well.... here's the thing. Generally I think I have the dating game pretty figured out... I can have a friend call me and tell me what is going on with him and some chick and I know from experience and common sense where they stand.I can get a relationship going, but I'm a very very non-stereotypable person that is VERY dynamic.
Ex: computer savvy developer who runs his own company at 15, hangs out with anyone from the preppiest preps to the biggest drug users. uses hallucinogens himself. personality... athiest, logic-based. dislikes cliques or clique-like behavior. dresses in jeans and a random t-shirt (doesn't care about fashion)
So, this leaves me in an interesting spot. The only people who I can put up with that aren't too clique-esque really dislike the idea that a potential boyfriend smokes weed, drinks DXM, has huffed freon a few times... and the works.
So let me modify my question to this: How would you suggest I work with this? People tend to be nervous around someone who doesn't fit a stereotype, and it's very painful at times.
It's not like I couldn't get a girlfriend... hell, there are some chicks at my school that obviously like me. The problem is that their personalities are too flat for my liking. I tend to dislike people who pimp the christian morales they are so insecure about as fact and refuse to hear me out when I try to present my logic behind my values (or lack thereof in some areas).
So basically I could hook the ropes with a chick but I want to be with someone I can be wholly honest with and not fear that I'd make them uncomfertable or wierded out...
This message has been edited by RenegadeSnark on February 09, 2001 at 07:18 AM
, and hanging out with an insecure fatty from a bad family... I can't get laid... that's why it's called, "Getting lucky."
