthful of cock, but sucks so bad at it hurts from tooth scrapage.
(a few women) Doesn't like giving head, but is EXTREMELY good at it on the rare occasion she performs. <--That is my current situation.
There has been only one exception to this where for a very brief period of time I dated a women who loved to give head, and was very good at it. Unfortunatley, she had kids and I couldn't see myself getting serious with her, and we agreed to break up.
Posted by kuru on May 01 2002,20:58
I don't understand why someone would not like to give head (either dude -> chick or chick -> dude). It's a great rush to know that you can that actively control your partner's pleasure. It's an incredible power-trip and turn on to know exactly what will make them growl and meow. <warning: slut alert>
I like to give head. I like being good at it. I like when my male tells people I gave him the best blowjobs he ever got. I'd hate to think I gave bad head, and I sure as hell wouldn't be evil enough to withhold that. And c'mon, the dick size thing, unless it's 10 inches long... most chicks are exaggerating the 'uncomfortableness'.
After all, if a 10 lb BABY can fit in there, so can an 8.5" dick.
Posted by Wiley on May 01 2002,21:22
| Quote (kuru @ 01 May 2002,12:58) |
| most chicks are exaggerating the 'uncomfortableness'. |
I think it depends on the chick. My chick is 5' and 95lbs ...I don't think she has quite the dick capacity of a larger woman. It's just an issue of scale.
Jim, women with kids give better head because they pretty much have to.
Posted by kuru on May 01 2002,22:26
You do realize you're talking about the most elastic organ in the human body, right?If a person with dwarfism can push out a 6 lb baby without tearing up the middle, a 5' tall chick can handle an 8.5" dick.
Posted by jim on May 01 2002,22:37
Just because they "can", doesn't mean it's not painful.A pecker is not meant to enter the area where the baby resides, and when you knock on that wall, chicks don't dig it.
Posted by Wiley on May 01 2002,22:51
| Quote (kuru @ 01 May 2002,14:26) |
| If a person with dwarfism can push out a 6 lb baby without tearing up the middle, a 5' tall chick can handle an 8.5" dick. |
A dwarf has a regulation size body with little arms and legs ...their abdomen's are probably still bigger then my gf's. I'm just saying that too big for a pigmy may not be too big for an amazon. Either way I can't relate because hell if I would want anything of substance stuffed into me.
Posted by kuru on May 01 2002,22:55
I'm deferring to the comedian who said that after watching women's gymnastics, he doesn't want any more shit about his dick being too big.'If a woman can smack her cervix off a frozen piece of theatre rope, there's nothing my cock can do to hurt it.'
I still think that a mind trip - trying to inflate the guy's ego about the size of his dick.
Posted by jim on May 02 2002,18:07
kuru, no offense, but you must have a really big snatch.You certainly seem to be an exception, and not the rule.
Posted by kuru on May 02 2002,18:15
I don't really think I do, because well, if it were all 'loose' I'd probably not get much pleasure out of average sized guys.And not to be gross, but I did know a chick who had a 'big snatch', and basically she couldn't keep a regular size tampon in there.
I don't have that problem.
Posted by Wiley on May 03 2002,02:10
forget the dicks ...let's talk about the size of Jim's balls! 
Posted by kuru on May 03 2002,02:43
Really big.Really round.
Really hairy.
COJONES!
Posted by BlackFlag on May 03 2002,09:07
| Quote |
| It's just an issue of scale. |
gotta agree with wiley here. last g/f was very short&petite... and my 5" mini-missile was more than she could handle. penis/cervix collisions weren't too much fun for either of us. After a while though, her vagina adjusted (lengthened slightly over time.) don't ask me how.
edit: also she was tight as hell when we first started gettin it on. too tight. That also changed. (no, my dick didn't shrink; i measured it to make sure.)
Posted by Wiley on May 03 2002,20:53
They sell this Kegal excersie thing that is basically a series of heavy metal balls with a rod between them. Each ball varies in size from small to big. Basically your gf inserts the thing and stands up. Then she tries to stop it at each of the balls as it slides out. The ones at the ends are vey small and she must clamp on it very tightly as it has the force of the heavier balls weighing it down. Keeps everything nice and tight. 
Posted by veistran on May 03 2002,20:55
it does more than that. it gives her a lot more control of those muscles... so she can clamp down on other things... and piss standing up.
Posted by kuru on May 03 2002,21:06
Kegals can be done with or without the barbell, but the idea is to strengthen the pelvic muscles. It's easier with the barbell; however, that thing is rigid enough that some chicks find it really really uncomfortable.Kegals are wonderful, and they say it works great for chicks who've had kids. That one I wouldn't know about.
Posted by The_Stomper on May 04 2002,00:30
Glad I don't have the problem of a petite girlfriend. I just wouldn't fit in there too comfortably, I wouldn't imagine.My two cents on the "does it matter" stuff ... well, all I know is from Robin Williams ...
"You can't make butter with a toothpick."
Posted by Vulu on May 04 2002,00:44
5-->| Quote (jim @ 01 May 2002,055) |
| Especially since I'm cursed with a woman who doesn't suck cock. Grrrrrrrr! |
you poor, poor man
as for this whole 'my petite girlfriend can't handle my big fucking monster of a cock' bullshit; it depends. my girlfriend is 5'1" 100lbs and she can handle my 7" penis. i think, in general, size does not matter -- be it penis, pussy, or weight/height. statistically, womens internals are about 5" long and mens dicks barely over 5": a perfect match. but the vaginal wall is made to stretch some. that is, few women have problems with big dicks (by big i'm talking under 8" because anything more than that belongs in a freak show).
personally, i think the most important is pussy _tension_. i love a pussy that just grabs on to my dick and holds on for dear life...
Posted by Mhoraigh on May 04 2002,10:57
female perspective (or at least mine and stories from friends):it matters more if they know how to use their entire bodies..
I had one friend who had to take several advil before she could have sex with her boyfriend because it was too big (and this is a girl who has a reputation of having a huge...anyway).
I can't really say anything, having only been with one guy. But from that experience - I got nothing from it - I imagine if it had been longer I might've, but I think the main reason it did nothing for me was because once we hit the sex part of things all the teasing and playing was put aside for thrusting - personally I think I need the other stimulants as well. It seemed at that point that it became about him and less about us (or perhaps I'm just selfish and it became less about me).
As for the oral part of this conversation - I can't go down on guys very easily. I have jaw problems and so it ends up not being pleasurable for either of us. It's not so much by choice that I don't, but more by physical incapability.
The gymnastics bit is wrong - I know a woman who was struck in the crotch by a practice sword during a sparring session. She passed out from the pain. Guys are not the only ones who can get hurt down there.
Posted by kuru on May 04 2002,16:00
I have severe TMJ (had surgery for it) and I haven't had a problem giving head.I've found that it helps to just keep from having my jaw in one position for long periods of time - so I add in some licking to give my joint a break.
Posted by Wiley on May 04 2002,18:23
Would it be wrong to call in a pinch sucker if your woman was unable to perform in the oral department? I would allow her a pinch snuggler to take my place when we were finished and I wanted to go watch some TV.
Posted by kuru on May 04 2002,19:19
As long as you and she are both down with experiencing physical stuff with third parties, it's no big deal.
Posted by veistran on May 04 2002,19:21
| Quote (Wiley @ 04 May 2002,12:23) |
| Would it be wrong to call in a pinch sucker if your woman was unable to perform in the oral department? I would allow her a pinch snuggler to take my place when we were finished and I wanted to go watch some TV. |
This reminds me of an episode of the man show...
Posted by Mhoraigh on May 05 2002,03:00
perhaps it's just inexperience on my part and the jaw thing will change with time - shrugas for a "pinch sucker" - it all depends on how comfortable you are with each other and other partners...
Posted by BlackFlag on May 05 2002,11:57
some people say bad head is better than no head. i dissagree.
Posted by Beldurin on May 05 2002,18:19
| Quote (BlackFlag @ 05 May 2002,05:57) |
| some people say bad head is better than no head. i dissagree. |
I disagree w/your disagreement...unless it involves the tooth drag *shudder*
Posted by kuru on May 05 2002,20:26
Mhoraigh:Try some advil beforehand or right after.
Cuts down on joint inflammation, makes things a little better.
Posted by BlackFlag on May 05 2002,21:31
that was exactly what i was reffering to beldurin.