sorry for not posting to my own topic, but i have been away from the internet during spring break. in any case...damien: i realize its in old question, but i dont think it has ever been sufficiently answered. why i thought i could be answered now when it couldnt before, i dont know.
as for the rest of the posts: thats all fine and dandy, except that means i cant put any moves on her because in her mind we're just friends.
having read some of the other forums, i think we are dealing with a major problem, but i have come up with a solution. we can start a non profit organization like the ad council or something and run tv commercials whose purpose it is to educate women on the folly of thier ways.
imagine a famous actor walking on screen. he says "women, are you doing this?" (shows scene depicting girls acting all chummy, but not wanting to date) "then chances are you are really pissing someone off. stop. now."
or if that doesnt work how about this one. "why are good men so hard to find? CAUSE YOU KEEP BLOWING THEM OFF WITH THIS LETS JUST BE FREINDS CRAP!!!" maybe thats to harsh. also dont take the above as me saying im some great guy or something, cause i know im not that great, but then again i cant be too bad or they wouldnt hang out with me in the first place right?
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