Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh, you've come to the right place my friend.To bad you don't have an unlimited budget, otherwise I'd know just the reciever for you.
Just make sure you get one with S-Video switching and at least 2 (preferably 3) optical inputs.
Make sure it's Dobly Digital.
My recommendation goes for the Sony DEH-945. Or 845 if you don't need multiple zone outputs for multiple rooms in your house.
You won't regret it. Just remember that HDTV is slowly becomeing the standard, as is component video *note* note composite. Difference is component video is made up of 3 wires and composite only one. So all the money you spend on an A/V reciever may go down the tube once component video dominates.
If that worries you then get a cheap reciever and a bad ass amp. This way you can buy external AUTOMATIC video and audio switchers and not worry about upgrading your reciever every other year.
Seriously, if you have questions, post them here or email me.
I'm a Home Theater guru....
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