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hmm wonder what type of advice one can get on detnet........
well, please be serious about this.....
im 16 (10th grade) shes 15 (9th)
now the situation:

this chick im really tight with used to like me
but when she liked me, i liked someone else..... that was 2 years ago
so now i like her a lot and she has no feelings for me (in that way)
what to do????

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I doubt you get any serious advice out of these people. My advice would be along the lines of persue, persue, and do it some more. Either she'll get really pissed (in which case you probably wouldn't want her anyways) or she'll start diggin you again. And if that's not good enough advice this is the best I can give: Carpe Diem.

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There's always hypnotherapy and mind-control techniques.
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Why cant I get laid? It's not like i'm on the computer ALL day. only around 8hrs.
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if you love something set it free, if it comes back to you it is your forever. If it dont come back stalk it till it files a restraining order.

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Bah! Don't ask me for advice.

You'd probably be better off asking a wall how it holds up the ceiling-
You wouldn't get an answer, but at least the wall would know what it's talking about.

On a more serious note, just ask her out. See how it goes.

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The best advice I ever heard was, "Don't want what you can't have"
But in this situation, i don't know if you can't have this girl. Have you persued a relationship with her lately? Take her on a date maybe, f*ck her brains out, buy her ice cream. Try some of these things, and see what happens.

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Originally posted by Proteun:
The best advice I ever heard was, "Don't want what you can't have"
But in this situation, i don't know if you can't have this girl. Have you persued a relationship with her lately? Take her on a date maybe, f*ck her brains out, buy her ice cream. Try some of these things, and see what happens.


I've asked her if i could do the second... didnt work..
im trying for the first now..
but shes not diggin it.... she wants to 'just be friends...' you know how it is..
and it blows major balls...

also, she is afraid of commitment (did i say that in my first post?)

also, thanks to you who did reply with something reasonable...

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y0 slate, take some advice from me, I've been around this girl/women game a while and I know a few ins and outs (mostly accompanied by those lovely bubbly-squelchy sounds that happen when... ).

If you really want to be with her, and she isnt interested in being anything but "just friends" and is afraid of commitment - Ask her this "If you are afraid of commitment so much, why are you committing your relationship with me to a "just friends" level? I mean, if you were so afraid of commitment then you wouldnt even be friends with me.." and if she answers that intelligently and still manages to come out on top and maintaining that "just friends" stuff, then you really are screwed, and the only other alternative is as follows :-

Take her off to one side sometime, and have some meaningless conversation, and when its half through and you're running out of things to say, say this - "Hey, just to go off topic for a second, what would you say if I asked you out at the time when you really liked me?" if she says she would have been happy and you would probably still be together, ask her another question along the lines of "Well if you're sure that we would still be together and you're sure you'd have been happy with me then, why are you so sure that we cant be happy together now?" if she answers intelligently with a rational and logical explanation, then as I said before, you're really screwed.

Other than what I just said, there really is not many other solutions, my favourite after that last conversational item I mentioned would just be to do one thing as you are parting - When she turns away from you and is about to leave, grab her hand, pull her back, and give her you're best most passionate kiss you can, and give it like you mean it. If she pushes you away, you're TOTALLY screwed. If she steps back and says "wow!" you might be getting somewhere. If it gets any better than that, get it on home video and then upload it to the web so I can find out what happens

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Take her off to one side sometime, and have some meaningless conversation, and when its half through and you're running out of things to say, say this - "Hey, just to go off topic for a second, what would you say if I asked you out at the time when you really liked me?" if she says she would have been happy and you would probably still be together, ask her another question along the lines of "Well if you're sure that we would still be together and you're sure you'd have been happy with me then, why are you so sure that we cant be happy together now?" if she answers intelligently with a rational and logical explanation, then as I said before, you're really screwed.


ok..
i asked..
the dreadful answer man.......
thats all need be said

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