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ok, I've never done anything with a girl in my life and Im 19!!!! anyways, I need some suggests of things to do with her. She knows of fun things, but I want to seem a little knowledgeable.
So post away!!! Now I don't plan on actually intercourse, so don't need any of that stuff. But everything else goes. =)
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Try taking a shower together. It can be quite fun.
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One word... SPOON!

Nothing like a good spooning.

But, please, you wanker. Don't get all excited about having a gf and do all the public displays of affection stuff. If makes everybody uncomfortable and sickens them. I mean, I really hate that and I've had to witness it too many times. Yuck.

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Baby steps man! That is WHY the "base" system was invented!! Go from base to base in order, and you should be fine...

1st base:
Kissing
Also know as above the shoulders... touch her hair... massage her neck... traid hickies... it's all good.

2nd base:
Breast touching
Also know as about the waist... just go for it!... but please make sure that you don't do it like you're tuning a radio or handling a peice of scientific equiptment (what I've heard)... any chicks out there who can give advice on how YOU want the breast manhandling to go?

3rd base:
Fingering/Hand jobs
Also know as below the waist... I haven't made it this far, so I can't help you... but as far as I can tell, in modern America, oral sex also comes under third base (although it used to be 5th)

4th base:
duh!


Anywaze, as for side trip to the "bases":

When dancing make sure to do a tiny bit of groping.

When watching TV make sure you're "touching"... whether it be side by side, hands, or arm over shoulder... keep the contact going.

Make sure that at some point you REALLY look into her eyes at nose to nose range (but don't do it more than twice or it gets creepy). 1) Some how that's a good assment of her (don't ask me how THAT works, but it does) 2) Chicks dig that 3) It gives you a chance to tell her how pretty they are.

When ordering icecream, wait for her to order first... then say, "OH! I wanted the same thing, we should just get a big one on a cone and share!" (that doesn't work with banana splits... but if she's ordering banana splits you'd better watch out for fatness anyway!)

TICKLING! WHEE! Don't take it too far though...

Ok, hope that helps... I'm out of ideas for the second over here.

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true about the public thing, but "fun" stuff in public is great.

for example, the rollercoaster scene in "fear" (if you don't know, the guy fingers his gf on a rollercoaster). anything like that in public is great, b/c the knowledge that you could get caught makes it all the more fun. another example, fingering or oral sex on the bus ride back from prom (if you take buses, as we did...)

basically, anything like that in a public place is really fun. showering and naked jacuzzi's, too...

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PostIcon Posted on: Nov. 06 2000,17:45 Skip to the previous post in this topic. Skip to the next post in this topic. Ignore posts   QUOTE
well, spoon huh? more details, come on, a little hint. Also, Im not thinking about public places all that much. a little more private areas?? come on, I know u guys/girls have the good stuff. Hints at the very least?? :-)
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damnit. i had a big long reply typed then mshtml.dll caused an invalid page fault...

anyways, good call PersonGuy. the bases (with the 5th tagged on) is a good way to work. and lord knows i could have behaved better when i went to a concert this weekend with my gf. and last time we went to the cinema...

one thing to remember is not to overdo it on third. start with one finger. if she obviously wants more, then move up by one. if she seems comfortable, stay there for a while. leave a time gap (i.e. days) before trying with more. she'll appreciate it.

but NEVER push anything she dosen't seem 417\% happy with.

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remember, kiddies. there's more to life than sex. it's fine to let sex revolve around a relationship - don't let a relationship revolve around sex. unless you're just after a quick fuck. in which case, a new partner every night is alot more cost effective.

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uh, this just a little female advice, but i'd say don't worry too hard about any set rules or 'what you're supposed to do when'

just spend time with your girl, be affectionate, and it'll flow for you how it does. there's nothin worse than a guy who has a "playbook" hidden under the bed.

altho, backrubs, bubble baths, makin out a lot, and sleepin naked in the same bed are really great.

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Yah, kuru's right! Don't plan too far in advance or anything. The trick is that it should all come naturally, and when the time is right, you'll know! Just make sure that when you "know that the time is right" you don't just sit there like a lump. Just do it!

MAKE A MALE VIRGIN SLEEP NAKED IN THE SAME BED AS A NAKED WOMAN AND NOT HAVE SEX!!!!! Tourture I say! Scratch that off the list! If Stalin didn't think of that one... shame on him!

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Hey thats some good stuff Kuru. Unfortanetly there is no bathtub =(, only a college dorm room size shower. But Im sure we can find something to interests us while in there. Backrubs is cool and most definatly the bed thing is a must =) hehe.

Personal Guy, thx for the reminder of the base thing, and yes it is cruel to be in bed and not have sex, but I must put a line someplace and that was the only thing that I don't want to do YET!!!! Im proud I have lasted this long and want it to last a while longer.

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