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This post is inspired by my X.

Now she has decided to take up a position out of state, with her new job (claiming that the raise would make it easier on me for what I have to pay her). She will take the kids of course, and I can see them on holidays.

BULLSHIT... She doesn't understand that I don't care about money, I could be broker then shit (which I am), and as long as I have those kids... I'm fine. This is going to be a long, nasty, no-holds-bar court battle... THIS MEANS WAR!!!!

And I have discovered that all women are like this. They will leave at the first sign of trouble becuase "they can't deal with it." All women under the age of 22-23 are not worth it, they havn't let it all go yet; therefore, they can never be trusted. They either pull your heart out of your ass, or they pull your wallet out of you pants.

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You know- I understand that these forums and hence these threads are male dominated. I'm 22 and I would want my kids to have a dad (thats if I even had kids, which I dont but thats not the point). Not all women are like your ex. I will say that some are but not all of us.
As far as your kids are concerned. I would tell you this. I have a friend he's 27 and has 2 kids under the age of 7. His wife moved them out of state about 3 years ago. He's been working and paying for them all that time. He didnt have the cash to go thru court battles for them and he thought it would be harder on them anyway. Now its three years later and shes back with the kids- they know who their father is, how much he loves them etc...see it doesnt matter where you are as long as your kids know that you made the effort to love them etc....when you get the money etc to take them from her thats when you should do it...But for now I would say you should let her go with them just call often, visit often and keep giving them the things they need materalistically and they will never feel as if you abandonded them. Then when you have your life together you can take her to court.
How old are they?

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I've noticed more women act like your X than not. The courts have always been biased towards men in custity cases, so I don't know if your going to have much luck. Why is it that women get to decide what happens to the kids? And you can't tell me she didn't know that taking that other job would involve taking your kids away from you. Damnit, that just isn't fair to do to a guy who loves his kids. I say fight her on this, but only too a point. Too often stuff like this just degenerats into both parents trying to hurt each other using the kids. I guess if you can show that she is really doing this to remove the kids from your life you might be able to get custidy of them, but it will be a long shot. Just don't lose sight of who the real victims here: the kids.
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PostIcon Posted on: Feb. 21 2001,16:31 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
Well the courts do tend to side with the mother by default on these things unless there is compelling evidence against her. That said, you may wish to turn this to your advantage by having a sex change operation. That way you'd both be mothers in a sense, and also it would illustrate your devotion to the courts.

You may also consider murdering their mother.

Just a thought.

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just say that you'll kill her if you dont get the kids... no wait that wouldnt work...hmm let me think up something else

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Well, now that DuSTman has degraded this thread to include homicide...WOW!

I understand what you're going through though, whtdrgn_2. My wife and I almost split up and I would have been without my son. But I agree with ALMOST everyone else. If you do have a court battle, makes sure you are doing it for the right reasons. Your kids best interests should be the only incentive. If they'll be better of in their mothers custody, leave them there and be a good father. If you TRULY believe they should be raised in her house, fight. But everyone else is right about men and women in custody suits too. You'll have to prove her to be an unfit mother in order to get custody. That can get really ugly. And if there's one thing a DO NOT recommend, it's creating or perpetuating a situation where the two of you can even be in the same room together. My parents ended up that way and I hated them for putting me through that.

Basically, I'm just trying to say, if you're gonna fight, stay above the belt.

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Jeez! Get back on topic it was getting interesting.

Yes, chrissy- these forums are male dominated. But hey, it still doesn't make up for everything else that is, in its own way female dominated. What the hell, I mean thats all I hear nowadays. "Men are bad, women are good" and "NO! Men are good, women are bad!" and the like. Really, if they have problems they should just say "fuck being civil" and start to kill each other...

Of course thats the average people I'm talking about, not us mighty detnetters.

its pretty shitty to just walk into the world to see two groups pretty much secretively fighting each other.

tell me something that men generally do within these degrees, id like to know.

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not all women are evil, but almost all of them are capable of *extreme* evil.

i sincerely hope your ex falls in a well. she sounds like one of those ultra-bitches that have become the reason i will not hang out with chicks.

and so what if the dude is currently hating all chicks, one did some pretty nasty vile things to him. and believe me, anybody who'd scream at him for his statements has at one point in her life hated MEN because of what one man has done, or made the statement 'men suck' or 'i hate men'.

so leave him alone. he has every freakin right to be pissed.

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Yeah well no one said he didn't kuru-

You want to hear another story- you think women are so evil and as kuru suggest capable of "extreme" evil. Men are too.

My bf's sister has a three year old daughter (his sister is my age 22)The father of the baby doesn't pay child support, barely calls and is in general and asshole to his daughter. Case in point the baby's birthday- the father's mother and grandmother bought the baby toys for her birthday- the father who just got remarried to a woman who had a three year old girl also took the toys away from the baby and gave them to his new "daughter" Then when the baby's mother (my bf's sister) told him that he couldnt have her for xmas (because yes she has custody of the baby) because of what he did to her at her bday he called CPS on her. Saying that she was an unfit mother and that she doesnt feed her or wash her or take care of her. I can tell you that the baby's mother (young though she is) is quite capable of washing and feeding her daughter. Not to mention that my bf, his brother and his parents all take turns with the baby. She is anything but neglected. Her restraining order against the baby's father says that he is not allowed to use third party advocates on the childs behalf to gain custody of her. Yet he walks right through all of that and goes to a different county where they have no record of it. Right now my bf's sister is in a court battle to keep the kid. The baby's father is an alcoholic, drug abusing, gun toting redneck who could careless for the baby and just wants the money that child support would bring in for more drugs, booze and guns....

You think women are evil, I think men can be just as evil.
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